I wouldn’t move into a home owned by a women’s parents primarily because it indicates that the parents are controlling. If it was a gift to the child, then the deed would be in her name. Being that it is retained in the parents name and they are likely controlling individuals, they can at any time come to the property they own and tell people what to do on their land. This might mean they intrude into the home unannounced. It might mean they come and impose their will on her and start arguments and other drama that will cause relationship problems. If they don’t get their way, they might take it out on me. If they don’t agree with me, they might say they want me out or to pay rent to live with her. It’s just a huge mouse trap of fucked up that I would never want to step into. If she owns it, I wouldn’t mind staying there several nights a week, but I would still maintain my own property. I wouldn’t put myself in a position where I’d end up homeless over some emotional spat.
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Sounds like he is a gold digger or has beta angst or both. Gold digger meaning he wants the house if y'all breakup. Beta angst meaning he doesn't feel like a man because he's too much of a wimp to figure out how to work and buy his own house like an actual man would do.
Just sounds like jealousy that you have parents that are there to help you which is something his parents didn’t do much of. Doesn’t matter whose name it’s in. My dad is doing that as well. He is buying the house I live in now and passing it to us eventually. Honestly, you are better off not being in contact with someone that’s jealous of you
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Why are you still in contact with him at all?
maybe he's just jealous?
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