All Questions

How to dress like a douche bag?

What clothes say douchebag to girls? Usually the guys that I hear girls mutter "look at this douchebag" wear jeans and plain shirts and walk with a peppy head bobbing motion.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date someone who lives with their ex?

Dating someone who lives with their ex. I went through his phone the other day and found out that they text through out the day, go out to eat on the weekends and go on day trips together. He has pictures of her on his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long does lust last?

- if left unfulfilled ? Do yo think lust just fade away or simly waits for the opportunity to strike - in a relationship? Do lust ultimately fae away? Or do you believe that great relationship must be made of lust and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This popular girl humiliates me because I ignore her. What to do?

There's this girl every guy (except me) wants to fuc.k. Funny thing is, she seems to be attracted to me and no one else. She always tries to get my attention. She's a very arrogant girl (thinks she can get every guy) and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are really tall boys hot?

im 18, 6'4, around 195lbs and have a toned body, I work out alott. do girls like guys that tower over them or wouldd they prefer shorter guys? I lovee when I'm like a foot taller then a girl I think its such a turn on....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls- why do you expect guys to chase?

I have noticed on here that a lot of girls have some expectations that are strange to me- 1. The guy always has to text first. Even if he sends the last text of a conversation, he is expected to re-initiate and start...

snafflox

Xper 5 Age: 34

We never go out on dates anymore?

Together for 1 year but we never go out on dates anymore, usually just stay home? We are both grad students so neither of us have a lot of money or time, but when we first started dating we went out on a date every week....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls-guys pecs? Hot or not?

Girls- are pecs attractive? I'm muscular and mine can be seen in most shirts, but I worry some girls will not like that try can see my nips. Good or bad?

snafflox

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

Do you act more on your thoughts or your emotions?

Do you act more on your thoughts (i.e. logic, reason and more calculative) or on your feelings/emotions (i.e. follow your heart, more impulsive, etc) I know that often you'll use both, but which do you follow more in...

tohrment

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why was his heart racing?

So I like this guy, and today I saw him standing in the halls, just standing, not moving, and I walked up to him and kinda talked to him, then I went ahead and gave him a hug.. except I noticed that when I put my head...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl unblock you online after a year?

some things went down with this girl I liked a lot. we fell out pretty bad, ultimately due to me having feelings for her, and didn't feel the same for me. I unfriended her, and she blocked me in return. like a year after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Weird feeling if you haven't seen your crush in awhile?

Guys do you ever get that weird feeling if you haven't seen your crush in awhile? I hadn't seen my crush in a long time because of different work shifts but today I saw him. I thought after not seeing him for so long that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you know if a shy girl likes you?

I know some girls who are super confident and will call guys "cute" to their face, kiss them on the cheek spontaneously.. telegraphing interest loud and clear. But then there are shyer girls.. the type who never text...

snafflox

Xper 5 Age: 34

Would you rather get married and divorced, or never marry at all?

would you rather get married and divorced, or never marry at all?

YouMissMe

Xper 3 Age: 33

I'm an American but people say I look European?

how are European women different? what is a European face and why do you think people tell me I look more eastern European? people look the same to me I don't get the difference between an American woman vs European...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I tell if a girl is avoiding me?

I was at a dance on Saturday (high school) and this girl that I met at school over a month ago at another dance was continually asking me if I was going to go to the dance that night. I told her yes and that I would be...

spencers94

Xper 5 Age: 31

How to seduce a guy if I am the "innocent" type?

So, I'm quite shy and as far as I know most guys I have been with or guys who have been into me think I look very innocent and I'm very sweet and stuff, I guess somehow that's what they find attractive of my personality....

yvolana

Xper 5 Age: 34

Beard, a five o'clock shadow, or a clean shaven face?

Girls, do you prefer a full beard, a five o'clock shadow, or a clean shaven face? I have a beard right now, and I'm debating whether or not I should shave it. A goatee is out of the question (they don't look good on me),...

boxman15

Xper 6 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Girl I like postponed our date... what does this mean?

Girl I like 'postponed' our date... what does this mean? So I have been giving a girl who I had a 'flirty' friendship with in high school a ride home after school one day out of the week. The reason why I didn't pursue...

superconfuzed

Xper 5 Age: 36

Silent treatment after hook up?

Recently a guy initiated contact with me on a dating site. We quickly discovered we had gone to the same school. He suggested we text rather than email back and forth. In the middle of texting he called and we talked for...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Accidentally ignore your crush?

LOl like it wasn't on purpose but you were just to shy to make a move.

CandyCoated123

Xper 3 Age: 31

Do girls get turned on watching 2 guys fight each other?

two random guys... or her boyfriend vs. a random guy... does it turn a girl on? if so, do you prefer to watch one sided fights (guy totally dominates his opponent) or do you prefer equal fights? what turns you on more, a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's up with girls' stares?

Okay I want to settle this issue once and for all. I keep telling my friends I notice girls staring at me every once in a while and that that could have a certain meaning, but they on the other hand, keep telling me that...

slickrick

Xper 5 Age: 40

If a girl never says hi, but says bye every time?

I know it may sound weird. There's this female co-worker that acts differently towards me than she does with other people. The thing I have noticed is that when I get to work she rarely says hi to me. Its not that she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I tell him I miss him?

So D and I went out couple of times , over a month and a half ago. We had an extraordinary connection and felt extremely comfy with each other. The attraction was amazing too. Though after the one night we spent...

Bubit

Xper 5 Age: 43

A stare of how many seconds is a decent stare?

Is there a decent way to stare at girls without seeming creepy ? Usually I stare at girls that I find attractive. Some girls look away, some return back my stare and some give me the look of WTF are you looking at ? I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he text me everyday but we don't flirt?

I just started this job and I'm 20 and there is a waiter that works there (25 years old and cute). So one day I went to go eat where I work with my girls and one of the waiters invites me out but I didn't really want to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you run into someone you know but haven't seen in a long time?

Do you go an greet them or do you walk in the opposite direction? I tend to try and not talk to them. Not that I don't like them or anything, but that I'm usually on my way somewhere when it happens and it would take too...

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

21 and have an imaginary girlfriend. will this lead to mental illness?

So, I'll just lay this out...I'm a 21 year old guy...never had a girlfriend...my life is kidney lonely because I only have a few friends that are in school outta town so I don't see them as often as id like...i got to a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

At what age did you stop playing with action figures and dolls?

My little brother is twelve and his friend still plays with action figures when he comes over sometimes. I was just wondering when did you stop playing with them?

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34

Health & Fitness

Anyone know how to get rid of a stye?

idk how I got it. but my eye hurts really bad. I got clay stuck in my eye a few weeks ago I don't know if that could be a cause of it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What do you think it means if two people keep staring at each other?

So this guy and I, who don't really know each other keep catching each others glances. He'll be look at me and when I look at him he just continues to stare into my eyes until I look away. If in passing he'll say hello...

funintherain

Xper 5 Age: 41

Four Months Dating. No "title"?

Hello! So this guy and I met online and we've been seeing each other every weekend for 4 months, exclusive since we met (there was never a questions from me. He told me he was only seeing me). I've met a couple of his...

bmo83

Xper 5 Age: 42

If you would let a guy hold you in his arms does that mean you have feelings for him?

Do you only let guys you really like hold you in their arms or do guys just do that sometimes so you let them or does he just have to be attractive for you to like it? Please be straight up honest, thanks.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do guys think of female sideburns?

What do you think about them? If you are a girl and you have them..do you remove them? If you are a guy..are you disgusted by them? or do you not care in general. In case you don't know what "sideburns" are ...here...

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95