All Questions

What age do men usually start wanting kids?

I'm 19, dating a 28 year old. I am worried he might be thinking about kids, because at the moment I'm too young and I would like to at least be engaged first. I know I 100% want kids, but wouldn't start until at least...

Anonymous

(30-35)

'Reading ten thousand books is not as useful as traveling ten thousand miles.'

This is a Chinese Proverb I came across. what do you think? Agree or disagree?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

How should a 6'1, 125lb tall skinny guy feel being outlifted in weightlifting by a 4'9, 190lb short fat girl?

My girlfriend and I engaged in a weightlifting contest to find out which one of us could lift a bigger, heavier barbell overhead. At the time, I stood 6-foot-1 and I weighed 125 pounds while she stood 4-foot-9 and she...

ARONN

Xper 5 Age: 74

Can you tell if two people are a couple just by observing them, if you don't know them?

If there is no open PDA like kissing/hugging/hand-holding, can you tell if two people are a couple or just friends? Is it easier to tell for heterosexual couples or for gay/lesbian couples, or are they all hard to tell?...

RideThroughTheRain

Xper 6 Age: 34

Boys And Girls, who is your favorite superhero?

I Love Batman, Superman, green lantern, Captain Marvel, wonder woman, Captain America, Thor, superwoman Doctor fate!

Star_Lord

Explorer Age: 36

Guys, if a girl jumps on you and wraps their legs around you , do you see it as flirting or just playing around?

Ive got this guy I like that flirts with me a lot and we have play fighted before, but yesterday he was standing there and I couldn't resist so I just jumped into his arms and wrapped my legs around him, and now I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy get angry at you for not texting him for a couple days?

I feel that as girls we scrutinize text messaging much more than guys do. Its early on in this relationship between me and a guy however its started very strong. The first time I met this guy we got along really well...

Lotus8

Xper 5 Age: 38

What's does mami , chulaa, ma, and mami chula mean when a guy says it ?

I've been talking to this puertotican and he keeps calling me like ma and chula , what does it mean ? Is he calling me his mother ? Is he a mama boy? Also he wants me to call him papi and chuloo what's that mean ? Am I...

Lexilove18

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

What is the meaning of ''They say there is a doorway from heart to heart, but what is the use of a door when there are no walls''?

''They say there is a doorway from heart to heart but what is the use of a door when there are no walls''? I've heard this quote but don't have any idea about the exact meaning of it. Any opinions?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is considered long legs?

For eg. If the girl has a torso that is about 17.5 inches (44.45 cm), legs (36 inches,91.44cm) and height (155cm/5.0853feet)...does she consider to have long legs?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Would you say 'Game of Thrones' is a show mostly for intelligent people?

Like if you are not smart odds are you wouldn't be in to a show like that?

PresidentBruno

Xper 6 Age: 37

Society & Politics

Why do some people skate through life and the ones who actually work hard don't get things to go their way?

My roommate is blond, a model and beautiful. She's my best friend, don't get me wrong. Were in college together right now. I have a 3.4 GPA go to class every day, work two jobs and am always stress. She can't get out of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy friend gives you hand shakes instead of hugs?

I mean at first I thought it was strange but then I saw that he hugs other female friends including one of my best friends.So I asked her what is deal is and she said he told her"i don't give girls handshakes"! Now I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating British Women: What are they like?

I'm heading to the UK for the summer this year, and I'm fairly interested in dating a few British women while I'm there. Thing is though, I just don't know much about British culture or anything. I'm also not sure if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girlfriend hangs out with Ex boyfriend's family

is that awkward for anyone else or am I tripping out over nothing.

VeteranSoldier

Xper 5 Age: 37

What are your thoughts on eye contact with the opposite sex?

I'm always hearing how girls like when you make eye contact because it shows that there's a connection between them and the guy. What does it mean when a girl breaks eye contact? Do you find it attractive? Do you find it...

