Girls, if a guy friend of yours called you beautiful, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

What if you only saw him as a friend?

Uncomfortable

Upset

Happy

Other- please specify

[joyfilledbutterfly]

I feel uncomfortable...

I personally would only want my man to call me that not my bud.

Feels like my bud wants to become something mooore... Which fails the purpose of being friends. Now don't get me wrong a sincere complement is great, (ex I like your necklace) just when it becomes an overly casual thing , ex my friend right now keeps calling me beautiful, cutie, and gorgeous. When this keeps dragging on it starts to sound like. DARN IT WOMAN I LIKE YOU! WHHHY YOOOU NOO FEEL THE SAME WAAAY?! Lol okay I over emphasized buuut I think you catch my drift.

Im actually sending this too my guy friend right now.. the one previously mentioned.

thanks for the complement, but id appreciate it if you'd stop. Your weirding me out. Think of me as a male... Lol Now, I don't think a guy would complement another dude on a regular basis well, maybe if.. he's got a thaaannng for men.

[Oz0505]

Ok this really depends how close I am with my guy friend, lets say I am really close to him but I just see him as a friend I would feel happy about it and if he means it , I will feel much happier because I know for a fact guys don't usually call girls beautiful and its a strong word, but if my close friend says other stuff like " your so beautiful your like my dream girl" straight away ill think okay this guy likes me more then a friend. But as I said it depends on how close your with a person or not.

Definitlyy if I wasn't close to him then I ll think his flirting with meee and he thinks something might happen. Hopefully that helps you out goodluck!

[the-love-guru]

Anyone can call you beautiful. A gay guy called my friend beautiful. He may be paying you a genuine compliment. I'd be flattered,but if he makes any advances, gently tell him that you appreciate the compliments, but unfortunately only see him a a wonderful, platonic friend. The key is to let him down easy.

[InquisitiveMale]

If a guy called me beautiful I would be flattered but might reconsider his sexual orientation.

[drummerdude25]

Please specify?

Uhhmmm... because I'm a guy and want to see the results... ;)

[audreymarie21]

i think it's more about how they say it, as oppose to what they say. because "you're beautiful" could make me feel more uncomfortable then "i'd have sex with you' depending on how it's said, and the context it's used in... but generally, a compliment would just make me smile, and I'd be pleased. nothing more, nothing less.

[serm416]

It's still a compliment and who can afford to not have one thrown their way once an a while? Even if I only saw this person as a friend I'd be pleased...and may even consider the motive or reason for the delivery...It's for sure if the person said ugly things I'd ditch them...but compliments will make me want to be around the person more.

[-StillWater-]

I've actually had this happen to me...

He told me he would be thrilled if I wasn't as beautiful as I am, because then he could concentrate on everything else more!

I was kinda taken aback but I took it as a joke and smiled. Afterward, I felt happy that he thought I was beautiful! I mean...what's so bad in that? ;)

[JustDance]

Sounds like ur friend liiiiiikes yoooooooooooou <3

[Hollister78]

I second JustDance's comment lol

[-StillWater-]

Yeah...don't think so...he has a girlfriend! :P

[leedamas]

Depends how close we are when a friend I've known for a long time says I'm beautiful then I would probably kid around and call him beautiful too but if I'v only known him for a short amount of time calls me beautiful then I guess it would be okay but a bit awkward,

[Anonymous]

A gay guy friend told his potential significant other and to me that I'm BEAUTIFUL. Honestly, I don't know this gay guy friend all too well and for him to say that with a BIG smile on his face, made me want to cry. Aside from creeps who just want a one night stand quicky, I've never had anyone honestly say out loud that I am beautiful to me and to others! I got teary eyed and almost cried!
Straight guy friends still never have ever told me I'm beautiful. So to receive a sincere compliment is rare to me.

[Anonymous]

I felt WEIRD when I found out my good guy friend said about me: 'She is sexy'...

Because you know, my guy friend is like another best girlfriend and we often were joking

about girlie, sexy stuff but there were no attraction whatsoever... Until I moved and lost connection with my best friends. So when we met again it was different, I even liked him back (before I couldn't even think of liking my best guy friend, ew)!

[chickitabanana]

i would be happy! and yes, even if I thought of him as only a friend

it has happened to me before and on the outside I acted a little skeptical but on the inside I was very flattered, so don't be fooled if she acts a little funny :)

[Milton]

i said "happy", I would be pretty cool with a friend calling me beautiful haha. the only thing that would make me feel uncomfortable is if this guy liked me, and I didn't return the feelings.

[calixsoul]

I would actually fell quite uncomfortable at first because I would probably think he was coming on to me. And since he is my friend I wouldn't necessarily guess that he sees me that way, so it would catch me off guard. However, after, I would feel happy.

[Besu4]

Everyone likes to be complimented! Although I would be on the look out for other signs that he wants to be more than just friends and I would then address that issue if it came up.

[jrose]

If I only saw him as a friend and knew he only saw me that way, I'd feel good about it because what girl doesn't like being called beautiful by anyone, especially of the male persuasion of any age.

[somerandomdude21]

Lol..."persuasion"....

[ILoveCefalu]

If one of my guy friends told me I was beautiful, I would probably blush, smile, laugh and then thank them.

[nikita]

No matter who it is, it's always flattering when someone calls you beautiful. It makes you feel good

[silenttype]

It's a compliment, it's not always meant in a 'more than a friend' matter, I think.

[AnnVdB]

flathered. I shouldn't tho because it doesn't matter, but I always feel flathered when someone says that to me.

[emzy-89]

for one of my guy friends to call a girl beautiful is a rarity so when they do that's a HUGE compliment! it doesn't mean they're trying to crack onto you either...most of the time. lol.

[Anonymous]

my guy friend calls me gorgeous all the time! its just him letting me know I look good for a prince charming =) and I do the same by letting him know when he looks good and what girls want

[stillagoodgirl]

I get uncomfortable, maybe because it's usually a friend that I don't have any interest in

[six30two]

This question is stupid because it doesn't say who the guy friend is. Girls would react differently based on what kind of friend this guy is.

[RinaRainbow]

Well if he didn't say it in a sexual way then I'd feel happy

he sees me that way.