All Questions

Boyfriend is ignoring me after a fight?

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we rarely fight. He is in the Army, and he picked up a drinking habit there. He knows it upsets me and we've talked about it a million times, but he keeps...

beachbabe21

Xper 5 Age: 34

I keep dreaming about the girl I like every night.

Every night now for the past 4 days, I have been dreaming about the same girl that I like a lot. And yesterday, I rarely thought about her, I had been busy all day, and when I went to bed, I had another dream about her....

idkwhattodo817

Xper 3 Age: 32

Asked her to be my girlfriend and she said Maybe?

Maybe? So I'm really interested in this girl, she's gorgeous, fun to be around and definitely girlfriend material. We've been dating all summer and I want her to be my girlfriend despite the fact that I go to school close...

natephils

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Are violent men attractive?

Not men who hit girls, but short-tempered men who would knock out other men at the drop of a hat. Is this attractive, or would you prefer a calmer assertive man?

JK7062

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is starting university at 21 too old?

Due to current life circumstances, I'll be starting university when I'm 21 (18 now) do you think this is old? Just afraid I'll be missing out on a lot of first timers with someone... never had a girlfriend etc. This is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like vanilla scents?

I wear a body lotion + body mist that has vanilla/coconut smell... do guys like this or do they prefer the fruity scents on girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend wets the bed?

I have been dating an amazing guy for the past 9 months. We make each other happy and we have a really great relationship. About two months ago, we were up at my cottage and he drank so much that he was sick. He passed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Any encouraging words regarding wisdom teeth extractions?

I'm getting my wisdom teeth out in exactly 11 and a half hours... and I can't sleep I'm so nervous. I am afraid of the needle for IV sedation, I'm afraid of feeling out of control with the drugs, I'm afraid of the jaw...

DaniJ

Yoda Age: 33

Cologne/fragrance collecting - a weird hobby?

i am a guy. I collect fragrances. I've sampled probably 300+ fragrances. I own 20 colognes, some of them cost over $100, but I like them all. I probably want to add 20 more in my collection over the next few years....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a boy stares at you and smiles?

Well there is this boy I like but I'm to shy to talk to. He is a grade higher than me and is very quiet. The problem is that he's shy as well, as my friend said, and it makes us both awkward around each other. I'm not...

xxlkairalxx

Xper 5 Age: 30

Why do guys find a southern accent sexy?

I am from the south. When ever I travel out of the south, guys go crazy over my southern accent. They all say it gets them so hot. I guess living in the south and hearing all the time I haven't given it much thought....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Don't want to scare a shy guy away?

There is this guy I'm really into..he is gorgeous and funny but very shy which I also find very attractive..I want to approach him and make the first move but don't want to scare him away..Suggestions please

bntmwannabe

Xper 5 Age: 30

How would you define a "Classy" guy/gal?

I went to my favorite spot on a date the other night and a bunch of my friends saw us. The next morning I met one of them during our usual brunch and he asked how my date went. I shrugged. He volunteers that he didn't...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I message the guy who gave me my first kiss even though he is my big brother's best friend?

I'm 18 and this past Thursday night I had my first kiss! It was actually with my childhood crush...I've know him since I was in middle school. But, only because he is my big brother's best friend. He's 22 and he's a...

courtniX

Xper 6 Age: 32

Why does my boyfriend always tease me about my looks?

Been dating 6 months. He always teases me about my extremely pale white skin. I can't get tan, I just burn, and I've been insecure about it my whole life. He knows this, yet he continues to make fun of me. Overall, I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She said I love you when she was drunk!

Back story: We've been dating for 7 months. Great relationship, we get along perfectly. She's the first girl I've ever fallen in love with. She was hurt in her last relationship after she got up the courage to say I love...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy takes forever to respond to texts?

The guy I am seeing takes forever to text me back. We've been dating for over three months and we see each other basically every day. But he sucks at texting, like sometimes it takes him over an hour to respond. I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do men trash their ex-girlfriends?

Fellas.. Why do men trash their ex-girlfriends? Is this a normal behavior of someone when they went through a break-up? How long usually the trash-talk lasts?

Anonymous

(36-45)

The guy I want to date doesn't drink... awkward... what do I do?

I like this guy... I don't know how much, but I do... I guess he doesn't drink at all. I find that kind of unattractive. I feel like he'll judge me. I'm not a partier, but I do like to go out and get silly sometimes....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex boyfriend send me a blank text?

