Nothing big just wanted to know. I hear it a lot by older women when I explain my situation they say "don't worry hun she'll regret treating you like that once its too late"
Have you ever regretted over looking or letting go of that "nice guy"?
I cling to them like there is no tomorrow. OK well I am not the clingy type but I can honestly say no I don't regret it because I have never let a guy go for being nice. I love nice guys. When I have had a break up with one it is for something else, we realize we would be better as friends and stuff like that. One left me to go back to his abusive ex. Not kidding, the stories he told me about her, she was emotionally and physically abusive. I kind of get it because she was just like his mom. I guess his mom instilled in him that is what he deserves. It makes me sad to this day to think about it. I hope he is doing fine now.
I once turned a nice guy into a douche, I don't know what I did but I know who he was when I first fell for him and who he turned into. His friends also told me he changed into a douche to girls when he was with me but when he lost me he regretted it and he is nice again. This is all coming from his friends.
I would think that girls would regret it when they get wiser and have more life experience and have had enough of the jerks.
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It really depends on the situation...most of the time, I like nice guys...I never go for "bad boys"...I don't understand why it is thought that most woman go for the "bad boy"...cause that is not what I see in real life. If a girl doesn't want you because you are a "nice guy"...she isn't worth your time...
However, in my situation...I get very frustrated with many guys I'm interested...they would be classified as "nice guys"...they seem very distant and closed down emotionally...and ignore my passes...it would be cool if they were just a tiny bit more aggressive, in a nicer way, though...but, that is just my situation...it could be me...
But my friends don't have a problem snagging a "nice guy"...their husbands/boyfriends are awesome!
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yeah I did regret letting go of a nice guy for he was really genuine and into me..this thought struck me two to three weeks ago and its like I really miss him..for guys as genuine and clear like him are hard to find..I regret for being a real jerk to him for at that time I was into some other guy who turned out to be a real pain the ass later on...I can't get back to him for he is committed with his girlfriend ryt nw..without him its not like there are so many guys around but it rare to find a guy like him..I regret it so much and want to get back with him but cant..why do I realize the worth of a nice guy only after losing him?
nice guys, why can't you just get it already? I'm a nice-guy and I already get it as to why girls always reject nice guys, I don't complain about it because I already know why, the one thing that pisses me off is that girls always have to notice or pay attention to every little small detail about us
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I've heard a few women say that they regret listening to their "friends" tell them who and who not to date when they were young, especially because those "friends" are long gone.
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I kind of regret letting go of the nice guy. I'm usually into the bad guys, but I had this one guy who was super nice. I hung on to him for a long time. We had fun together, but I didn't feel anything for him. He was great to have around, but I turned him into a jerk. He became a totally different person. I'm glad he found someone now. It sucks we will never be like we used to. He won't even talk to me or acknowledge me when I'm around.
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Regretted letting him go, no, but at the time I wished we would've had chemistry because he was a really cool guy.
I don't really understand how someone can wake up one day and realize it was a mistake rejecting someone. I feel like it takes hitting rock bottom with a different type of guy to realize you would've been better off with another. But even then, if you're not attracted to them, it's a lost cause. -
I've never been one of those girls. Girls who are like that usually have a guy who treats them badly or makes them feel bad and they wish he was nice like the guy they over looked a while back. I've seen the same thing happen with guys who go for the easy, b*tchy type, get burned, become bitter and jaded then get in this limbo between blaming the entire female gender for what they allowed a female to do to them and between wanting that "nice girl".
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no offense but that's one of those things people tell you to make yourself feel better, but in reality I have never regretted not choosing a guy. if I reject you its for a reason, he just wasn't right for me
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Of course not Buddy, they don't until there in their late twenties & early thirties when nobody wants to be serious with them but only bang them. Don't worry you've won Already.
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I will let you know if I ever meet a nice guy to let go of. But I like nice guys,so I wouldn't be silly enough to let go of something good unless there was a serious problem.
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idk from a girls perspective, but I haven't regretted losing a girl... I've been burned to many times to care anymore XP
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Nope I like nice guys the most (:
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