So there's this girl I like alot, we have been friends for about 3 months now. At first it was great we where just friends but it quickly grew to be more than that, we had half ass talks about liking each other we would hold hands, it never really went past that. We where also seeing a lot of each other. The first 2 months or so we hung out on our off days, we practically gad the same schedule, we texted constantly, an we saw each other 7 days a week. She flirts with me all the time at work and ill flirt back. We recently took a trip to
Al, an after the trip she sent me a long ass message on fb saying she need a break, we needa focus on ourselves more. So we hardly speak for 2 -3 days after that, everything kinda goes back to normal, I talked to her about it, an she basically told me the opposite of what she sent me in the message. She still flirts with me at work just not as much, an she says all she wants is a,friendship. She says she gets crowded easily, I'm thinking we got to close so she backed out. To protect her feelings an emotions I'm guessing, she's never had a boyfriend. Friends in her past have droped an left her. I can understand her getting scard, but why still flirt with me like you want more, but back out when I get to close? An I know she won't admit she's scard. I just don't know, she's amazing. but she givws me all these mixed signals, she holds my hand, when I go to hold hers she pulls hers away. She makes it so obivious she likes me alot... And now we hardly text any, we hang out maybe twice a week, an both our scheduals changed randomly.. I just don't get it.?
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i think there's 3 conclusions in my own opinion based on my own experiences...
1. she is afraid you will hurt her the way she's been hurt in past relationships
2. she isn't ready for commitment and wants to be with a few people at once and play
Around.. and is possibly putting you on hold or adding you to her mix..
3. she doesn't know for sure if she feels so strongly about you anymore or has found