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We are supposed to get married, we even got engaged after that she broke up with me for another guy. After 7 long years, she messaged me saying sorry. What should I reply?
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He called me to say sorry after 3 months, when he was already in a new relationship, he said he couldn’t sleep out of guilt, he knew he fucked it up and he wanted me to know he was sorry and he asked me to forgive him.
But it didn’t matter because he said he didn’t regret doing what he did, he just felt guilty. Maybe someday he’ll regret. I don’t know.
But I totally understand you. We were engaged and he was the person I wanted to live and die next to.
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Sorry that happened.
7 years and what’s her expectation? That y’all will magically get back together as if nothing happened?
she clearly doesn’t know her mistake or value you enough. Why is she so eager to crawl back? Don’t entertain her idea.
she doesn’t deserve you at all.
It could be the most rasonable not to react, but can you be reasonable all the time? I would be far too curious what's going on and what it could mean for me.
Maybe she regrets her choice as she is in some sort of dead end. For example, he may not ever want kids, but she does. We cannot speculate, but I would at least find out.
It's been seven years as you said. So she couldn't contact you in that long period? I wouldn't even say anything to such a person. Especially in your case leaving you at that point in life.
She doesn't deserve you bro better continue with your life as it is and don't look back.
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What do you want? You want to reconcile, you want to tell her to go fuck herself, or something in between those extremes?
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What is it with this year! So many exes poppin up to say sorry. I be trying not to laugh in their face. Like it dont even matter now dude. I’m bot sure how to advise you since y'all were married but i wouldn't fall for that bullshit. Brush it off
Nothing. They would no longer exist for me. They can shove their apologies where the sun does not shine.
- Anonymous(30-35)
to be honest. seeing a relationship last that long and then unexpectedly get broken up with, she may have been cheating for a while now...
441 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Just text her saying I’m sorry you are a selfish person , you had your chance and you blew it , never take an ex back period , you will just be wasting your time
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Since you're asking for advice on here, let's go ahead and say don't say anything back.
It's better to just not engage. Set yourself free and forgive her not for her sake but yours. Then have nothing to do with her
She got dumped or something and try to use you as a back up. Block here and keep living your life. Respect yourself.
747 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. You don't have to reply at all. Or you could just tell her "It hurt a lot but I've moved on."
2.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Personally I wouldn't
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Nothing. Sounds like she's trying to hoover you up.
The rule of a long term marriage is 7 years long. Missed it by less than 12 months
What do you want? Extra marital sex? An apology?
2.1K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. stop talking to your ex. move on with your life
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Say "No worries yo"
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