My girlfriend and I took a “break” in April when she told me I needed to get my life in order if I wanted to have a future with her. I promptly checked into a rehab two weeks later. While there, she left and started dating another guy which I discovered last week.
I tried to reconcile and she was unwilling. I thanked her for the relationship and apologized for letting things turn out the way they did. She said she understood but that it doesn’t discount our friendship. She texted me on my birthday and I thanked her, but said I need to do things on my own right now and that her contacting me was making it difficult. I told her we were together for 3.5 years and I’m not sure if I could be friends going forward, but that it didn’t have to be permanent. I unfollowed her on Instagram so I didn’t have to see her picture with the new guy.
Today (a week later), her friend randomly posted a snap to her story of a screenshot of a text where my ex-gf said “I’ve had the busiest today. Can’t wait to see you and relaxxxx. And play 🤗🤗🤗”. But it honestly seems like she sent that to her friend as a concocted text to make me jealous about her hooking up with her new boyfriend. Otherwise, it’s just a bizarrely personal thing to post on Snapchat and I know neither of them would ordinarily do anything like that and the new guy doesn’t have snap so he wouldn’t see it. Any advice on what to do?
