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What does it mean when a guy's friend nudges him?

I was walking to work and I was at the corner waiting for the light to turn and the guy I like was across the street with his friend. so his friend nudged him and laughed and the guy I like just said something and looked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy gives you his jacket, and says he doesn't care if you have it?

He also doesn't care if you wear it, but when you share it with another girl... he says, why did you let her wear my jacket? ( I feel like)what is that supposed to mean? when he said that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Texting a girl "wassup beautiful"

i would rather have guys answer this one cause of course I know the girl would love it, I just wanna know if its wise. yesterday she texted me and I was being a bit of a douche and I ended up ignoring the last text she...

fawkinzeez

Xper 3 Age: 33

If a guy asks you out but doesn't follow through, was he never interested in the first place?

as asked above,. thanks for the answers! If a guy asks you out but doesn't follow through was he never interested to begin with?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

My boyfriend gets upset because I had swimsuit photos on fb

I want opinion of other men. anyway he got furious because I had my modelling photos up and also when guys say stuff like "hey babe, hey hun. he said don't respond. don't comment back he was even mad because I had over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Putting flaky girls on the spot? good idea?

Hello, I'm going to try and keep this short. I previously posted I went on a first date with this girl who's 8 years younger than me but we had a fantastic time and she asked me to take her out more often. While she...

Chewybacca

Xper 5 Age: 43

My boyfriend is a photographer and I get jealous. How can I deal with it?

before I have started to date with a photographer (who happens to be my boyfriend now) first thing that I considered was if I can handle the thought that he sees different beautiful ladies and take photos of them. At...

dw199294

Xper 5 Age: 34

My boyfriend hurt my wrist (kind of long)

I'm sure this will sound stupid, but I'll try to explain it the best I can. My boyfriend works 10 - 12 hour days and his job requires a lot of physical labor. He's been exhausted and stressed out lately. He came over...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend sharing a hotel room with female coworker alone in Vegas for 3 days.

My boyfriend who I've been with for over a year planned a 3 day Las Vegas vacation trip with a female coworker. 1) Both of them planned it together. afterward, they asked other coworkers to join in but none were sure of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy hasn't texted me in a week, should I give up?

He messaged me on a dating website at the very end of last month. We exchange numbers after a week of lengthy messages. We Skyped for three hours with each other that next week . We texted almost every other day or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

She then accepts my friend request after 3 weeks, what gives?

So, I message this one girl that I kind of work with. She saw me a couple times but really there were no approach from my part. I sent her a message in the Facebook w a friend request 3 weeks ago. I pretty much stated...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the tallest guy you would date?

Simple question 6'1, 6'4' 6'6, 6'8? Also what's your height if you don't mind sharing.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why are ugly people so overconfident?

Recently my best friend is really grating on me she thinks every guy is staring at her when they are not people have called her ugly to her face yet she thinks she makes heads turn I really want to say something like girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend stopped initiating conversations...what's going on?

Can anyone please give me advice. I'm really starting to panic. My boyfriend usually talks to me every day, always through text only, we don't talk on the phone. But anyway, he always initiates conversations with me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what does "drama free" mean to you?

I've been told many times by several people (including guys) that they like me because I´m "drama free". What does this mean to you? I´m assuming it´s a good thing, but exactly, what does it mean to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it heading for a relationship or will it fizzle out? Insight please!!!

So all of my past relationships were established within 6 weeks.. I'm not use to taking things slow and I live in NYC and have had way to many almost relationships.. Unlike the other guys I've dated, this one isn't on FB,...

bettyboopdog

Xper 6 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend was looking at me (checking me out) when I visited my boyfriend at work

so, just wondering what the stare at me is suppose to mean, he often is busy and doesn't talk to me. my ex just watched me and a few days ago when I came to visit my bf. I thought he would look away but he didn't. it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How many people is a good amount for a party?

What do you consider a good sized a party? What do you consider a small, large, and a too large party? Share your thoughts.

glamourgirl95

Xper 6 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Mistress broke promise and now is given me an ultimatum. Need advice without adding morals into the equation.

I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationship with my mistress for two and a half years. We are both married. Well her and husband are going through a divorce because they have unhappy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Should I tell my long distance boyfriend I kissed someone else?

I'm in a long distance relationship since the start of summer. I live in Scotland, he lives in Australia. The other night however, I was out and had a quite a bit to drink, one of my guy friends who likes me kissed me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Breaking the touch barrier

Alright not gonna lie when it comes to being physical with a woman like touching her arm in conversation or giving her a high five anything that involves physical contact I always chicken out. My question is when a guy...

Hammer96

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do women like guys that have lean muscle or bulky muscle more?

I'm a swimmer and on the soccer team and I don't really have bulky muscles like some of my football and wrestling friends do.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls do you like a guy's forearms?

Like do you like a guy having big, strong forearms or do you not really care?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls actually like James Bond?

i mean, we are brought up to believe that James Bond is a ladies man, but somehow, I just can't sense it, I don't see why a woman would go crazy for him, I am not convinced real women would actually fall for someone like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls at bars so rude?

So, I went to the bars last weekend and I decided to approach this girl and she was rude to me. I think it was dumb of her to be rude because it's not like I told her anything disrespectful. Also, it's not like she was in...

joalto

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy: are butt tattoos on girl sexy or no?

I'm not saying like a huge one that covers the whole area just like a small one like a butterfly or something

messagemebaby

Xper 6 Age: 33

How do I raise the XPER level?

How do I raise the XPER level on this website quickly? I have a lot of questions about relationships but I can't ask them unless I'm level 3. Help

irenedsv

Xper 3 Age: 29

He texted me "meow"... What does that mean?

so this guy and I were briefly friends with benefits and I caught feelings for him, and I let him know and we decided to be friends. to solidify it, I invited him out in a group thing our mutual friends were gonna have,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She thinks she's so out of my league and the rejection hurts

I got rejected by a girl who considers herself so much better looking than she actually is. As a result, when I'd normally have a shot with her (especially combined with my personality, which she loves), she thinks she's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend broke up with me, I started to ignore her. Now she sends mixed signals. Is she interested?

Me and my ex have a son together. We had been together about 3 years our son is 2. We have been on and off but the last time we started working things out everything seemed really good. This last time she broke up with me...

az706

Xper 5 Age: 42

How to tell a guy you don't want to date anymore?

Ok I went on a second date with this guy and I'm just not into him. he's fine but not someone I want to drop everything for to hang out with. How do I tell him I don't want to see him anymore?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Are bunions a turn off? Would you break up with someone if you found out they had bunions?

Would you date someone with a bunion? Would you be disgusted or turned off if you found out your girlfriend/boyfriend had a bunion?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you consider it rude when friends are speaking another language around you?

You are hanging out or just nearby your friends and two or more of them start talking in a different language. do you think that is rude?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

When dating talkative girls, is it best to just "shut up" and listen?

I'm referring to outgoing personalities who aren't shy to speak their mind or make things happen. That's the type of girl I'm most attracted to(the opposite of passive aggressive), but at the same time I'm not sure about...

WoIIie

Guru Age: 36