Personally I wouldn't. Sometimes (like last week) I don't see my crush for a week and I hate it because it really hurts me lol how pathetic does that sound? haha. But I still really like him, in the first half of this year I went for about 3 months without seeing him and I still fancied him although my feelings weren't as intense for him as they would have been if I saw him all the time but then the first day I saw him after that 3 months all my feelings just came straight back and now I like him more than ever. The worst thing is I don't even know him and have never spoken to him lol I think crushes are really messed up!
Could I turn the tables and ask the same question to you though? If you didn't see your crush for a couple of weeks would you still like her?
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lol, 3 weeks? Try 4 years, not including a glimpse of one of his football games (we go to different high schools). I have liked this guy for about 6 years ever since 6th grade and now we're in the last year of HS and I still think about him. I think what I have for him is past crush, I feel love for him even though we haven't spoken in years. The statement "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" really is true indeed.
But back when my crush was new and developing a simple 3 weeks was hard and if he was missing for three days it made me feel real anxious and wonder if he was sick or in pain of in trouble (not to say he got in trouble a lot but there were those times...)
So yes, I would miss him.
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that would vary how much the girl likes him...before I was with my boyfriend I had the BIGGEST crush on him! Him and his friends always go to the sports bar I work at...at the time his friends allllways go but he only went every so often...ne time he would come down (im sure for weeks) I still had a major crush on him. like I said before it varies on how much she likes that person. I think it should make her feelings for him stronger if anything
No, because when I like someone I REALLY like them, I don't loose my crush on them because even though I might not've seen the guy in a while he's still the same person as the last time I saw him. Now it's different if it's been maybe like 1-2 months and I haven't talked to him at all. But I wouldn't loose my crush after a mere 2-3 weeks hands down.
I haven't seen the guy I like in over 2 months and I still like him! it depends on the girl really and the intensity of the crush. But, girls are emotional creatures so, there's a good chance she could! hope that helps!
Well it depends how BIG the crush is if its a SMALL crush well then if you haven't seen him in 3 weeks then it will probably go away...but if itz a BIG one then no a month isn't enough...and you just want to see him more.
No,not really but like most answerd it depends how much I liked him,if it were a lot it would want to make me see him even more after so much time.Besides my crushes useally last much longer than that.
No way! I've had a crush on this guy since 2 years ago lol. I haven't seen him now for at least 3 months but I'm still hopelessly crushing on him, and he doesn't even know!
It depends on the strength of the crush. I went 7 weeks without seeing my crush and I still liked him, possibly more, when I saw him again. If it's a fleeting attraction, though, it could be gone in two days, never mind two weeks.
Definitely not. That actually just happened to me. I like this guy, Alex. And I think about him all the time. If it's strong enough feelings, then they don't just go away over 2 or 3 weeks.
No way! I've had a major crush on this man for months and I've spent weeks without seeing him and that has not changed how I feel about him at all. I've tried staying away from him and even avoiding him but I still have very strong feelings.
No, probably not. I remember having crushes and me not seeing them for a while just made me look forward to seeing them.
No, not for my crush at anyways. I haven't seen him for almost a year cos of covid. Yet, I have never forgotten about him and he never seems to fate away. I miss him and have high hopes that I will see him again. If I don't then, I don't think I will ever get over him. Rn my biggest wish is to see him one more time so then I can tell him everything. I used to see him all the time but now I haven't saw him once. Maybe just maybe fate would work thing out?
please I haven’t seen my crush in 2 years. i dont think i would’ve ever developed such intense feelings for him if i hadn’t seen him every day for months (we went to the same summer camp), and back then, it was just a crush, but now, even after he was gone for 2 years, it’s complete and utter infatuation. he’s in a different country and I’ll probably never see him again but in short my answer is no
Like everyone said, it depends on how big of a crush you have on a guy. If a girl really likes a guy, she'll probably still like them, and be extremely happy when she sees him again. If it's just a small crush, she'll be over him in a heartbeat.
It depends but I would say no - not unless a new guy walks in - I've liked guys for years without seeing them face to face
no, it'd make me miss them and want to see them loads more.
I haven't seen my crush in like 6 months. yikes! We only talked like two times.(not full conversations) I did feel something with him. It felt like he was also interested.(even though that could just be me). Of course I don't like him as much as I used to because its been a long time but if I see him again I would probably still like him. I think I'll see him next month by the way.
Yea.in the past I had a crush on a guy for years.but I mean, you can only wait so long!
I haven't seen the guy I fancied in over a month I talked to him for about six weeks and then I only met him once. But it has now been a month and a bit but my feelings are still there, stronger than ever.
no, just makes me want to see them more if I really like them.
Uh, NOOO! It would just make me miss him even more! I've been with my guy for almost a year now and I just miss him so dang much! I haven't seen him for two weeks and Im dying!!
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