All Questions

36 26 39-Good measurements guys?

unfortunately its a pear shape not hourglass. but is it attractive or am I fat as some of my classmates seem to think? please don't be too harsh I am only 17 and just a bit self conscious like other young girls are at my...

goldilocks

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Why does this breakup (second time we've broken up) seem harder than the first?

my ex and I dated for a year and broke up in April. we got back together in July and broke up in late October. for whatever reason this split seems harder to get over than the first one. our breakups were very mutual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls who can dance. Hot or not?

whats so sexy about being a good dancer? i mean its just about enjoying yourself and enjoying the music. I know a lot of girls who dance extra seductively to attract guys. well, I don't. I just really really love to let...

shes-a-lady

Xper 4 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Meeting his parents?

How long do you wait until boyfriend/girlfriend meets parents? Do you usually wait until you know you're both in love, to introduce one another to your parents? Or do you--or have you--done it slightly earlier on?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl won't give me straight answer?

When I ask her on dates. She's gone on one with me already, but it's always "I'll let you know" or "maybe" or "we'll see". She even said this before the first date and she ended up going and now she's saying it for the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My family hates my girlfriend for no reason?

Hello! I've been going out with this girl for 4 months now and we are really enjoying the time we spend together. She's a very nice girl, nothing is complicated with her, there is no any real drama, there are no fights,...

MrJosh

Xper 4 Age: 41

Is it okay to check up on your ex?

Is it okay to check up on your ex, like seeing how they're doing, and making sure they're taking the break up okay? I'm not really sure about the proper procedures here, but I still wanna make sure my ex is doing fine,...

happa808

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why would he say he's coming over, not show up, and then ignore my calls?

I've known this guy for about 2 years. We've been talking on and off throughout the time we've known each other. When we first started talking he would hang around a lot but he was sorta pressuring me to have sex with...

cutiepie25

Xper 4 Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

Why do men cheat with ugly women?

This has happened a lot but the most shocking was my best friend who is gorgeous was cheated on. and the other girl was a dirty greasy haired overweight mess! my friend is a cute petite blond haired green eyed girl who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Nervous? Intimidated? Not interested?

How does a girl tell if a guy is nervous or intimidated around her? Does it sometimes make the guy seem uninterested?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Is this body the definition of hotness?

link Or can someone be a little chubby and still be able to get a nice girl?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Saying goodbye? Why do some people avoid it? Any of you "bad with goodbyes"?

What does "I am not good with goodbyes mean? My friend said he would stop by before he left... I woke up the next morning with like twenty different things lined up against my door. Some were symbols of stuff we did,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls ever wear overalls without a shirt and without a bra?

Simple question.

The-Dude-Next-Door

Xper 7 Age: 43

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend never invites me over his house?

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we're in our mid 20's. He never invites me over his house. His sister's boyfriend gets to go there all the time and sleeps over. Although she has a bedroom in the basement....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jersey Shore- did snooki deserve to get hit?

do you think she provoked him? was she even hurt that bad?

illiniredhead55

Xper 4 Age: 36

He made out with me when we were drunk three times. Does he like me?

Hey there! I’ve got a pretty urgent question. So the situation is this: I’ve been having a crush on a guy for three years now, we’re in the same class in school and we’re both seventeen. On a party one year ago I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy touches the small of your back?

There's a guy who I think might be interested, but I'm not sure sometimes because I second-guess myself. Before he has come up behind me and put his hand on the small of my back when asking me something. Initially I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are his hands sweaty?

I been dating this guy for almost 2 weeks now and we been on 3 dates and every time I hold his hand, they are sweaty. Then they get dry again later but mostly sweaty. What does that mean when a guys palms are sweaty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Don't wait for me?

what does it mean when a guys says that he doesn't want you to wait for him

theused72588

Xper 5 Age: 37

I'm 22, he's 42, why is he trying to pursue me?

To be honest by he looks like he is 30 that's why I was shocked when I found out how old he is. He is really good looking, def a womanizer back in the day but its clear he is over that now. I don't think I could ever go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She tells me "I wish I had a boyfriend just like you."

My best friend is a girl and a few months ago we were drinking at a party having a great time and on our way walking out she just blurts out I wish I had a boyfriend just like you. I was both offended and confused at the...

the-nice-guy

Xper 5 Age: 46

Should I give him an ultimatum?

I've been dating this guy for three months now and I know for sure that he is seeing/having sex with other people. I'm not cool with this behavior, so do I give him an ultimatum or walk away? In the past I would have...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

He keeps bringing up having a baby.

I just got married to my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years in October of this year. He is 24 and I am 20. Lately he keeps bringing up having a baby, and I keep telling him that I am not ready for that yet and that I want to finish...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys find swimmers' bodies attractive?

I swim competitively, and my shoulders and thighs have gotten a little broader and my hips have gotten smaller. I am just fine with how I look, but was wondering if guys found the physique of a female swimmer (not a...

swimmteam

Xper 5 Age: 33

What do I do with an underachiever?!

My boyfriend always does the bare minimum. I know he cares about me, but the other day I felt myself feeling grateful that he didn't ask me to throw down money for pizza, and I feel like I deserve a boyfriend that won't...

spret

Xper 5 Age: 40

Shopping & Gifts

Guy s do you think girls who ride dirt bikes are a turn on?

I've riding for about nine years an raced for four I'm a pro womens class here an ride a kawi 250

cassie913

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

When a girl in your class (college) gives you her number to study what does it mean?

so basically this chick added me on Facebook and she later asked me to study.. she gave me her number I never asked. I was just wondering what you girls thought? like what does it mean? does she simply want to study?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend smokes weed and I hate it. What do I do?

My boyfriend of two years smokes weed and I absolutely CAN NOT STAND IT. We're both 21 and he's smoked since before we got together so I don't think asking him to stop at this point in time is reasonable. I mean, I met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What does it mean when a guy says you're "alright"

this guy I think is cute thinks I'm "alright" what does that mean?! I just met him and I wanna know what he thinks of me..

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says "we can still be friends"?

so I met this guy at a concert through another guy friend. I thought he was hot so I added him on MySpace and traded numbers. we texted for a week or so and then thanksgiving weekend I ended up staying at his house, we...

riotgirl2005

Xper 5 Age: 39