Guys, do you ever say I love you casually?

[Black-Cat]

Ive been friends with this guy (a virgo) for over a year. Recently we started hanging more and we eventually slept together a couple times(after he pursued me). The first time was not good but the second time was amazing and I really started liking him. Now I'm confused because he doesn't seem to want to see me anymore. He doesn't answer my calls or says he's really tired or busy. But then, a few days ago he was at my house, I was talking to my girlfriend about how all her guy friends fall for her and make it awkward. We were clearly talking about them falling in love with her. Then he says out of nowhere that he loves me and that is not awkward between us(maybe for him).

[Anonymous]

My guy friends tell me they love me casually and I tell them but I suppose we just mean as a friend...and some of my guy friends have told there gfs they love them to make them happy or just because she said it and they didn't really mean it and I get so mad with them for telling there gfs that they love them when they don't because I know for sure I wouldn't want my bf to say he loved me unless he meant it not just saying it because I said it or to make me happy...I would be more happy if I said it to him and if he didn't love me at the time and it took him another 2 months to tell me when he meant it I would find that would make me more happy as I know he would have meant it..

[Aedak]

I never say it unless I mean it. Sometimes that makes the girl I'm with angry because I won't say it back, but I think most women understand and appreciate the fact that we are ready to say those words only once we actually mean them.

Of course, there's a lot of guys out there who will say anything to get in your pants. Unless you're naive, it should be easy to spot the difference unless you pressure him into saying it when he doesn't feel the same way... and that's not cool.