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Never satisfied, never good enough!? help

I want to preface this by saying the achievements I have listed are not to brag but to give you an idea of where I am at. I came from a very abusive childhood which has scarred me for most of my life. On the bright side...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are "we" just friends?

Ok there's a guy I really like...I think I love him. We are old high school friends who reconnected and we've been consistently talking for a year now. We are separated by distance but we talk everyday for at least an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys-would you like a friend request?

Say if the girl you liked had facebook-would you like it if she sent you a friend request even if you'd never spoke to her before or would that be weird? (if you see her quite often because she lives near you).

xxangel1990xx

Xper 5 Age: 36

I drool when I sleep.

I'm really embarrassed about sleeping in my bf's bed because I drool quite a bit! I just think that's so nasty and I don't think I could fall asleep because I'm afraid I'll drool up his entire pillow. I've tried closing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What's wrong with being an asshole?

What is so bad about being an asshole, guys whine and cry they can't get a girl because they're to nice, and women whine and cry that their boy friend is a jerk, so they go to the nice guy and talk to him about. The nice...

tex151

Yoda Age: 43

Society & Politics

If a girl asks a guy to dance, could that mean she likes him?

was out with friends, and there was a girl with us I never met before, I was talking to her, and she asked me to dance with her. This is the first time a girl asked me to dance with her usually I'm the one asking. Just...

coolman

Xper 5 Age: 46

Family & Friends

What's the best way to confess my love to her?

We've been friends for a while, and I think she already knows what I feel and is waiting for me to say it. I'm going to confess my love to her. So girls, you tell me... should this be done in a handwritten note in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do most guys like wearing loose clothes or tight?

this one guy I liked used to wear tight shirts but baggy pants, and he was totally straight, do many guys wear tight shirts?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

If he doesn't say anything to you on Valentine's day?

he's just not that into you. Am I correct? lol

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a man "manly"?

Recently I called my husband a "manly man" and I have been struggling with what that may have implied. I have since considered what characteristics I believe make a man manly but I want to hear what you guys and girls...

rockmom

Xper 7 Age: 56

Marriage & Weddings

F-ing My Fiances Best Friend

I'm involved in the worst scenario ever. Yes, I am f-king my fiances best friend. My fiance and I have been together for 10 years. I moved to another country for work a year ago - this is a temporary situation, and my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when a guy has a new girlfriend after he broke up with his ex 2 weeks ago?

Was he bored of his ex and wanted something new? Or is he healing himself up? Please tell as much as you all can!

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does his chuckle/laugh mean?

I changed outfits from my uniform to my regular clothes for a party, and when my crush saw me (I didn't look at him because I was in a hurry), he chuckled. I'm sure there wasn't anything wrong with my outfit (not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I have a crush on my boss.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years back in September. I was over it after the first month. After I got over the boyfriend, I realized that I have a huge crush on my boss. I never told him about it because I figured...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like shaved heads on girls? guys?

I think anyone who passed the bald test is beautiful. Not only that, baldness gives a sort of uniqueness to your look. I ask cause I saw this girl on TV with a shaved mohawk that looks awesome, I want to get one too,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls stare at you walking by but when you make eye contact look away?

I've noticed lately a lot of girls I walk past will look at me, when I look up and make eye contact they quickly look away and pretend they weren't looking, or they stare at something else like their feet or out the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why lie about having a girlfriend?

I was casually seeing this guy for a few months. He never hid the fact that he was talking and possibly dating other girls. after a few months we talked about how we both like each other more then friends but he said he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

"Stop a man in his tracks with a single look"

In the movie memiors of a geisha I remember the quote "you cannot call yourself a true geisha until you can In the movie memiors of a geisha I remember the quote "you cannot call yourself a true geisha until you can stop...

So-Innocent

Yoda Age: 37

My ex-boyfriend's cousin.

I dated this guy for 2 and a half years. We broke up in the middle of 2008. Last month I made the mistake of hanging out with his cousin whom I have known for as long as I have known my ex. We got belligerently drunk and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Axe deoderant spray burns?

Alright, so, I've never owned a spray-on deoderant before or any kind of body spray. This morning after I get out of the shower I decide to give myself a complete once-over with this Axe body spray I just bought and when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend dumped me after I cheated and says she hates me:( I have to get her back...please help!

my girlfriend and I had been dating for just over a year and 8 months, I made the huge and stupid mistake of cheating on her once:(I told my girlfriend the day after because I knew it was wrong and I was so ashamed and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why will an attractive girl settle for an ugly guy but an attractive guy won't settle for an ugly girl?

I think it's really odd how you'll always see beautiful women with not so attractive men, Yet, you'll never see a couple where the guy is hot and the girl is ugly. I've seen an okay looking guy with what most people would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

So is teasing.. like shut up to them -- playfully not meaning anything -- okay to say?

Just playfully not meaning anything, when your flirting with the guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How far sexually can you go without losing respect after a few dates?

I'm 30+ now dating guys,but I am having a difficult time. I am looking for a relationship, but I'm meeting guys who want to go to bed fast. I sometimes ask them to stay & cuddle but no sex until we get to know each other...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

What's the average number people usually invite to their birthday party?

whats the average number people usually invite to their birthday party? I'm not renting out anything its just at my house.

tennishottie

Xper 5 Age: 33

Valentine's Day

Keeps asking what I'm doing for Valentines Day.. What do you think?

Both of us are single

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I hug a person of the opposite sex if we're friends?

We're good friends; nothing more (there was a bit of a spark and attraction between us but I want to stress to him that we're strictly friends). I'll be seeing him for the first time in months this summer. How would I hug...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Guys, do you dress to impress your crush?

Do guys dress to impress their crush if there is a possibility of seeing them somewhere? For example, you usually wear really nerdy glasses, but if you are going to see someone that you want to impress because you like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there a reason guys play mind games and ignore....

you from time to time, but flirt with you other days?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend told me that he wouldn't care if I cheated on him.

The only reason why I asked him is because I was watching Oprah about cheating. WHen he gave me that response, I was surprised and offended - being the 'love of his life'. we've been together for three years, two of which...

spideybriefs

Xper 5 Age: 42

Girl's Behavior

What do guys think about girls who smoke weed?

I smoke pot a lot. I smoke alone sometimes and get very creative, I like to write songs and poetry and just enjoy nature. I also enjoy social smoking, but I don't do any other drugs. No pill popping, coke, and I reall...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What does he really want? Relationship or Single Life?

Ok, I will break it all down for you as best as I can. I've know this guy since we were in Kindergarten, we'll be 25 this year, our parents are friends and we live 8-10 min from each other. He liked me back in high...

LaurenNC84

Xper 6 Age: 42