well maybe you just weren't so fond of him.. you just thought you were.
my boyfriend said "I love you" to me the first week (in reality it was the first day) we were together.. I couldn't say it and he said he was sorry but that was what he felt because I was different and worth it.. we are together for 7 months now and I'm not gonna leave him..
so, the guy you liked thought you were worth his love and that was the right thing and the right time to do it.. but maybe in just seconds you thought it wasn't and that he wasn't the right guy.. your inner conscious worked for you.. without saying, it just affected your heart... so, it's possible to lose attraction for a guy, just if you think it's not the right time..
1. The guy likes you a lot.
2. The guy have interests with you.
3. The guy is just telling you how he feels about you and probably is hoping you do too.
4. Did you had a crush on him?
5. Were you just flattered talking to him? Just butterflies and good companion.
Perhaps something has put you off him. He should have stuck to playing hard to get as some women like the rush now you know you have him it's abit like oh ok he loves me. I think I'd be abit freaked out myself. Maybe give it time see if any feelings grow?
maybe because you only knew him for a short amount of time, the sudden 'i love you' was just a huge step, like suddenly he's up for commitment, which might've not been what you were looking for so early into the relationship
It simply could be. It was really soon of course. What is the real motif of him saying love to you? What is he actually looking for inside you that finally made him saying so? Time does tell somehow. It was about three months that I said the word 'I like you.' to my current crush. She's a hard girl to get and of course, she thought it was just a sudden feeling of mine over her, and she turned me down. However, I kept following her and now it's about 1 year and a half. I finally proved that I do love her as her, and that's the first stage of my success. Just a piece of my advice, monitor him and see if he does really love you. To me, he still has no idea of who you are and vice versa. So yeah, time might tell.
it depends if you're willing to let it.
I said I love you on the first or second date with my girlfriend because my ex said it on the phone even before our first date so ai thought it was normal...
I realize now that it was very premature but I told my girlfriend to take her time and she did and I tried not to say it.
We've been together now for over 3 years and things couldn't possibly be any better.
If this is a big deal for you than it can be a deal breaker. but my advise is to just realized that you'll each progress at different speeds and that it's okay to not always be on the exact same page. take your time and when you say it, it will just mean that much more
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I think in your case, its just the subconscious fear of overwhelm-ment. Love is gained through time and connection, whether that is a month or 10 years it takes a bit of time. He might not have meant love persay but strong feelings of attraction. Hopefully you can regain your feelings for him, otherwise you should think about ending it. Dont be in a relationship you aren't happy in
of course it can, i think girls should always be the one to say i love you first, it comes off as clingy and desperate if the guy says it
No not really. It sounds like he may be super young so he may not truly no what love is.
I think it can if the other person is still unsure Of how they feel and may make them think you are moving to fast for them.
It depends on so many things! I can't answer for you, but yes it is possible I guess
i think that he seems a simple person when you said that
I loved you. you must try to think a good things about him. it believe that you dont like a man who has romantic.
I think you should be telling us why you were so freaked out instead
you were probably spooked. some guys feel the need to say how they feel as a lot of men don't tend to say anything
Because you were put off by how soon he said it. As does make us think how attached he gets so easily, how often he's said it etc
just look at penny and leonard, she dumped him because he said the l word first
timing doesn't really change how you feel unless you're analyzing body language, types, and value
Everything can ruin a relationship!
Absolutely. You can scare the other person away
YES!!!
happens to me too
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