All Questions

What does it mean to "act cute"?

So folks...what does it mean to "act cute"? I hear people say this but I just don't get what "acting cute" means (for a girl, anyway). I mean, Care Bears are considered "cute", however I can act all SUNSHINE AND...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GIRLS: Do you think MMA/UFC fighters are sexy?

I'm a fighter myself, but I don't look like one when I'm in my street clothes (I look like a typical white guy). However I always wonder if I should or should not flaunt this. I am usually low key bout it until somebody...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is this the friend zone? (I know it's long but if you could please read I would appreciate it.)

Hey I'm Chris. There is this girl I know who is one of the most beautiful I've ever seen, in her personality, body, especially her smile ;) Now I've usually been pretty good at knowing when I am in the friend zone of a...

sk8ertotz

Xper 4 Age: 32

Girls: Are black guys more masculine that white guys? If so, why?

Do you girls see black guys as more masculine than white guys? If so, why is this? I'm wondering about this, because of responses I've read on questions on this site, and because of things I've heard about the gangster...

ErikM

Xper 5 Age: 43

Break Up & Divorce

Should I let my boyfriend babysit his ex girlfriend's daughter. It's not even his daughter.

my boyfriend broke up with his ex who she has a daughter. my boyfriend got really attached to the little girl. and when ever he cans he wants to babysit her. 2me this just sends wrong signals to his ex. there's no reason...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I hate my body so much. How can I build my self image?

I'm a 17 year old girl and I can't stand my body. I'm 5'1 and about a size 0. but I hate it. I have no assets. I'm flat. (32A), have a flat stomach, no hips,weird fat butt, big thighs, and short legs. I wish I was slim...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex's family member passed away. Do I say anything?

We broke up a few weeks ago and haven't talked since. It's been an on again/off again thing, and this past time we were only together again for a few weeks before the breakup.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I dress in a whore-ish manner?

A lot of girls tease me for dressing like a whore, but I don't think I do. Here are a few pictures that represent what kind of clothes I wear on a daily basis. link link link

kiki_bu11

Xper 3 Age: 36

What do guys and girls think of Lolita Fashion?

I recently go into Lolita Fashion, and I've found that most people don't start dressing Lolita until their 20's so I don't feel so weird. Here are some of the denominations. Sweet Lolita: link Gothic Lolita: link...

Marshmellow_Bunny

Xper 5 Age: 39

I think black girls are MUCH better looking than white girls!

Hispanics and Asians aside If there were NO rude, unnecessary, and wrong stereotypes against black women, then I THINK that men wouldn't have so much hesitation when they consider dating us... I've seen so many racist...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I Give This Well Known Player a Chance?

It's a little bit long but I REALLY need your help so please be serious about answering. :/ So he's your typical jock. Football player, kinda dumb, and a major heart breaker. I’ve thought he was cute for the longest...

girlwonder

Xper 5 Age: 32

Brother Has Pissed Me Off! Giving Him Makeover and NEED IDEAS!?

Brother Has Pissed Me Off! Giving Him Makeover and NEED IDEAS!? OK, so I was having a sleepover with my friends yesterday and we are all 15 and 16. My brother is my twin and I caught him in my closet videotaping our...

kimjonas

Xper 4 Age: 32

Persian guys?

Ladies, what do you think of Persian guys in term of attractiveness? ( not the fat hairy ones ) Could you see yourself settling down with one?

dvdkn7

Xper 3 Age: 34

Is it a good thing when he can't keep his hands off you?

I have been talking to/hanging out with a guy for about a month. There has not been a commitment at this point, but we see each other 1-2 times a week. Every time he wants to hang out, he says before he comes over "I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Can every girl tell when a guy is "attracted" to her?

Ive been told that every girl on earth no matter what the personality, or circumstances can tell when a guy is physically attracted to her right off the bat? Do you think so or not? Share

KRyan17

Xper 6 Age: 36

Girl's Behavior

Why are guys scared of me?

