So, had 2 great dates with this guy and we really seemed to connect etc etc. He asked me out on both when we met in a bar one night and I thought he was really cocky but what the hey.
2 weeks later we went out and after the 1st he text me 3 days later and asked me out again. Great, I thought, finally a man that takes charge and even though he came across as confident he was not aggressive or self-involved at all which surprised me. Both took place in the same week even!
At the end of the date 2 he asked me up for a coffee and we started getting a little frisky - all PG, mostly just kissing. I stated clearly that I was not going to sleep with him though and he said he had a gym injury and couldn't anyway.
He walked me back to the train station and I said "You have really surprised me in that you have turned into a person I didn't expect to be in such a positive way".
He didn't reply and so I tried to explain it better and now feel like a numb nuts that I confessed this.
I text him when I got home to say goodnight and thank you and congratulations on his passing a test he had done that day. No reply.
After 3 days of silence I eventually just text him inquiring how his week was going? He responded with an okay and how was mine and my problems I was having with a manager that had come up in conversation on date 2. I replied it was all fine and haven't heard anything since. It has now been 5 days since our date and he has not asked me out again.
Did I offend him by my comment? Should I ask if I did and apologize? Should I ask HIM out and explain better? I said he is old-fashioned in his way of relationships, as in a man being a man etc which is perfect for me too so may not like it if I pursue him and don't want to come across as needy.
AAAAARGGH! I am really into him and cannot eat or sleep. I crave closure - if he's not that into me than fine, I'll just have to live with it but this waiting around is killing me! Help!
2 weeks later we went out and after the 1st he text me 3 days later and asked me out again. Great, I thought, finally a man that takes charge and even though he came across as confident he was not aggressive or self-involved at all which surprised me. Both took place in the same week even!
At the end of the date 2 he asked me up for a coffee and we started getting a little frisky - all PG, mostly just kissing. I stated clearly that I was not going to sleep with him though and he said he had a gym injury and couldn't anyway.
He walked me back to the train station and I said "You have really surprised me in that you have turned into a person I didn't expect to be in such a positive way".
He didn't reply and so I tried to explain it better and now feel like a numb nuts that I confessed this.
I text him when I got home to say goodnight and thank you and congratulations on his passing a test he had done that day. No reply.
After 3 days of silence I eventually just text him inquiring how his week was going? He responded with an okay and how was mine and my problems I was having with a manager that had come up in conversation on date 2. I replied it was all fine and haven't heard anything since. It has now been 5 days since our date and he has not asked me out again.
Did I offend him by my comment? Should I ask if I did and apologize? Should I ask HIM out and explain better? I said he is old-fashioned in his way of relationships, as in a man being a man etc which is perfect for me too so may not like it if I pursue him and don't want to come across as needy.
AAAAARGGH! I am really into him and cannot eat or sleep. I crave closure - if he's not that into me than fine, I'll just have to live with it but this waiting around is killing me! Help!
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