My live in boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me about 3 months ago. He moved out and moved in with a friend of his. I was stupid and did the crying, begging, chasing thing for about 2 months! He would answer my...

rn116

Xper 4 Age: 57

Break Up & Divorce

Will we ever speak again?

It's been almost three months since my ex and I broke up and I haven't heard from him since then. Things ended badly, and I said a lot of things that I shouldn't have. I left him voice mails and texts and he was ignoring...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy only text a girl on weekends? Guys please!

So, there's this guy that I met recently who asked for my number. After 2 days he texted me, and it was the weekend. He wasn't sleazy or asking to meet up, just asking how I was politely etc. I replied. The following...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you can't get someone off your mind, maybe they're supposed to be there?

Do you think there is any truth to it? I think it's a cute saying for someone you love.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys which one do you like more on girls: big or small eyes?

and why? small: link link big link link

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it awkward if I Facebook message or text someone I've never talked to?

I rarely see this girl at school and if I do she's usually with her friends in a classroom. I've never talked to her before, but she probably knows me from reputation and some of her guy friends are my friends. So would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

For girls, do you prefer wearing flats or high heels?

If wearing high heels causes a lot of problems, why is it that heels are more favored?

Valhalla

Xper 3 Age: 63

Guys, does it bother you if your girlfriend wears a low cut shirt I'm public?

Do you think it's indecent of "slutty" looking? What if everything else is covered?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Where is good to touch a guy when kissing..?

As in the spirit of this site, want to get some guys (or girls) opinions on this. If you're kissing a guy, where are good places to put your hands, especially to be more flirty? (please don't just say touch his junk) I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My fiance gets upset with me because of my 'tone'?

My fiancé gets deeply upset with me because she 'detects' annoyance in my 'tone' and doesn't like it. Most of the time she is wrong and I'm perfectly happy with her but she doesn't Beleive me. Sometimes it happens if I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She says I'm like a big brother to her. What does this mean?

So a girl I go to school with says I'm like a big brother to her. I've been there for her on quite a few occasions, and helped her out a lot. She is a little younger than me too. I get the idea of someone being a "big...

6Paul11

Yoda Age: 37

Fashion & Beauty

How common is it for guys to use steroids?

I saw someone's question on here that got me thinking. A user asked about whether he should use steroids or not, and he said it so casually that it made me wonder if it was widespread. When I think of steroid using guys...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

Family & Friends

Does my brother's friend like me or is he just being friendly?

My brother told him that he is the only one that can date him and he was asking my brother if he was serious and stuff. When I see him he mocks me sometimes when I say something. When my brother and me leave school he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Would you be offended if someone called you "slow" (retarded)?

Would you be offended if someone's first impression of you is that you're "slow"? Well I'm not the most outgoing person and I'm usually awkward in big social groups. So I tend to just be quiet ..basically not say a word...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who else thinks their boyfriends are cute when they sleep?

Lol just as the question title states. My boyfriend is so cute when he sleeps <3 he reminds me of a teddy bear lol :3

Becky89

Xper 3 Age: 37

Do Hawaiian men like African American girls?

I been to Hawaii and I absolutely love the environment! I fell in love with the whole island when I visited it. Now since I'm back in the states, a lot of people told me "oh you know Hawaiian dudes don't date black...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women love jerks, but do men love bitches?

I hear some guys saying that women love jerks and bad boys, but would you say the reverse, that men love bitches and bad girls? I am starting to think this is the case. Maybe not for ALL 100% of men, but definitely a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Hot pretty girls who like skinny guys, why?

No offense to skinny guys, and no offense to what you like. But why? Wouldn't you want a guy with some muscles? Why want a guy who looks more feminine than masculine? When you embrace a skinny guy, won't it feel like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does the hot bank teller like me?

I remember leaving the bank one day and saying to myself..."the new guy is kinda hot." one day he was goofing off with another teller he looked, I don't know, kinda happy to see me and he was on my side of the counter...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls find guys with buzz cuts more tough and dangerous?

Skinheads, soldiers, some MMA fighters have buzz cuts and I overhear girls saying they find them more hardcore, street and edgy.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, you see a handsome guy at a grocery store. What do you want him to say to you to end up getting your #?

You're shopping at the grocery store and see an attractive guy shopping as well. What do you want him to say to you? How do you intend on exchanging numbers? I could be wrong, but it seems like only specific situations...

Anonymous

(30-35)