It's because no one wants me. And that's the total truth.
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It's really not that I'm "choosing" to be single, I just am. I have always had bad luck with men, am rarely approached by them, and feel like I'm being desperate if I initiate contact.
Why the fuck do you put yourself down with such extreame hostility? I'm probably over 4, 000 miles away from you and I can sense the rage inside of you when you typed that shit like you wanna kill yourself or sumin.๐
Not the way I see it. When I go for a girl I see it as fishing, I don't go to the lake or in the ocean to catch a gold fish, I go for sharks... Beautiful intelegent females with class and manners is my idea of a shark and just like fishing, it takes patience to catch a good women aka shark
Honestly to keep the converaation going but I can see the sarcasm in your words and I can sense you don't really undsrstand what I was relating it to, either you don't understand or you hate the idea of being related to marine life LOL. Either way I'm sorry for bothering you and have a great night, thanks for the.
No need to apologize, it was a silly analogy hahaha it was more like guy talk, that's my bad. ๐ but what I was trying to say any good relationship is worth the effort. You can't expect a good guy to really fall in your arms rite? You have learn to be patient and put up with people's shit sometimes and adapt rite? Like let's say this, let's say I was dating you for like 3 years and I wanted you to move in with me, I'm sure when you move in your going to do things differently than the way I usually do them. And that's gonna cause problems. Maybe you do the dishes At night and I do them imediately when my food is eaten, maybe you do laundry once a week and I do it twice a week, maybe like hot weather and I can't sleep in sweats or big ass blankets I gotta sleep with thd wondow open. All this shit you do that I don't like but I like you and I gotta adjust and learn to accept the things you do if I don't want you to go.
Relationships are supposed to be built on friendship and trust. You build friendship with your mate and trust. You trust him to never betray you or do you wrong and that way you want to keep them around because you'll soon realize that there is no one else like them in your life. I'm not saying to marry them right out of high school because I probably wouldn't do that if I was still fresh out of high school either. You're not even 21 and there's so much things you need to do and explore. But it is nice to find guys or girls other than the ones that are only good for hooking up.
No. its not about following rules. Its about doing what's right. The rules aren't always right. In fact, a lot of times they're wrong. Blindly following the rules is opposite of having outstanding moral character because a lot of times you have to break or disregard "the rules".
When you get a girlfriend don't always hit her up to see what she's doing, let her come to you. Don't be asking for snything from her act as if your still single, that way you won't appear as needy. And learn to not speak your mind soo much even if she says sonethin to upset you, there's a thin line, a bLznce between being needy and showing her you actually care... Just try not to care so much when he says somethin or does somethin you don't like.. My trick is to just get quiet or go do somthin else that takes my mind away from her cuz when I focus on shit she says I get mad and start fights. I just learn to say, "oh alright that's coo babe"
I say it because I'm not attracted to anyone. The people who do like me I usually don't like back, and as of right now no one likes me that I know of. And I don't know, just am
Well I only say that because sigh guys don't have much of a personality, they usually have one or two word answers and then they get quiet and just stare at you or stare in a different direction because they're too shy to look at you. How do I know? Because I am one of those Shy guys and I'm just beginning to get out of my shell lol but I'm only quiet unless I'm spoken to but whrn j do speak everyone says I hsve an immaculate personality and a way with words when it comes to being romantic. But that's just me. I hope you find someone you're into a a lot and I hope you give him a chance
Lady I don't know your name, what you look like, your race, or anything about you. Therefor I have 0% interest in you. From the way you talk, it seems like pleasing you is harder than convincing a crack to stay in rehab... lol and do you honestly think I'd let you turn me away and give up so easily?๐ณ hahaha Im very patient when I want something and I modt definitely know how to impress but your no where near my desire list so I was just curious of the qualification, I was never interested in you in General but thanks for your time and good luck finding whomever or whatever type of guy your looking for๐โ๏ธ
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It's because no one wants me. And that's the total truth.
It's really not that I'm "choosing" to be single, I just am. I have always had bad luck with men, am rarely approached by them, and feel like I'm being desperate if I initiate contact.
I'm an emotionally devoid peice of shit.
Yeah, that's pretty much all there is to it.
Why the fuck do you put yourself down with such extreame hostility? I'm probably over 4, 000 miles away from you and I can sense the rage inside of you when you typed that shit like you wanna kill yourself or sumin.๐
Nah, I'm procrastinating that because it requires too much effort.
Not the way I see it. When I go for a girl I see it as fishing, I don't go to the lake or in the ocean to catch a gold fish, I go for sharks... Beautiful intelegent females with class and manners is my idea of a shark and just like fishing, it takes patience to catch a good women aka shark
Wonderful analogy you have used to compare marine organisms to females...
For what reason have you shared this with me?
Honestly to keep the converaation going but I can see the sarcasm in your words and I can sense you don't really undsrstand what I was relating it to, either you don't understand or you hate the idea of being related to marine life LOL. Either way I'm sorry for bothering you and have a great night, thanks for the.
