All Questions

GUYS do you put xo's at the end of your texts and what does it mean?

why would a boyfriend not put xo's at the end of a text. my boyfriend used to do this to every text. we broke up for 3 months but we got back together and he doesn't put any, anymore. that being said he has made more...

jolee1

Xper 6 Age: 36

Are jeans and flip flops OK on a guy?

I think they look kinda gay, but my girlfriend really likes me to wear flips with my jeans. She says it only looks gay on a guy with smaller feet or tight jeans, but she says it looks hot on guys with bigger feet.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I don't like my boyfriend's sister

So I kind of have a problem with my boyfriend's sister. I don't like her. When my boyfriend moved out and moved in with me she started hating me because I "took him away from her". When my boyfiend saw I was talking to...

Jayy210

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guys wearing those hats

What do you think of guys who wear these hats? link link I think they look so f***ing adorable in them - like puppy adorable, but hot adorable at the same time if that makes sense :P Or when guys wear hoods...

oOsweet~o~nessOo

Xper 6 Age: 32

My crush added me on Facebook and sent me a message but...

i am scared to accept it and answer back because my Facebook sucks and no one writes on it and it looks like I have no friends. I keep putting it off answering him. what do I do? guys would that be a turnoff to u?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What small act of kindness were you once shown that you will never forget?

Just curious :) What small act of kindness were you once shown that you will never forget?

italykam

Yoda Age: 38

Morals and values...Does the inside really matter?

it seems like to me that men don't really care about morals and values. aslong as the girl is hot it seems like everyting else doesn't matter. men worship whores. like marilyn monroe to kim kardashian. you can't turn a...

nubianqueensc

Xper 5 Age: 38

Relationships

How do I get a boyfriend? Why does it seem so easy for everyone except me?

I am 24 years old and never had a boyfriend. This situation is particularly infuriating to me as I'm told I'm extremely attractive. Whilst not an arrogant person, even I must admit I know it's not a looks issue. I've had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you 'nicely' ask someone what their problem is?

There's a girl that's become friends with some guy friends of mine in the past year. She seems really cool, like we'd get along really well. I know that she's made really great friends with one guy who really dislikes me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

The army changed my boyfriend!!!

well he came back for 2 weeks and I only saw him for only one day, he put me through hell... we were so excited to finaly see each other after so long and he come back he barely talked to me and when we finally saw each...

Lesliecbv

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Guys: Girls in plaid shirts?

I own one plaid shirt and love it, so I'm definitely not planning to stop wearing it just because guys might not like it. :P That said, I'm curious: I always figured guys liked plaid shirts on girls, or were at least okay...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does mac miller have downs or fetal alcohol ?

what are your opinions on mac miller I think he's such a loser.. and his music sucks does he have downs or f.a.s?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy winks at a girl?

my crush winked at me today in tha halways and said hi to me and smiled. he never winked at me before, he seemed very nervous and I think he couldn't control himself and made funny faces :-D

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think Jessie J is attractive?

I know there are some speculations of her being bi or lesbian, but if she was straight, do you guys find her attractive? or not?

jkjk123

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

When should a girl start suggesting dates?

Ive always heard it's best to let a guy pursue you in the beginning of the relationship. By what date should the girl start suggesting dates? (3, 4, 5, 10?)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys asking "Can I get a hug?" can guys enlighten me about this practice?

I'm not saying girls never do this but guys do this all the time. "Can I get a hug?" why do you always want a hug and ask for one? is it just being friendly? is it sexual? is it a way of getting to touch something...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What are your first impressions of a shy person? Do you like them?

Do you like shy people? People who barely talk and seem afraid to talk in case they say something wrong? Do you have negative or neutral or positive thoughts about them? What are your first impressions of a shy...

phil2

Guru Age: 38

Why do guys make jokes or change the subject when talking about their feelings?

For example, if you know a guy has feelings for you, and yet he still manages to either joke around about it or change the subject to avoid actually saying it. I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, but I figure if he didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why guys think I'm ugly?

