Should I block him and unblock on insta?

[Anonymous]

So this guy, lead me on because he was very flirtatious aggressively with me but I am very reserved and queit. He would approach me all the time. He lives in my dorm building so its not like i could avoid him as easily as if he just went to my school. Anyway I was trying to get to know him since he was always hugging me and touching my arms and asked we hang out he said yes and then flaked on me and when i asked him if he liked me he said he was dating someone and was avoidant when i asked what was with the flirting
So I unfollowed him but he still has liked my recent posts even though its just been a day or so since he rejected me. I feel annoyed because I would not have asked if Id known sometimes people are weird and can be grabby without goign further or even liking you enough to hang out.
Should I block and unblock him from insta? so he can no longer see my posts pop up in his feed? I feel annoyed seeing him like my posts and not sure why, but other to pity me.
Or will it seem like i am too bothered by it? thanks

[Lovelymelody]

He likes you & wants to hook up with you at his convenience so he gets grabby when the coast is clear & won't be caught by his girlfriend, I wouldn't bock him, I would just confront him with how you feel. Say that's so disrespectful of you to be flirting with me & be all grabby when you said you're dating someone & tell him to do that with someone else & not you!

[Asker]

but why not block him? that was hurtful... i am asking because i burn bridges its not like i want to i want to protect myself and i get upset when he likes my photos and walks away from me and says he's busy all the time when i just opened up to being involved with him... i really would steer clear before! and he may flirt with other girls as touchily apparently? i think its unfiar, i really steered clear of him and i felt bad for not giving him a chance and making assumptions about him but then this happens -.-

[Asker]

like i would not say hi to him, he would get angry and say hi to me if i didn't say hi, he would grab my hands or shoulders when i walked away and when i told him to stop he would try to touch me by like offering hand shakes and they were just really, really, flirty it made no sense and then i say i want to hang out to know him and then just cold! and im busy, im dating someone, etc.

[Lovelymelody]

He's a player!! Yeah it's best to block him, you really don't want to see if he likes your pics or not because he clearly likes you, so that's a given, that he will like your pics but he is also not trying to be serious so it's the least you can do to block him & if he notices you blocked him, he's obviously searching for your page & that's flattering but say I don't know what you're talk about, forget him, you really don't get anywhere with these type of guys, it could even be that's he's single but saying he's seeing someone as a cop out so he won't have to commit & just wants to fool around with who ever he wants

[Lovelymelody]

& it could be that you're taking him more seriously than he's taking you, in the sense that he's a player & he does these things all the time to girls to see how far they'll let him go & hanging, getting to know each other more is not in his vocabulary, because he's not looking for anything serious

[Asker]

My friend also thinks this too he is a guy andthinks he made it up i feel like he might have too! The only thing is that he seemed like he wasn't going to hang out with me, like he had just been saying yes to ghost me and then would say the other things he had to do which he could of made time to talk to me for longer than 5 min...

[Asker]

also you def have mho for girl side!!! thank you for being so thorough it helps a lot to think it all through! <3 <3

[Asker]

overall to a guy like him when touching and grabbing is nothing im sure instagram likes are nothing too, he could write a message, I've just never blocked on their and im not sure this is reason too

[Lovelymelody]

You're very welcome 💗 what does "mho" mean? 💗 yeah these type of guys aren't looking for commitment, he's looking for fun & you should take him lightly - just as he's doing, he's just trying to see how far he can get & you're not the only one he does that too, you don't have to block him as I said initially because that's the way these players operate & it's honestly nothing personal, like you're not the only one he's trying to lead on & make you personally miserable for him unless you allow him too & you should just laugh at his immature, silly, ways because he's probably liking other girls pics & commenting nice things like no shame! He's shameless but he doesn't want anything serious & that's how he personally goes about it. Next, now you know his true colors, his true intentions & is that someone you want to get involved with? I really don't think he's worth your time, there's a much better fit waiting for you & will commit to you 💗

[2shredded]

Nahh .

[Asker]

lol why not?

[2shredded]

I don't know.