Okay long story short, We've been together for 3 years and we also have 16 month old baby together. For the past year and half he has been so terrible. He's moody and so mean! Its so bad I have to ask him who's the woman in our relationship.
Well he works and I don't but that's only because I can't find one, and YES I have been trying very hard. Even subways in my area aren't hiring. But anyways, it makes me sad that he treats me the way he does. Examples: I'll spend all day doing the laundry, picking up after our son and I exercise 2 hours a day. Oh, dinner will also be ready and done. So he gets home, throws his clothes on the floor and then gets mad that he can't find his pajamas. Then I bring him his plate and starts to play his PS3 and he yells at me to get our son cause he's in the way. No hey babe, thanks for dinner or the room looks great!
I just feel unappreciated and unloved. I wanna break up with him but he says he loves me. I just don't understand how he loves me but he still acts so mean. I know hell be there for our son but my family wants me to stay. Its just not fair cause I treat him so great and he treats me so bad. I wanna break up...Oh were both 20.
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Ok there are two reasons that I can think of 1 he is still crapping is self about being a dad and takes it out on you. Or (and sorry bout this one) he is a tw.at he may say he loves you but by the sound or it they are just words to him maby go stay with your family for a week or two just so he can see what its like to be alone he needs to appreciate you and its nothing to do with you not having a job its hard to find one now only agency are getting hired because there cheep. Have you told him this maby he doesn't know he is doing it. Oh and tell him to look for his own dam pajamas and get his own plate he's not so stupid he don't know how to look is he?1