She flirts with me yet just wants to be friends?

So there's this girl I like alot, we have been friends for about 3 months now. At first it was great we where just friends but it quickly grew to be... Show More

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I forgot to add I text her goodnight\ morning, she picks an chooses when she replies. Should I stop txting her this?
Flirting isn't the only way she makes it obvious, and I do have a life outside of her lol. I get what ya are saying, thanks for tha advice! Sometimes in friendships emotions just get attached without trying, but I'm not going to let that happen..
The funny part about all this is I've never really had problems with girls, shs came along and was just amazing. I fell for her, then she just up an changed her feelings I'm guessing an it through me for a loop, kinda like a slap in tha face that stuned me.

Most Helpful Opinion

  • i think there's 3 conclusions in my own opinion based on my own experiences...

    1. she is afraid you will hurt her the way she's been hurt in past relationships

    2. she isn't ready for commitment and wants to be with a few people at once and play

    Around.. and is possibly putting you on hold or adding you to her mix..

    3. she doesn't know for sure if she feels so strongly about you anymore or has found

    another guy

    • I know its not another guy, but everything else is pretty posible... How is one to figure out which of these it is?

    • hm well if you become really close with her and she feels you're trust worthy she will most likely tell you about how hard past relationships have been on her..and that would go along with not being ready for a commitment too. get close to her you might have to play the friend part first. and best friends CAN become boyfriends so don't let the friend zone thing scare you.. that's only in some cases but I know tons of girls attracted to their good friends.. just too shy to speak up..

    • Thank you. lol I think I feel better bout all this.