All Questions

Didn’t wish me a happy birthday?

So I got into an argument with the guy I was dating and I told him I didn’t want to be with him anymore out of anger. I called him the next day and apologized and told him I didn’t mean it. Two days later was his birthday...

Sunflower2412

Xper 5 Age: 31

Holidays

How much did you spend on Christmas gifts?

I spent a total of $140, but since my mom's birthday is on January 13 and my girlfriend's is two days later, I buy their gifts together. Part of it also came from gift wrapping all but 2 of the gifts (it wasn't offered)....

Twalli

Master Age: 35

Education & Career

Did you expect to ever have the job you have now?

traceeeeeeeeee

Xper 2 Age: 28

My boyfriend confessed his love to me; I felt nervous and shocked and, for a moment, blacked out. Has anyone experienced this?

On Monday, my boyfriend and I did a fun date night activity after work courtesy of him; on the ride home, I found him a bit quiet, but as we arrived in front of my house, I was going to go for a kiss, and he then told me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Food & Beverage

Cereal first or Milk first?

coachTanthony

Master Age: 55

Did you find the new Wednesday show to be racist?

People are saying there was too many black bullies. But there was a lot of white bullies too

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I even continue talking to this guy?

Me and this guy recently started talking, he told me that he recently got left by his wife and he’d like to take it slow. At the beginning he was really excited to talk to me, and we stayed on the phone for hours. He was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you prefer to be ghosted or be told the truth?

Would you prefer if someone you are seeing ghosts you all of a sudden stops picking calls and answering messages or be told the truth that he/she isn't interested in you at all and even tell the reason for not being...

insteadfew

Explorer Age: 29

What would be a pleasant surprise for you?

bigpauly

Explorer Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

If a guy is honest with you does that mean he cares about you or he’s just being blunt?

I went off on him a lot and he said that he didn’t understand my random outburst.. I would say cruel things to him … I even told him that I hope something happened to him on the job.. but his response was always so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why am I not my type's type?

I get asked out a lot. I get asked for my number and flirted with by strangers both online and in real life. Most of the guys I've been close to have confessed to have feelings for me. I'm not showing off, but I'm kind of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

"You must love in such a way that the other person feels free." Do you agree or disagree with this quote?

This is from Thich Nhat Hanh who was a Vietnamese Buddhist monk.

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

Flirting

Women lie to get attention from men. Guys lie to get laid?

I don't personally do this. But while I don't think guys should, I don't really begrudge any of them for doing this. Because it's all part of the dance. How do you feel about this? Are women wrong for lying? Are men wrong...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I like this guy I my science science class and we’ve had like 5-6 good conversations, follow each other on Instagram, and have had small dm interactions/text convos but we don't seem to like ever acknowledge each other...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Shopping & Gifts

Can you help me find a present for my nephew?

he likes legos and star wars but my sister gives him everything! do you know of anything unique?

Sevenpointfive

Master Age: 46

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend delete my family from Facebook, why?

So to keep it short my ex broke up with me about a month ago, we were together for almost a decade. And he said so many confusing things to me and kind of blamed me for the breakup. About 2 weeks later I find out he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How rich would you say this person is?

Someone worth £7 million (8-10million usd) depending on rates. His house is worth above 2million usd. The rest of his wealth is in businesses, life insurance and multiple investment properties (buy to let) and pension...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is guy interested after the second date if he doesn't text me that much?

I had two dates with this guy which went pretty well I guess. On the second date we kissed and kept cuddling the whole evening. But after that, he didn't follow up. It was me who sent him a message the next day saying...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it creepy to send a guy I like a message after finding out his number from a group chat?

There is a man who I like at a dance class I attend. He’s so good looking and friendly and polite. We’ve made small talk between dancing before. There are only 2 more classes left before it finishes for Christmas and it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Trending & News

Will you see it? Additional Thoughts?

