Well I sometimes text girls but I send like two or three messages while they'll only send one. My buddy told me it makes me look desperate, or thirsty, of like I'm hooked on the girls nuts or whatever lol... I personally don't think so but I thought is get a couple of opinions before I decide not to text her. My emotions are telling me don't rush things. I'll give you a small example of what I mean, check out the screen shot.
Okay guys do you think I'm doing too much? Should I fall back on texting this girl? I like her but I don't wanna look desperate or make her think she's got me wrapped around her finger like a puppet. But then again I don't wanna back off and she gets the impression that I'm not interested anymore...
- You shouldn't send so many messages & wait a while to respond50%(9)46%(12)Vote38%(3)
- Your not sending too many messages your fine.33%(6)31%(8)Vote25%(2)
- Personally I dislike when people text me a lot0%(0)4%(1)Vote12%(1)
- Personally I don't mind a lot of messages in a text, just call or meet up17%(3)19%(5)Vote25%(2)
Most Helpful Girl
I think you're coming on a bit too strong and as if you're trying too hard. I think 2/3 messages is fine but if it's more than that and they're pinging through to my phone I'll get annoyed with it, try and keep everything to one message maybe.1
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend hate hate hates it when I do that.0