Well I sometimes text girls but I send like two or three messages while they'll only send one. My buddy told me it makes me look desperate, or thirsty, of like I'm hooked on the girls nuts or whatever lol... I personally don't think so but I thought is get a couple of opinions before I decide not to text her. My emotions are telling me don't rush things. I'll give you a small example of what I mean, check out the screen shot.
Okay guys do you think I'm doing too much? Should I fall back on texting this girl? I like her but I don't wanna look desperate or make her think she's got me wrapped around her finger like a puppet. But then again I don't wanna back off and she gets the impression that I'm not interested anymore...
You shouldn't send so many messages & wait a while to respond
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Your not sending too many messages your fine.
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Personally I dislike when people text me a lot
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Personally I don't mind a lot of messages in a text, just call or meet up
Texts are hard for anyone to read, especially from someone the rest of us have no idea about. Maybe that's how she texts to everyone, but from first impressions it does sound like you're more into her than she is to you. But just bordering on that though.. like it's not TOO bad, you just need to watch for whether or not you're the only one putting in the effort to make the conversation continue.
In a row like that, you should only send a maximum of 3 texts. It gets incredibly annoying when people do it often or send more than 3. Take the time to type your response. Even if it takes you 5-10 minutes to answer someone, it's still better than sending several short texts.
Don't worry about the length of a text. It will still send long messages. This isn't like the flip phones where you have a small character limit.
I think you're coming on a bit too strong and as if you're trying too hard. I think 2/3 messages is fine but if it's more than that and they're pinging through to my phone I'll get annoyed with it, try and keep everything to one message maybe.