Guys don't say it to my face but I can tell by their actions that they think I'm ugly. The reason I say this because they look at me then they look away if its a cute guy. Also guys are not into dark skin females so I...

blackbabydoll

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

If a guy doesn't say hi to you anymore?

This guy was flirty with me for a few weeks during the summer, but he never asked me out even though I gave him hints that I was free and single and that we should do something together. Then I didn't hear from him for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like it when girls ask them to be their boyfriend?

So there's a couple of guys I've been interested in for awhile and I've seen them date all the wrong girls and get their heart broken plenty of times. However neither one has asked me out. I made a move toward one and he...

cg1810

Xper 5 Age: 33

What does it mean when guys stare at their girlfriends?

Two of my ex boyfriends used to stare at me and it was so awkward and sort of made me feel uncomfortable. May be I would understand better and it wouldn't feel so weird if I knew what it means. So what does it mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you go to class high or drunk/buzzed?

I've been high in class (high school) but never drunk/buzzed. Which do you prefer? Also what would you think of a girl who often comes to class high (still gets good grades, takes care of herself etc.)

Anonymous

(30-35)

What color shirt and tie to wear with a grey suit?

what are some good color shirts and ties to wear with a grey suit. not to formal and not to flashy though.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, the damsel in distress scenario?

How appealing is it? Do you ever try and create a scenario where you will be the handsome white knight and save the girl? An example, could be renting a scary movie so you can comfort her when she's distressed.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, how long does it take you to forget about a girl?

after a bad break up (lets say she screwed you over) how long does it take you till you forget about a girl .do you still think about her a long time after just not in a romantic way ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I missed his call, what to do? I met this guy three weeks ago.

So I met this guy three weeks ago and he came up to me and introduced himself to me. We talked for a little while and he had made me laugh. We were working an event and he kept flirting with me every time we crossed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls--is it okay for guys to jog shirtless, or weird?

Considering it's still fairly hot, I was wondering--do girls think it's fine, or weird for guys to jog shirtless? I tried it, but I feel a little odd.

AndyWes

Guru Age: 34

If he wants you to smell his neck?

This guy and I were in his car and he told me to come close to him. He wanted me to smell his cologne and so he told me to put my head right up to his face and neck. I know he thinks I am very attractive. Do you think it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Slept with a coworker...is he still interested?

About 8 weeks ago I slept with my work colleague on a night out. Both of us were drunk, (cliche) one thing lead to another and it just happened. I'd previously had a tiny crush on him brewing anyway, and we get on so well...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why is he still with me if...?

Basically he was aggravated about some things and didn't want to be around me. His reasoning as he told me was that he didn't want to be mean to me and snap at me because he was so aggravated. So he didn't want to be...

assley

Yoda Age: 35

Family & Friends

Shirtless guys riding a bike or jogging when its hot out, hot or not?

Or does it depend on the guy's body? If he is in good shape but a bit chubby, would you rather him have a shirt on? I realize that when I have a shirt on, its so hard to see any noticeable fat unlike when its off.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Texting a girl and saying "good morning beautiful"?

i have heard that will make a girls day for sure and make her like you more. A) is this true? B) is it appropriate to do this when you are making a move on a girl? is it appropriate to do at any time or just when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A question on sagging guys sagging pants--extreme saggers. WHY?!

Now I'm not talking about the type of guys who have just a little bit of sag so that they have an inch or two of their boxes showing. That one I can MAYBE understand. I'm talking about the guys who wear their pants so...

WeaponZero

Guru Age: 45

How do I deal with an annoying step-sister?

OK so I still live with my mom while I go to college so I can use my money for my son until I get a full-time job. Well my step-sister is here for the week. Well she's 11 and is always attached to my hip, tries to take...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I have to feel guilty or is it 100% his own fault?

My twin brother asked me for a very dumb thing recently...he asked me to kick him in the nuts really hard cause he wanted to know how it feels (yes, he's really stupid) and I did...and well, it hurt him a lot and he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)