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34

Gorgeous Vs. Beautiful? Which one would you rather be called?

which one of these words make you feel better about yourself? what's the difference between them, to you? i feel like the word beautiful is used excessively so when people tell me I'm gorgeous I feel prettier

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys always break up girl fight?

Why do they insist on ruining everything? I don't care if she's your girlfriend. She chose to fight so let her fight. Girls never break up guy fights. JUST LET THEM FIGHTQ

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I broke down in front of my ex today. What do I do?

My friends and I meet in the same place every morning and he never comes to talk to us but today he did. He was talking to my friends but completely ignored me but showed off as much as he could and made sure I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy always holds your hand?

So I recently started dating this guy that I had a huge crush on for months, and I just noticed that ever since our first date he always wants to hold my hand. When we're cuddling, walking into a building, or even when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he have a crush on me?

Me and this guy are in the same college class. He sometimes makes eye contact with me, but once a class and that's it for the rest of the day. Well he hasn't beeen to class in over a week. When he did come he sat next...

hellfreedumb

Xper 5 Age: 35

If a girl is jealous does it mean she likes me?

For example she rejected me 4 months ago, I'm talking to other girl.

bockenbock

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Why do people with tattoos defend their poor decision making skills?

Simple question. Studies have shown that people who get tattoos *generally* have low self-esteem, self confidence, poor body image, and poor decision making skills. Studies have also shown that people who get tattoos...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like boys with great smiles?

Hi..So do guys get the maximum points on their looks based on how good their smile is?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Does no contact rule help to win your ex back and make them miss you or will it make him forget me & move on?

My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 5 week ago mainly because of the fights and arguining. at first I panicked and started to beg for him back (calling texting you name it!) but I am now in 2 week of no contact! I...

amylouisex

Xper 5 Age: 32

Late Night conversations with him.

So I've known this guy briefly through a mutual friend. I needed help writing a paper and he attends the college I was writing about so I just asked him a little bit about it Sunday night and we have been talking ever...

puplecard

Xper 6 Age: 30

Men have you shook a girls hand or fist bumped her as an excuse to touch her?

are you guilty of this? do you want her to touch your hand gently or be playful and hit you back? if she hits you back does it turn you off? I've done both I've fist bumped him gently and then I've punched him hard just...

tealreflects

Xper 5 Age: 39

Guy's Behavior

Men, do you like when your girlfriend watches reality tv?

Ladies how do your boyfriend react when you watch reality tv? I watch so much reality TV my boyfriend says he thinks it is starting to wedge its way in my behavior I have become bossy and the IDGAF mentality lol ( which...

Amanda2

Explorer Age: 36

What does it mean when someone says, "She's whiskey in a teacup?"

I know it's a song lyric, but I'm wondering if it's a phrase used to describe women often and what it is exactly implying?

honey112heaven

Xper 5 Age: 40

I'm 21 years old, and my parents won't let me go on a date?

Hi everyone, I have a situation. A guy I've known and been talking for a month asked me to go on a date with him. It will be after my work which ends at between 9:30-10:00 Pm. There's no other time I can go because I work...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My friend accused me of liking her boyfriend do I have a right to be mad

She was like: Please stop flirting with him or I will end our friendship. I'm offended that she would even think that. Her boyfriend is a student and he doesn't even have a CAR! Like I can't believe what that she thinks...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Would You Date a 20 Year Old Virgin?

I have recently turned 20 and realized that I'm still a virgin. I'm honestly not ugly or fat or anything like that. I'm not religious either. I have average looks, I'm a bit on the short and skinny side. I'm just very shy...

Garden-Zombie

Xper 5 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

Dark brown spots on inner thigh. Picture attached

They don't hurt try don't itch but they are multiplying what can it be.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls what's the shortest you would ever cut your hair?

Have you ever cut you hair short? What's the shortest you would go? Guys, do you even like short hair on girls? The shortest I've ever gone was at my shoulders. I don't think I would go any shorter.

Heat50

Xper 3 Age: 34