All Questions

The guy I'm seeing keeps asking me to buy him things-is he just using me?

A guy I recently started seeing keeps asking me to buy him small things, and hinting he wants me to help him get a car. Something in me keeps telling me this is not right. What do you think?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Best friend ditched me for a boy and now they're broken up and she wants me back?

So my best friend ditched me when she started to date this boy. They were together for 6 months. In those 6 months she ignored me, didn't care about my problems, found herself a new girlfriend she could tell everything...

LanaArtist

Xper 5 Age: 35

Can a girl like me, even though she doesn't talk to me?

I have a girl in my school who obviously I like. well we have a class together and during that time I see her occasionally look at me. She's done some odd things, once she did this head tilt thing which was away from me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Would you rather get dumped before or after Valentine's Day?

curiosity...

Jeep-V

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

Why is he suddenly working out?

The guy I'm talking to is suddenly working out?...Ive known him for about 2 years and during the time we hadn't been speaking he gained 25lbs of FAT! Now that we have started talking again, every time we talk he mentions...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

First Date- group or alone?

What is better on a first date? Is it better to go with a group of friends so it's more laid back and less nerve wracking, or just go alone with your date? And any ideas for best places on a first date? =P There's the...

Justanothergirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why would a guy avoid up close eye contact??

This guy made direct eye contact with me last year for about a minute. his head was turned toward me when he was walking in another direction. he was just staring, no expression nothing. I looked away after a while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Biggest turn off (clothing-wise)

Girls, what's the biggest turnoff when it comes to a guy's clothing? Baggy jeans, ugly shoes, etc.

yournamehere

Xper 3 Age: 35

Spanish speakers: what does it mean when they say toos nalgas?

i have a hispanic friend and he invited me to a spanish dance place where everybody was hispanic except me..i wasn't too fond of the music played because I did not understand the lyrics. I went to go buy a beer and I am...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Girls have you ever dated a guy shorter than you?

If you have dated a guy shorter than you, What was the height difference? Did you feel weird about it? Would you do it again? What's the shortest you'll go? If you've never done it... Is it because it just never happened...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy runs away from you?

I REALLY like this guy and he knows that I do. I have liked him for over 6 months but recently he has started running away or hiding behind his friends whenever I'm around! What does this mean! Can somebody please help me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

What makes you see a girl as attractive?

I am not talking about the external beauty or size. Beauty can fade anyway but just something about her.What is it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies why do you get angry at guy friends that fall for you?

Why do women treat guy friends that fall for them like people treat a man with a ski mask on at a bank. Don't you realize we are falling for you partly because its so easy to talk to you as a friend?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me?

Here are some things she does 1-She stares at me a lot but she never says anything. 2-she can talk with her friends loudly and outgoing but when I'm around shell get all quiet and stop talking. 3-Some days when I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Have you ever farted in public?

was it on purpose? where was it at? how did the people around you act? ha ha

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why are people naive enough to believe love is real?

I know this may seem like I am sour about this but really the truth is I kind of am. I mean it just seems like love does not exist I have never had a girl friend and I don't see it happening because I am not the most...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is play fighting with a guy friend always considered flirting?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Why do I get this urge to hug girls?

like, if I'm near a friend, I feel this weird need to hug her. I don't know why, I just do. I don't think it's anything sexual at all, I just want to do it. is that weird? cause I just suddenly started happening (like,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Girlfriend joining the army.

Recently my girlfriend has wanted to join the army. Now sure I should be one happy guy to see their girl go off and protect our country, but she's only 19 and still has her whole life ahead of her. Before I ask the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you know if a shy guy is into you?

are there any signs? like eye contact, little hi's? what if he seems totally comfortable with his friends and certain new people, but around you he gets quiet? what does that mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

V necks?

I'm not gonna lie, I know how to dress myself. I wear designer jeans and shirts. my shoes and jackets always match what I'm wearing. I"m also straight. I like girls, no question there. I've recently started buying and...

Chuck-

Xper 5 Age: 37

If a guy comes up from behind you and covers your eyes with his hands at your locker and then walks with you to your next class, mean something?

an older (senior) guy that you've been flirting with and talking to a lot comes up from behind you and covers your eyes with his hands at your locker and then walks with you to your next class, mean something? or just a...

SarahBabeeXO

Xper 6 Age: 34

Dating

Why is she not returning my call?

She always answers immediately when I call or text and she calls and texts me on her own as well. She always acts excited when she sees or talks to me. When we see each other just to hang out she would text me later...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Is he intimidated by me?

There's this guy I like and he gives me extremely mixed signals. It feels like he wants to talk to me, but at the same time is scared to? I catch him looking my way a lot. When we make eye contact he smiles and/or waves....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she wanted to be a housewife?

Would you let her? Or would you try to think of another arrangement? Do you think that marriages with the wife staying at home and the husband working are better than both working and both maintaining the house/kids?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What makes kissing feel good?

Like, I haven't been kissed yet, but I was wondering about it, cause people say it feels good, but I was wondering why it does? Like, when you kiss someone, is is due to emotional attraction, physical attraction or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I unlovable?

I've never been loved in my life- my family is very disconnected and any relationships that I've had have kind of fizzled out. I really yearn for the feeling of being wanted and appreciated. I also want to be able to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Thick legs

I have thick legs because I'm a runner, but a lot of people (both girls and guys) make fun of my legs for being so thick. I'm very skinny everywhere else but my legs are a bit unproportionally thick.(think Beyonce with a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

If a guy gropes you and like grabs your butt unwantingly..

and you punch him hard and end up hurting him, am I wrong for punching him? Since he did grab me or what? I feel like if you "touch" me, I have the right to defend myself so what do you think

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does "Nasheeli Ankay" mean?

What does "Nasheeli Ankay" mean? An Indian friend said that to me. When I asked him what that meant, he just smiled. Can any one translate please?

Rebellious

Xper 3 Age: 36