Sometimes the guy doesn't really love you. They just say that because that's what they think you want to hear, because 99% of the time, it's the girl who falls in love first and then wants to rush the guy into love.
But if these guys really are getting that attached, it's one of two things
1. They've never had a relationship before, I mean nothing at all with a female. So it's all new to them and leaves them vulnerable to get attached
2. They just want to rush things so they can get intimate quicker.
It's highly unlikely that a guy gets emotionally attached that fast, it's usually just a sense of possessiveness.
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There are worse issues to have. Just tell the guy that you're not into the whole lovey dovey stuff but you'll blow him behind the gym. Then he'll be telling you he loves you in a whole different context.
This happens to me too😕 right now my boyfriend is like going crazy nuts. We been 5months together and since the first of our relationship we were both attach but he left me behind cause now his so attached to me like i find it cute because i do love him but also in sex he goes crazy for me lol he just seem happy and im glad tgays how big his love is for me because i love him the same despret way😚😚😚😘😘😍😍😛
Just be straight up from the very beginning. No intrigue just tell them you only do casual sex.
Wait you're contradicting yourself or I read it wrong. Do you want a relationship but want to go slow OR do you not want a relationship? They are not at all the same thing.
Figure it out before you get involved with snyond and tell them which upfront.
You're lovable. You're the type of girl they want to take home to mama
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