now this has happened with more than one guy so I'm beginning to think its me... here is how it goes - we hang out , I try to play it cool. they usually make the first move either try to kiss me or something. One instance the guy and I had been texting a while , he invited me over to watch movies ( we had partied together a few times before) I went over just as friends - he kissed me! I liked him but didn't want things to be awkward so after the kiss I just said I had to go and good night. we hung out again , got drunk , and made out a lot. he couldn't wait to hang out again - so we did but I was more cautious and just cuddled didn't kiss much. he never called again. Another guy took me on a date so perfect!kissed at the end of it then another night he asked me to a party - we got drunk and made out , I left the next morning. he couldn't wait to invite me over the next night - but only after he had been drinking! I was offended and said why are you inviting me over at 1am? he apologized and took me for a date another day - but after that never called again. happens a lot we hang out like twice and then I never hear from them again. most guys text me at eleven at night! invite me over! but don't ask me on a date...why? I usually don't go over and if I do I try to act respectable...
Why do they always invite me to their house but not on a date?
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