I think that guys are scared of me. I’ve noticed that no guy has actually taken the time to get to know me. I’ve never had a boyfriend, or even a guy friend. I’m a nice girl. I used to be quiet and shy, but I’m not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS: Are intelligent girls attractive?

Or do guys find intelligent girls hard to approach? A friend told me that guys find me intimidating because I'm not "easy" and because I'm smart. I'd just like to know if there are any decent guys out there who find...

Ronron5

Xper 5 Age: 40

Relationships

Does "Relationship Status" really matter?

He asked why my Relationship Status says "no comment". I said no reason, just don't want to comment. Then I asked him what his status was on his FB, but he didn't want to tell me. It was never an issue until he brought...

lost-angel

Xper 7 Age: 43

Guys use me to get to my best friend/roomate?

SO,I don't think I'm ugly,I'm just not the type of girl guys go after.I work out everyday,go to the gym,I wear a little make-up,not necessarily shy,but not outgoing.Of course,my best friend is the beautiful,outgoing,sexy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Boyfriend is Distant After Whispering "I Love You"... Should I be Worried?

Last weekend my Boyfriend whispered "i love you" to me during a post-coital "afterglow" moment :) Funny thing is he seems to be acting a little distant these days. Should I be worried? I pretended like I didn't hear...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Do emo girls like regular guys??

Sorry for using the word regular but I didn't know what to put, I have this thing for emo girls, I think they are hot! but I think if they wanted a boyfriend most of them would rather go for another emo guy. no offense...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she want to talk to me now after she ignored me for so long?

Well there is this girl who I like, when I met her she was really friendly and what not, then suddenly she changed out of nothing over the weekend, she became cold, shy and really distant, to the point when she turned her...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

What is it about "cute" "innocent" "wholesome" type girls that some guys like?

what is the appeal with these kind of girls? why would a man be drawn to this type? and what type of guy is typically attracted to girls like this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Would you date a short guy?

What is your cut off point if there is one? I am 5'8

smallbrownman

Xper 3 Age: 39

Relationships

I'm 24 and she's 19?

Too much of an age difference or am I safe to ask her out?

cradlerobber

Xper 4 Age: 40

Relationships

How Long Should Someone "Cool Off" After a Fight?

I've been dating this guy for 3 years. The last 6 months have been long distance, as in, East Coast to Scotland. (He'll be moving 40 miles away from me in about a month.) Lately, things have been really bad-we fight all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't think girls like introverted guys like me?

I do things introverts do: I write and read. But, I also watch movies, listen to music, play sports, read about sports. And I can make people laugh. If I have a relationship, I'd want it to be long-term... I'm not a fling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it a turn on for girls when the guy is a good cook?

I get a of enjoyment out of cooking for friends when they come over. I usually get a lot of compliments but the last girl I dated was a very picky eater and usually just wanted fast food, KFC, Wendys , etc.. I don't mind...

Batali777

Xper 3 Age: 36

Would a lazy eye turn you off?

To start off, yes, I have a lazy eye- my left one. It isn't major, and it doesn't do it all the time nor is it like it permanently. It does it when I focus on an object, when I'm tired, and kinda randomly it turns...

madmisskelly

Guru Age: 36

Why would he pretend to not remember me?

I texted this guy and he's ignored my texts before. Last night I texted him saying "hi" and he responded by saying "hi...who's this?" When I said who I was he ignored me. Why would he act like he doesn't remember my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Funny Pick up Line....

OK so I wanna hear what you got, girls AND guys...I've been trying to find/think of a funny/sexy pick up line to send my fwb...that would get him interested...any ideas? What is the first text you would want to receive...

MareBear0615

Xper 6 Age: 37

Crush on a random stranger?

Hi everyone, first time posting on here so here goes! :) Just wondering if any of you have ever had a crush on a random stranger? I have, and I need your advice. There's this girl (probably in her early 20's.. I'm 21...

Anonymous

(36-45)