Thanks for the vote*๐
You haven't bothered me all, I just found your words quite amusing. I'm sorry for coming off as a cynical bitch, I carry the tendency to do that. :/
No need to apologize, it was a silly analogy hahaha it was more like guy talk, that's my bad. ๐ but what I was trying to say any good relationship is worth the effort. You can't expect a good guy to really fall in your arms rite? You have learn to be patient and put up with people's shit sometimes and adapt rite? Like let's say this, let's say I was dating you for like 3 years and I wanted you to move in with me, I'm sure when you move in your going to do things differently than the way I usually do them. And that's gonna cause problems. Maybe you do the dishes At night and I do them imediately when my food is eaten, maybe you do laundry once a week and I do it twice a week, maybe like hot weather and I can't sleep in sweats or big ass blankets I gotta sleep with thd wondow open. All this shit you do that I don't like but I like you and I gotta adjust and learn to accept the things you do if I don't want you to go.
Lol I'm not sure if that analogy was better than the first one hahaha!! oh well at least I tried๐
Honestly I don't see the point... well considering I'm Still in highschool I think it's silly to be in a relationship
Why's that?
Where's it headed? I wouldn't marry my highschool sweetheart immediately after hs, because of the higher risk of divorce.
Relationships are supposed to be built on friendship and trust. You build friendship with your mate and trust. You trust him to never betray you or do you wrong and that way you want to keep them around because you'll soon realize that there is no one else like them in your life. I'm not saying to marry them right out of high school because I probably wouldn't do that if I was still fresh out of high school either. You're not even 21 and there's so much things you need to do and explore. But it is nice to find guys or girls other than the ones that are only good for hooking up.
I have more important things that I need to do and that take priority.
Rightt...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m7E0HyyNpAs
Pretty much
@lllusive_Man
I just don't trust myself or my partner in a relationship. Plus it's too much drama for my taste.
Special? No. Stupid? Yes. Stems from having the challenge of finding a decent gal.
Explain to me further
I'm single because I've had physical issues over the last 3 years and mainly because I rarely ever talk to people
Communication is the key to getting things you want. Gotta break free from the shyness
I just have nothing to say to anyone lol
I'm only attracted to guys with outstanding moral character. I don't know where guys like that are.
Define your idea of moral character... You mean like rules he refuses to break under any circumstances?
No. its not about following rules. Its about doing what's right. The rules aren't always right. In fact, a lot of times they're wrong. Blindly following the rules is opposite of having outstanding moral character because a lot of times you have to break or disregard "the rules".
I want to be independent first, by getting job , achieving good status... Then I will destroy my freedom by marrying... :D
Im not anyones type I guess. It is what it is though.
not so much B, but a bit of A and C.
How so, choose one that relates to you the most
It's rather difficult to choose.
Haven't found the opportunity yet... and is kinda hard when you're shy and introverted...
Girls don't ask me out, and I don't really know any of the girls near me.
I've been told I'm good looking, but it doesn't seem like girls actually care about pure "looks".
I suck. Girls tell me that I'm needy, weak and too sensitive.
When you get a girlfriend don't always hit her up to see what she's doing, let her come to you. Don't be asking for snything from her act as if your still single, that way you won't appear as needy. And learn to not speak your mind soo much even if she says sonethin to upset you, there's a thin line, a bLznce between being needy and showing her you actually care... Just try not to care so much when he says somethin or does somethin you don't like.. My trick is to just get quiet or go do somthin else that takes my mind away from her cuz when I focus on shit she says I get mad and start fights. I just learn to say, "oh alright that's coo babe"
I'm still trying to get over my vibrator
I'm seriously in love with him
I might legally marry him
I don't know who you are but man you keep poppin up in my post sayin stupid shit, don't make me have to block you kid๐
block me cuz we can't stop and we won't stop
Weird ass mutha fu... ๐๐
I don't like anyone and no one likes me. Oh well
Women always say that at a young age a lot but in curious, why do you say it? What makes you assume your unattractive?
I say it because I'm not attracted to anyone. The people who do like me I usually don't like back, and as of right now no one likes me that I know of. And I don't know, just am
What's you idea of an attractive guy? Name some crucial qualities to win you over..
I have to like your personality
Lol shy guys are an automatic disqualification with you I bet
No, they're not.
Well I only say that because sigh guys don't have much of a personality, they usually have one or two word answers and then they get quiet and just stare at you or stare in a different direction because they're too shy to look at you. How do I know? Because I am one of those Shy guys and I'm just beginning to get out of my shell lol but I'm only quiet unless I'm spoken to but whrn j do speak everyone says I hsve an immaculate personality and a way with words when it comes to being romantic. But that's just me. I hope you find someone you're into a a lot and I hope you give him a chance
My terms and conditions are harder to qualify...
Hahaha name some of the qualifications s man must meet to get to spend time with you...
lol... u can't fulfill..
Lady I don't know your name, what you look like, your race, or anything about you. Therefor I have 0% interest in you. From the way you talk, it seems like pleasing you is harder than convincing a crack to stay in rehab... lol and do you honestly think I'd let you turn me away and give up so easily?๐ณ hahaha Im very patient when I want something and I modt definitely know how to impress but your no where near my desire list so I was just curious of the qualification, I was never interested in you in General but thanks for your time and good luck finding whomever or whatever type of guy your looking for๐โ๏ธ
Trust issues basically
If I wasn't ugly I would have a bf end of story
I think U'r Beautiful , & don't ever let anyone try to convince U otherwise SweetHeart !!!