All Questions

How can I tell if a girl is shy, playing hard to get, not interested, or getting bored and annoyed?

It's very confusing, because almost all the time, girls seem to make it very extremely un-obvious whether they like a guy or dislike a guy, a lot of times it takes many guys a long time to realize that the girl likes him...

moviedude714

Master Age: 38

Why doesn't my boyfriend make plans with me?

invite me anywhere, involve me in his plans? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years. We constantly argue about the fact that he will make plans with his friends and family and not tell me about it or talk to...

saintsvalentine

Xper 5 Age: 46

Comparing my relationship with my boyfriend against my friends' relationships?

I feel a little p*ssed off right now. I'm comparing my relationship with my boyfriend against my friends, and I think to myself why isn't ours like this?. I wish my boyfriend was like that or did that for me. :( We're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

STUBBLE everywhere, what do guys think?

so obviously most girls on here who shave no what I'm talking about..when you get that 3-day stubble on your legs, armpits, stomach/trail etc..i'm just wondering guys, does it gross you out when you feel a girl's stubble?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel like a fool, did he ever love me?

I have known this guy for 6 years and we started fooling around back then. I had recently broken up with someone and didn't want a relationship and he seemed fine with that so we kept things light and casual. About a year...

EmmyAward

Xper 5 Age: 45

Society & Politics

Is ballroom dancing dead?

It seems like organized or eloquent dancing with is on the decline. Your thoughts/opinions please.

Jolly-Green-Giant

Xper 5 Age: 36

He's too shy to approach me... I'm too shy to approach him...

It's ridiculous. We both avoid each other (and just make eye contact and look away). I blush and can't talk when I am around him. He blushes whenever someone mentions my name to him and suggests we date. We're both...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are back massages considered flirting?

If you saw a girl giving a guy a back massage would you think they were flirting? Also guys if you got offered a back massage, would you assume the girl was flirting?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sexual tension: does it take two?

You hear a lot about there being "sexual tension" between two people. Though I believe there is such a thing, I'm curious as to whether or not you guys think both parties can feel it when it's happening, or if it's just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend gets hit on all the time at work, should that bother me?

My boyfriend's job requires him to visit at least 5 different houses a day to work on their home. He has told me numerous times that women have hit on him while he's been there. One time a woman asked if she could watch...

RRSB2

Xper 5 Age: 39

Family & Friends

My girlfriend has a guy friend (many guy friends)

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We met while seniors in High School and right now we are finishing our first year in college (the same one). Well, the first semester concluded with her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you were a guy for a day...

What sort of things would you do? You were 6'2, muscular and handsome man who was wealthy. - punch people? - Lift heavy things? - Hit on women strangely? This is inspired by the other "what would you do if you were...

That-Guy

Guru Age: 40

How to know if a girl likes you online?

I have this girl's email.. I met her in person and I can't quite ask her out now cause I don't live in the same city (pretty far away). So what would be the most common signs of her possibly liking me when talking on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy exchanges numbers, is he interested?

Ok, this past Friday, I went to a club with a friend. We met some guys. We danced, chatted and they gave us a ride to our car after the bar closed and the dude I like gave me his number and I gave him mine. He is 22 and...

emigh25

Xper 5 Age: 43

Why make small talk with your ex?

What's the point in contacting an ex (who you aren't really friends with anymore, but things between you are civil) just to see how they've been or what they're up to now? Are you just curious? Do you still somewhat care...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Did I hurt his feelings? (details inside)

I was talking to the guy I like; everything was fabulous: we were making lots of eye contact, flirting, smiling...It was really nice. He says to me, 'I want your shoes' (clearly he was joking) and asks what shoe size I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Girl says "you're amazing."

Ive known this girl a few years now, she's moved to another town to further her studies but I still talk to her a lot over msn. She currently has her eyes on someone where she is now, but when she talks to me she still...

wonderingboy

Xper 5 Age: 35

For guys - Are sexual innuendos used to flirt with a girl you like?

Or do you do it to all of your female friends? The guy I like usually has something dirty to bring up in our conversations. Like saying that something looks like a dick or mentioning sexual activities like golden showers...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do emo guys find attractive?

I just got together with this guy and he's emo and I'm more goth/punk, I guess I hate labels but he's confident that he's an emo kid but I want to know what I can do to really turn him on.

Punch-bag-joe

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

Girls if you catch a stranger getting a quick glance at your boobs in a public place, do you get angry?

So I am guilty of checking out girls' boobs and butts in the grocery store. As a matter of fact I really enjoy going to the grocery store, because hot girls need to eat too! And there is never a shortage of girls there (I...

The-Dude-Next-Door

Xper 7 Age: 42

My grandpa is dying... And I don't know how to deal with it. Suggestions?

My grandpa, who I am extremely close to is dying. Its really stressing me out, like REALLY stressing me out. I'm developing an eating disorder, my grades are slipping ( they went from As and Bs to Ds and Fs), I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Drunk, Made Out with guy friend....now he's avoiding me! Help!

I've been friends with this guy for a few months, we have quite a few mutual friends which is how we met. My ex left me 2 months ago for another woman, and he knows about this and was appalled by it of course... Anyways...

Anonymous

(36-45)

FWB not interested anymore?

I was FWB with a guy, and it was perfect. It was casual and it was just what I needed, then he started developing feelings and I wasn't sure how to react so I kinda p*ssed off away for the weekend. When I came back, we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My ex broke up with me, but says it's my fault. And now acts like he hates me. What's going on?

So I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half. And friends before that. We spend probably 75% of our free time together and usually are very happy. A few weeks ago I decided to make an effort to seeing my girl friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do shy girls not know how to flirt back?

Okay so I like this girl and I'm still at it. I haven't done MAJOR flirting but just enough that she (or at least I think) knows I like her. I have touched her but she never seems to touch me back or initiate contact....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Girls what do you wear to feel sexy?

Is it a favorite outfit, is it dressing nice and having something sexy underneath, is it a favorite lingerie outfit? What do you wear to feel sexy?

p-guy

Xper 6 Age: 63

My boyfriend's ex contacted me saying they had sex!

what should I do? I asked him and he said no they didn't. He told me she started trouble and started harassing this girl he was seeing b4 me. Should I believe her? or is she making it up so we can break up?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend slept over his ex's house

he claimed to do nothing but sleep there but it doesn't make sense. He told me how much he hates her and how crazy she is. why would he slept there. He was falling asleep while driving.. and he was right next to her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my ex say she loves me but that she doesn't want to be with me because she's happy?

I've been dating this girl for over four years. We had our struggles and all but things were going good. Out of nowhere she decided that she needed some time to think about us. I went against my instincts and gave her the...

da_bomb_is

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girls, do you want equality or chivalry?

Women want equality and complain about how men are sexist useless pigs but in the same breath will complain about how men don't treat women like women anymore. Which one do you want?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Friends with benefits confusion?

Lately my friend with benefits has been holding my hand & kissing/hugging me goodbye. He does not normally do this & I do not want to read too much into it. I want to get a general idea of what the "rules" are in these...

Anonymous

(36-45)