Girlfriend wants open relationship?

[mrcool90]

Hey so my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. I Iove her with all my heart and it was the hardest thing to let her go. But I know if you truly love someone sometimes you gotta let them go. A month later she said I treated her so well, she misses me, and I'm too good of a guy to lose. So we met up for dinner. She said she wanted to have an open relationship. She is a senior at UC Berkeley. So I understand she wants to have life experiences and live it up her last year in college. I feel like I should not get attached again and I should give her her space. But I also really love her and would enjoy to be in her life and hang out. She told me she still loves me. What do you guys think about this situation? Thank you and much appreciation.

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Thanks for the feedback guys! Greatly appreciated.

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Thank you so much for the feedback guys! This helps so much!

[Prncz_Priyz]

Not really good vibes there but try this: ask a friend to make a fake account n flirt with her n see if she flirts back n all. If she does just forget about her dude honestly u deserve better... bcoz u'd rather be with someone who truly loves u than with a cheater (in case she flirts back) bcoz to me she could be one of those girls who date one guy then another then back to the previous one n all that crap... so just tc n try that out then the rest is on u. Best of luck!

[alliknowisthatidont]

Bad idea, she can't have it all. This would be fine if you weren't attached and in love but you are. This will only lead to jealously and heartbreak. She basically wants to cheat on you but no feel guilty, that's not a relationship that's a friend with benefits. And honestly do any open relationships ever transition back to closed ones? Are you okay with the fact that she could be with multiple guys?

[zombiebabe]

dude honestly an "open" relationship is not a relationship

[zombiebabe]

thanks for MH

[decemberxblue]

If you're questioning it, it's not for you. It sounds like you may be willing to jump through any hoop simply to avoid the pain of not having her. You're in for a miserable time if that's the case.

As an adult you'll be forced make decisions that aren't pleasant. However, you know in the long run it's the right thing to do.

[SuperNurse42]

So she wants to fuck other guys and still keep you around because you're a good guy to her?

Suit yourself dude.

[tzdc21]

I smell a bunch of BS from this. She thought she could do better than you and she was wrong so now she wants to crawl back to her "safety net" as she regards you. And she wants an open relationship? Dude if she really loved you she would NEVER want anyone else but you. Walk away from her.

[Mesonfielde]

She sounds like she wants the security of an established relation without the commitment. If I want to translate this, I think she is just trying to use you.

[Deft_maiden]

Hmmm, this may be a losing proposition for you.
She wants the cake and eat it.
Get on with your life

[misscocobutter]

I think she's just selfishly using u as a back up, for when things go sour with her other flings. she's not a good person.