Why does she shy away from me if she sees me from a distance? Thanks for reading my details and for your answer!!

When I first met this girl about a month or 2 now she seemed very out going. she said she was a country girl. she was saying that when she throw another house party she would invite me because I was cool and we had a lot in common. a week or 2 after that last statement she spoke to me all the time first because she seen me before I seen her everything was going good. Now all of a sudden she seem to dodge me if she can. if she heading my way and she can't dodge me she would put her head down and look the other way. but when I speak to her and flirt with her she show smile at me and playfully touches me. when I'm with someone and talking to her she can look at me but she don't look long. but when I just stop conversing and let them talk I see and feel her eyes looking at me quickly and then look somewhere else before I notice. now when I look at her and speak she don't seem so outgoing she seem like a little girl that's lost. but around other she seem strong and very outgoing...WHY IS SHE ALL OF A SUDDEN ACTING SHY TOWARDS ME? SHOULD I JUST STOP TALKING TO HER WHEN I SEE HER AND MAKE HER JOB EASY? it's like she look at me as we walking but then as we get closer she put her head down until I come and flirt with her. why she not speaking to me first? did I do something wrong?


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  • She might just be really super shy. Some girls just don't know how to act when it comes to romantic feelings. She's probably also scared and unsure of what to say or do. If you really like her and want something to happen beyond the flirting, try to do things a little differently to make her more comfortable. Ask her questions about stuff she likes, buy her something cute and thoughtful from the store (doesn't have to be expensive) and most importantly, tell her how much you really like her. She might not really know how much you like her which could keep her from being completely open with you. She might just need a little watering and sunlight so she can open up a little. Let me know how it works out!

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      when I first met her she seemed so outgoing though. yea I do ask her more personal question to try and get to know her.i been heart by faily members very close family members soit feels like ting my feelings out there getting in haring them hurt by an outsider(not family member) is tought something I'm working on at the momment and it also makes me feel weak(I gues a man thing?)