So I just found out my crush has a girlfriend and I'm sad?

[Stuff_and_stuff]

Okay, if you do answer this and saw a previous question of mine, it says I don't have a crush. Well I just found out a friend of mine that I have a crush on has a gf and he's probably been with her for a month maybe. I feel a tad bit hurt but is that normal? I feel like shouldn't even talk to him or associate with him... I want to say something but at the same time I don't...

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+1 y

Well thanks so far on the opinions. They help a lot. #HeartBroken

[ValleyofDrakes]

We men have to deal with that all the time. As such, a man like me has learned to move from one woman to the next whilst being very direct with the person I'm currently interested in. That way I don't gawk over them a long time, I find out quickly if they like me back or not, and I either get what I want or I don't. What's the worst that could happen? I get to move on to the next fish in the sea? yay!

[Stuff_and_stuff]

:D yay!! (And not in a sarcastic way of speaking :o)

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah its normal, he was your crush and you probably developed some attachments to him. so now you have to let go of those attachments, cut them loose, and that still hurts. best way to move on, just ignore him.

[Stuff_and_stuff]

Yeah.. it hurts a lot to realize I'm gonna have to do that. Well not have to but it's best to. I don't like being friends all too much with guys that have gf's if I don't know the girl well

[loveyourself0606]

if he has a gf, he doesn't like you. i know its sad but there are plenty of fish in the river. i know thats corny but u need 2 move on.

[Stuff_and_stuff]

Ouch. Needle to the heart xD and yeah you're right. I try to tell myself there's other guys out there but you know lol

[Eugene]

Shit like this happens all the time.

Learn to get over it. Either friends, beer, video games or sluts (well, if you're into them as a girl LOL) can speed up the process.

[Stuff_and_stuff]

I need my video games...:p

[Eugene]

Try "One Finger Death Punch".

[Anonymous]

Yes that's very normal and so are you feelings I was once like you everybody's at least been there once if not a million times. It happens to young people really when they see somebody they like and the world starts revolving around that person. But as they start getting older they realize how much time they waste putting all your eggs in one basket and that for every crush there is a million more out there just like that crust. Then it all starts to make sense.

[kambo_trick3y]

You should call the cops on him for having a life and being allowed to make choices.

[Stuff_and_stuff]

Really? Whatever..