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He treats me like I don't exist?

There's this guy that I used to be friends with, and we don't talk anymore. I've tried numerous times, to find out what happened, but he won't tell me, I texted him once after not talking to him for almost a year, why we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

White men dating black women with natural hair?

I met a white guy with my hair straightened out and he thinks I'm very attractive. Soon I'm going to be seeing him again and this time my hair won't be straightened. I wonder what most white guys think about black women...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy goes out of his way to say hi?

OK so this guy and I aren't really involved..we sleep together sometimes,but that's it. Well today we happened to be going to the same place and I guess he noticed I was following him afterwards(I was going to my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

Sleeping in your clothes?

I'm curious as to how many people out there just sleep in their clothes. About three years ago I decided to go to bed once with my clothes still on and I found it to be extremely comfortable. In the winter I sleep with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He kisses me but hasn't asked me out. Why?

Just about everyday, this guy kisses me. A lot actually. Most of the time, using tongue. He'll cuddle me and put his arms around me. This has been going on for a little while now. He recently started fingering me while we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is it so hard to get a damn date?

I can never catch a break, and it really makes me mad. There's always something keeping thing from moving forward. "I've got a boyfriend", "I'm talking to somebody", "I'm not interested in a relationship right now", "I...

Evil_Muska

Xper 5 Age: 39

Asking for a back massage in text?

How do you phrase a text message to a guy, asking for a back massage? What is a simple, yet seductive, non-direct way to ask for one?

xogreek

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do guys like it when girls put their hands on your chest?

Like just rest them there while talking to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I tell if a girl is playing hard to get or she is simply not interested? I don't have much experience

I've never had a girlfriend before, never been in a relationship, not by choice though, I'm just one of those unfortunate, unlucky people out there, anyway, how can I tell if a girl is playing hard to get or if she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he such a jerk?

So there is this guy and he is a complete jerk to me. Some of the things that he does; he will fault out tell me whatever I say is stupid, if I look at him he will just stare me down and glare and then start to laugh,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Establishing a brownie point system. Join in.

I need a good rewards chart to set up between a girl and I. I think it's important in a relationship to have goals to seek for each other, as well as ourselves. It makes things more interesting. (: Ex. Compliments =...

NotJustAnotherGuy

Explorer Age: 34

Should I add him to Facebook IF he told me to?

OK so first of all I'm kind of 'old fashioned' in the way that I believe if a guy is interested he will put the effort into contacting and getting to know a girl. They prefer to do the chasing, and if you chase them they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Regret a Break up?

Ladies in particular, have you ever regretted leaving a good guy? I dated my girlfriend all through college and she just left me to go play the field I guess.. I was so good to her. Affectionate, ambitious, nice,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys get annoyed when girls text them?

so this guy I'm really into gave me his number on Monday.. & we have texted a little.. but not all that much.. & my friends are all saying to play these games.. which I'm not into at all.. & I feel like it's just gonna...

xohxomeg

Xper 5 Age: 38

How to ask for a totally "RANDOM" girl's number when your downtown??

i go downtown all the time in the summer and spring with my friends, mainly to skate but to just have a good time. sometimes when were skating somewhere, we'll go right past 2 or 3 chicks and I've always wanted to ask one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to approach a girl in a crowded place and when she around her friends?

hiddencomic

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why would a guy put himself down constantly when in the company of the girl he really likes?

In conversation he will say negative things about his personality. Is he looking for a compliment? It's not occasional but regularly. Last time I saw him we had a great time but he was so agitated with me but we got on...

Natali

Xper 3 Age: 54

Just found out my boyfriend has a CHILD?

He has neglected to tell me since we started going out which was a few months ago, and the only way I found out was because he told one of my friends. He's been avoiding me lately(for weeks now) and I was going to break...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Boyfriend still has ex girlfriend's number on his phone?

Last night while I was at my boyfriend's house I asked him if I could use his phone. My phone is off and I needed to call my mom. He told me okay and handed me the phone as I went through to get my mom's number in his...

Sweety2087

Yoda Age: 39

She turned me down, and now I don't know what to do?

I asked out this girl I work with (part-time job, we're both in college) and she turned me down, said she had a relationship"ish" thing going on. Anyway, part of the reason I asked her out is that I got the impression...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are ways to flirt without crossing the line?

he has a girlfriend, but he's super good friends with me. I'm absolutely crushing hardcore on him and I need some flirting tips on how not to be OVERLY flirty and cross the line. what are you're suggestions?

holycow

Xper 6 Age: 34

Dating

If you and your girlfriend both have mono, should you still not kiss?

so me and my girlfriend both have mono (we got it from different people) so should we still not kiss?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys put up a front?

My ex and I were together for almost a year and the whole time we were together he was always a gentleman and never let me pay for anything. He was doing so good getting his life together and when he talked about the...

sthrnsweeti

Xper 7 Age: 39

Why do guys try to mess up my hair ?

Self explanatory

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I add my ex on Facebook?

I deleted her cause I was sad, but I feel that if I add her again, and move on with my life, she might feel and see that she wants to be back with me again. right now we don't have any lines of communication.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Is telling a complete stranger he's cute awkward to him?

If I were to tell the guy that I'm interested in that he's cute randomly would he think I was some sort of creeper? we don't know each other and I want to know how I can get his attention.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Pisces and Virgo, opposite signs do attract?

So this girl I've going out with is a Virgo! We just happened to talk about our zodiac signs that I just randomly brought up, said she's a Virgo and ask what's mine? Pisces...oh where both complete opposites on the...

ryans

Xper 5 Age: 41

Does it mean anything when a chick adjusts herself, mainly her top/blouse over her waist/jeans?

Does it mean anything when a chick adjusts herself, mainly her top/blouse over her waist/jeans when she's in your space? I see a lot of chicas do this adjusting thing when I walk past. Sometimes I do notice a physically...

kevlar

Xper 6 Age: 41

What does it mean when a guy says "you chose me"?

isn't it the same way around? isn't it also that the guy chose me? but he says I chose him? so does this mean he thinks I like him more than him or is this some ego thing? guys help please.

Anonymous

(36-45)