What do you think of the overall purpose, behind the New Film, to be released: Retrogade? Will you see it? Would you remember this? Initial release-date, is estimated to be December 9. To preview the trailer, click...

Rosexøxø

Guru Age: 23

Am I overthinking on her contacting me?

So me and this girl been talking one a month. Been on 4 dates. She even drove to the beach on Thanksgiving to spend it with my family. We’ve kissed and only done oral sex. Past couple of days, her contact been decreasing....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Holidays

Did/does your family do the “elf on the shelf” thing?

Wicked_Witch

Xper 4 Age: 32

Food & Beverage

Chocolate or vanilla?

Which do you like better, let's see what wins

MementoMori777

Guru Age: 25

Fashion & Beauty

Why do we call it redhead even though that hair color looks more like orange than red?

Bethany22

Guru Age: 31

What is the funniest thing you have ever done stoned from weed?

Titlover01

Yoda Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Have you ever had a close female friend you talked to almost every day? One you could be vulnerable and talk about deep things? What was it like?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Entertainment & Arts

Who's watching the Martian eclipse?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/AmA0dXACe4M

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 59

Biden signs #MeToo law. Do you think this is part of the reason why men are leaving the work force?

Biden signs #MeToo law Curbing Confidentiality Agreements - www.msn.com/.../ar-AA151Fgs?ocid=sapphireappshare Men are dropping out of the labor force because they’re upset about their social status new study finds -...

SolitarySolace

Yoda Age: 29

Flirting

Does she genuinely wants to meet me or is she playing with me?

So for a couple of days I'm chatting with this girl. It began on tiktok and proceeded to instagram. It's a mix between those 2. A friend I shared screenshots to said I was blind and I'm not direct enough while she gave me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you ever feel like girls hate you?

Like I don’t do anything. I always get the impression that girls hate me. Before meeting and talking to me. Why? I don’t do anything.

Anonymous

(25-29)

How common is giving birth in the US as a tourist?

My mother was on a multiply entry tourist visa. She purposely used it to give birth to me in NY. That's her favorite state and she wanted me to be born there. She had that well calculated. She doesn't regret and feels she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

We broke up and he's constantly online on whatsapp? Is he just talking to other women?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okay to share dessert in first date?

I'm thinking about ways to ask this guy out. I know he likes sweets so I want to ask him to go with me to this nice cafe that has dessert. I'm planing on saying something like "Hey, there's this place with nice desserts...

Agirlinneedhelp

Xper 5 Age: 28

Why don't women having affairs speed up the process of the man leaving his wife by telling his wife herself that he's having an affair?

Women having affairs with married men often nag at the guy to leave his wife, only for him to find all kinds of excuses that the timing is wrong. Why doesn't the woman tell his wife for him, and then the nagging would be...

Bethany22

Influencer Age: 31

When your partner travels out of town is it important to text/call each other everyday?

I personally think communication is healthy at least a call once a day. But when my boyfriend is away to see family or vacation, he doesn’t text me the whole week until he’s back. What do you guys think?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do guys get mad at their girlfriend when other guys are hitting on her but they do the same?

Double standards? Guys get mad at their girls when other dudes hit on them or are nice or friendly or flirt even if they know the girl is in a relationship, but then why do they absolutely hate it when their girlfriend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What about this?

Former President Donald J. Trump hired people to search four properties after being directed by a federal judge to look harder for any classified material still in his possession, and they found at least two documents...

msc545

Master Age: 39

Girls, have you ever been pursued by two guys you were into at the same time and ended up having to choose one of them over the others?

There's two guys (or more) you are into and in the end had to choose one over the other. ever had this happen before? why did you end up choosing the guy you went with over the other?

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

Are there any conversation topics that make you feel uncomfortable?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is teaching grammar racist?

High school English teacher says teaching grammar is basically teaching white supremacy and racist because it teaches students how to talk like white people. Source of teacher video:...

Anonymous

(25-29)