I see some of the answers here and they are freaking ridiculous except the one from Theguyoverthere. His answer is correct.
I am also a guy that never jealous of when guys look at my girlfriend. She is an attractive girl and they are guys that are attracted to attractive girls so I can't blame them. And NO, I do not see her as a trophy and I am 100% a man.
What I do notice is tat girls think that guys should act jealous because that is how you can see he loves you. Not true at all. He loves you and he trusts you. He doesn't want to control you. And he is confident enough not to be intimidated by other guys. You may not realize it now but you are lucky. Not all guys are like that.
It's a sign that he trusts that you'll not leave him. If he was jealous it means he think you'd actually leave him if another guy hits on him. Jealousy is also a sign of control.
Girls who want boyfriends to get jealous have major control issues and tend to be very manipulative and sabotage their own relationships. You're 18+, show it.
It's normal for some guys to feel that way. It's like saying, "I have what other guys want". He obviously trusts you not to cheat on him or leave him and that's part of why he isn't jealous. You're getting a double compliment. Be happy.
He just likes knowing the guys who look at you can't have you. I don't think it's weird. His just probably smirking it off and all like "yeah buddy, she's mine"
damn he only sees you as a "trophy" that he can show to other guys...
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He's not showing you off. You are just being outside in public with him. What is he gonna do, fight with guys who lay eyes on you? Maybe you wish he was more jealous, I understand why. But that's the unreasonable part of you, please, be mature enough to recognize when what you wish makes no sense in the real world. Be careful what you wish for, you might get it.
I don't get happy, especially if a guy is hitting on you and I'm stand right there. I don't care if other guys look though because I know my wife is attractive and I know with our bond she isn't going anywhere so they can look.
Nothing turns a guy on more then knowing other guys want his girl. It is like bragging rights for saying I have the best mate, and as result with have the best children. It is kind of a primal instinct thing.
I feel like he is objectifying you... as he said to you: " he's the only one who can have me." as if you are a thing.
Maybe secretly he is a cuckold, you should tell him that you want to have sex with other men and ask him if that would turn him on
Not implying he's a bad guy or anything but the word possessive popped into my head
That's not weird at all :) he likes knowing guys want what they can't have. He has u and nobody else can :D its a competition thing for males...
I think he is fairly normal. I am exactly the same. I don't like other guys hitting on my girl though.
I'd only care if they touched you, or if you flirted back. Otherwise they can look all they want.
I don't think that's weird. There are probably plenty of guys out there like that.
he basically thinks of you as a piece of meat or something he uses to show off and show "dominance" over the rest of the herd... LEAVE HIM
Why should he be jealous, people spend their whole lives worrying about insecurities. Why should you make him worry, that's stupid, utterly and simple rely stupid
That sounds weird. In a strange way, I understand it.😳
yeah that happens. who doesn't want to be envied for the hottie he has on his side.. .
hmmm.. yeah.. it is weird..
He is proud to have you :p
He sees you as a trophy. Nice.
Your boyfriend is weird
He sounds insecure.
"Trophy girl"
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