All Questions

If a guy doesn't want to talk, should I take it that he's not interested?

For some reason, he doesn't want to talk. Even if I want to hear his voice, when I call, I get the feeling he thinks he did something wrong (or maybe he just doesn't want that kind of relationship...I don't know, even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys please tell me why do you sag your jeans?

Girls don't think its attractive anymore..and now days you won't get a girl sagging your jeans...!. we don't want to see your cakes all day...and your scooby doo boxers!...To me its sad and disgusting ..its like why sag...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She keeps looking back at me?

A girl in one of my classes that sits in front of me keeps glancing back at me, but when she makes eye contact with me, she quickly turns away. advice?

Anonymous

(30-35)

34 year old dating a girl that's not 20 yet?

So I turn 20 in a few months and I met a 34 year guy at my cousin's wedding. The 2 of us were sitting around the same table and we got to know each other a little bit. He seemed very young. At first I thought he was 27....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when my ex boyfriend calls me at night?

He usually calls me and tells me about his day but tonight he asks me if I found some one new and encourages me to go for them. Then, he talked to me about the girl he left me for (which he does a lot) and he asked for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why didn't he approach me?

So this week me and a few coworkers were at a function for work and as we always do me and my friends were sitting at a table talking. During the whole function I saw this cute guy standing on the wall but I didn't...

goatxr

Xper 5 Age: 38

Men: do you find Goth women attractive?

I'm not talking about the head to toe black clad, pierced and tattooed teens you see hanging out outside the mall. I'm talking about deep, spiritual, intelligent women. The older members of the Gothic community. The ones...

Fabulous25

Xper 5 Age: 41

Girls are hairy guys unattractive?

are hairy guys unattractive ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How many chances does someone truly deserve?

I know most people say only one or two. But do you believe that someone can mature over time, and truly change? Or will that person always go back to the person they were in the beginning? Can they really change if they...

natx3

Xper 5 Age: 33

Asking for a girl's facebook instead of number?

So I finally got to talk to this cute girl and class and it went very well. After class we started to walk to our cars and conveniently we weren't parked to far apart. We stopped at my car and just kept talking and when I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should a short guy (5'6/168cm) do to get girls to like him knowing that he is already in a disadvantage?

Yes I am 5'6 and from what I have experienced and from what I have read and see (look at the links) it doesn't very good look for me. So knowing this how can I go around my disadvantage in order for girls to like me?....

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Do I repel guys because of my looks or am I unapproachable?

What makes a girl approachable? I don't know if I'm unapproachable or if guys just don't want to approach me. I'm guilty of not making eye contact or if I do I look away like it never happened and when I'm walking and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex girlfriend kissed me?

she broke up with me. I used no contact rule for 8 days. I sent an email saying I'm over you and agree to the break up and wished her god luck. she called then messaged asking me to come over. said she wants to be...

adamretex81

Xper 7 Age: 44

Do guys like girls who can play basketball?

I am a basketball player and a volleyball. Is it cool or something to tell a guy that you play basketball, or will it be a turnoff and they think its like a guy sport that girls shouldn't play? Jw(:

buggebaby

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do women always come to me with their problems?

Well I've never been very good at actually getting women to go out with me, actually never had a girlfriend, but for some reason they always tell me about their problems and ask me for advice, so why if I show them...

faraday

Xper 3 Age: 31

Why are older brothers so damn over-protective?

It` s like your sitting in a car with them and their dropping you off and if another guy just looked and he was like ` what's that prick looking at?` or if your with them and some just guy makes convo with you they be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is 18 too young to be in a serious relationship?

I am 18..my boyfriend is 19. We went to the same high school and are currently attending the same college. We have been together for almost a year and a half. My mom think its ridiculous that we are still going out and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"Gynophobia" (fear/hatred of women)..what can I do about it?

So I have been thinking lately that I have a fear/hatred of the female gender aka "gynophobia". I'll try and give you some brief examples of what make me think this way. - I have a bad relationship with my mom, not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a girl laughs at anything remotely funny you say?

Does it mean anything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are tall shy girls attractive?

I'm really tall (5'7 inches) and shy like REALLY shy, I mean like I look at the floor all the time and when people talk to me I really don't know what to say so I smile and look back down at the ground, well I like this...

CryingBeth

Xper 5 Age: 35

First date with my ex girlfriend....could really use some opinions

My girlfriend and I broke up after two years. She loved me more than anyone I have ever been with. In the 6 to 8 months before we broke up we struggled because I worked quite a bit and we live an hour apart. She tried...

Anonymous

(36-45)

There's this girl who has a thing for my boyfriend. calls him "bub", "sweetie" , "hunnie"...

comments on EVERY status on his fb, does things that she knows would grab his attention.. worst thing is, my boyfriend confides in her when WE have problems. for the first time, I realized this recently when we had a...

hopeisallwegot

Xper 5 Age: 37

Guys say I'm too smart?

I'm 17 and in high school, and up till this point guys haven't really taken an interest in me. I know of one that said I have a 'perfect face' but other than that guys don't really notice me. They all say things like...

IndigoGirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

I broke up with my boyfriend over his bad temper, Why hasn't he called?

Other than a bad temper when he gets mad, my boyfriend and I had a passionate and loving relationship. he has never hit me, and I don't believe he ever would. The bad temper is not just with me, but just when he gets...

BlondenItalian65

Xper 3 Age: 61

Has my ex freaked out? Commitment phobia?

We were together for over 5 years. Within ONE week he became distant and a little offish. This was not a gradual slow decline where we were arguing or not being physical etc...so I was VERY shocked, it was completely out...

stripes

Xper 5 Age: 41

Q to men: if a girl called you her soul mate?

How would you interpret/feel if a very good friend (which you haven't known for long but feels like you've known each other a life time!) called you her soul mate? Would you be freaked out? How much weight would you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend only texts me short responses - what's going on?

OK so I am always the one to text my boyfriend first and when I do I always get short responses like OK k and yeah but when we hang out he acts like everything is just fine he hugs me and stuff but y doesn't he seek like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she giggle when I talk to her?

I've only known this girl for a couple of weeks. So almost every time I talk to her she giggles or gives off a faint smile. Should I think she's interested or is it something else. I keep thinking there's something on my...

ABCshake

Xper 3 Age: 35

If I don't text/call her for a week, she contacts me?

So I have a girl that's a friend that I like but if I play it cool and don't text her for like a week she texts or calls me think she likes me or just wondering what's up as a friend

jonyou

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do women find intelligence sexy?

Would you find a man with a science degree sexy like physics or chemistry.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

How often do girls in sororities cheat on their boyfriends?

so my girlfriend is starting college, she's 18, I'm 22, and she's joining a sorority. just wondering how many of you sorority girls have cheated on their bfs. Keep in mind this is a pretty serious relationship. we've been...

lacon22s

Xper 5 Age: 38

Ignoring my crush. Is what I'm doing good or bad?

recently I been ignoring my crush to see if he would look for me more..he has been.. but when do I know when to stop..

beija

Xper 6 Age: 34