Hey girl. I think you're smart to be very cautious - it could become really tricky if things don't work out since you do live with him. What's worse if you could potentially lose or at the very least strain the friendships you have with him and the other guys.
Honestly? I would stay away from developing too much of a buddy buddy relationship. You need to keep a sense of intrigue about you, keep him curious, keep him guessing. You are a busy, fun, very in demand girl that he should want to get to know better. I'm not saying that's a hard and fast rule, but I think that generally piques a guys curiosity more than the female best friend. Again, not to say that doesn't work, but particularly because you live with him I would be a little wary.
Try making him a little jealous. I know people say they hate the game, but honestly I don't think it's a game so much as understanding human nature. Everyone wants what they can't have. Make yourself unavailable, casually drop that you have a date. Even better, cross paths with him with a date. See how he reacts, see if he's curious to hear how your date goes. His reactions will tell you what you need to know. If he's curious, or seems a little jealous, it's worth pursuing. Good luck!
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well if he's a good guy then you shouldn't really fear rejection to much, by the way do you think he likes you as well? do y'all currently do things together, like hang out go to the movies etc. if so I think you could raise it to Boyfriend Girlfriend status (wow I feel like a homosexual writing that). and if he doesn't feel like it then yall could just stay friends, I doubt it would make other guys uncomfortable
since you stay wiht him and his guy friends...i don't think so it would be a good idea
if you guys start dating each other and then move out then its cool
btw how the hell do you manage to be with four guys... are you the only girl...i can imagine all sorts of problems with a girl sharing room with four guys
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