This guy and me have gotten pretty close and I've developed feelings for him. I'm pretty sure he likes me too but we've kind of been ignoring each other. He has started talking to a lot of other girls, so is he trying to make me jealous? I'll admit I'm making him jealous too. Although we still talk and flirt, do you think he still likes me or has he moved on? Should we keep doing this, I mean it won't get us anywhere so why are we playing games?
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I'm pretty much in the same spot as you. I'm assuming that you probably both have the same idea that you'll get more attention from who you like if you keep trying to make them jealous. But you're right, that's not going to get you two anywhere. If anything it might drive you two apart so that you both want to just get other each other and move on. The guy I like is trying to make me jealous by flirting with some of my female friends in front of me and I've done the same to him. The only thing it's done for me is make me seriously consider moving on at least four times. The only way it's gonna stop is if you stop trying to make each other jealous. Try giving him some really clear signals that you would love to go out with him. That way he will see you really like him and he'll most likley stop playing games.
I don't know perhaps you should ask yourself why "you're playing games" first. Perhaps before passing judgement on others. Just a thought. Perhaps you should stop playing games. As you even admitted they get you nowhere. Although I doubt he's playing games. If he's talkin to that many women. He's moved on most likely.
if I were you I would text him at this very moment to straighten things out. tell him that you are wondering if all these other girls mean a thing to him, since the other guys don't mean anything to YOU.
you have to tell him what you feel before it turns into nothing. I just lost a great potential relationship when we tried to get each other jealous.
haha. I'm in the exact situation. Woa this situation do happen often huh. haaha. Well the guy that I kinda likes, he is a player. *sighs* well I think you should try and hang out with him instead of ignoring him because I have tried that ( ignoring the guy ) and it doesn't work, it just make myself more stress about whether does he really have feelings for me. Well...just hang out, get closer to him and then see what he wants. I hoped that helped...