My girlfriend wants to sleep with another man and I don't know if I feel comfortable with this, am I being controlling? Please help me? (Page 2)
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How are hoes like this getting boyfriends and I'm still single?
You tell me.
If you aren't being offered opportunities, find them.
@tyber1 I'm reject central
That's just what it's like to be the pursuer. You get rejected more times than not, sometimes by a significant amount. Just take the advice men are usually given and keep your chin up. You'll find someone eventually if you try hard enough.
@tyber1 exactly, women need to step up.
@batesis I mean, she seems pretty if I can go off just the one picture. I'm sure it can't be that hard, unless it's a misleading picture or she's just unlikable.
@tyber1 I'd just do oral on her, she does seems cute and I wonder how her p***y tastes like.
@batesis uh ok...
@tyber1 Women have gotten off by my magical tongue, teeth and lips.
@batesis good for you?
@tyber1 It's a good skill to have because the majority of men are clueless with the woman's body. I know all 7 erogenous zones from the woman. Kinda creepy but I like pleasing women not just my penis.
What is happening?
What you mean?
@batesis all of this bragging about your sexual skills and you stating your desire to sexually please @Whaaaaa is coming out of nowhere and probably making her uncomfortable.
@tyber1 thank you
Loll stupid people get gfs and bfs but you and me don't? Lol I am thinking the same..
And why are you a reject central?
@singlebee I don't know you tell me
Lol trust me yesterday one of my friends who is completely unless person got a girlfriend ! And I was like wtf? I am so much better than him and I don't have one! Lol
Though I am not putting myself or there so yeaa I am pretty sure if I start approaching would get a girlfriend. . lol :-D
looooool holy shit. break up with her and never talk to her again. that's super fucked up of her to do. find someone better.
if she doesn't respect you or isn't loyal to you, you need to let her go.. she is just using a lame excuse to cheat.
Your girl is expressing hoe tendencies. Drop her. Like real talk. Move on to someone who wants only you
If you let her do it?
Then you should change your username to "Cuckold4Life"
Why don't your just dunno her? Man she is such a slut that she isn't even capable of being a girlfriend... Who do you wanna be with a girl who if unfaithful manipulative worthless waste of space?
Ask her if you want to sleep with another foreign girl. I'm surprised she isn't "experimenting" with another girl as both are unacceptable to me! I don't want a non-monogamous whore or a bisexual girl!
Dump her ass right now. She's a smarmy little worm beneath contempt,
She's got a lot of nerve. Tell her if she wants to experiment then that gives you the right to experiment too. If she wants to sleep with another guy then tell her the relationship has to finish. She can't have her cake and eat it too.
if she wants to sleep anther guy let her sleep after breaking up
Break up her or let her do it only if you get to bang another girl
This is nothing about you being controlling. This is about you being a cuck.
Break up.
She's a manipulative monkey lover. And you sir, are a cuck
If you don't feel comfortable with it let her know. If she persists, perhaps it is time to move on.
she's trying to control you man. Put a stop to it or lesve her.
Dude. you need to dump this bitch
dude dump her omg , you deserve someone better.
No, you're been controlled.
Break up with her
aren't you being a pussy?
This is the average young man now. Thanks, feminism.
@evenlift I totes agree with you. Whoever disliked my comment is a pussy too.
I just got a new notification. Asker, I'm not gonna sugarcoat anything for you. The truth hurts, eh?
I am a respectful guy, I'm not a controlling jerk
If that makes me a pussy I am fine with that we talk about this topic all the time in my university during lectures.
"Respectful"? Sounds like you don't have any self-respect though unless you're actually into the cuck fetish.
"I'm not a controlling jerk"? This is very simple. You either value monogamous relationships and have the guts to uphold YOUR standards, or you don't.
You've been brainwashed/indoctrinated by your deluded professors and peers. Whatever happened to critical thinking skills?
Well I'm sorry but I have to disagree we learned in class that men use this concept of telling a woman what's right and wrong as a way to control women and that women have rights to etc in relationships, I also learned that monogamous relationships are somewhat sexist as well because the concept of your girlfriend is pretty much like treating a female like property, I am uncomfortable with this but I want to approach this in a non sexist way, because telling women what to do is wrong. I learned that from females, school, and especially my mother.
The most important thing I learned was NEVER to tell a woman what to do or what she can't or can do
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You've been castrated, figuratively speaking. Sad.
But how I just don't understand how I am castrated I am being how a guy should be, and I can't be wrong because I am told the same thing by everybody my mother peers, educators, and all the time in the news you read about it, heck there was just a huge woman's march a month ago with millions of women saying that men don't have the right to tell them what to do and that women are independent which I agree with, how exactly am I indoctrinated, I'm not angry or anything but I am just curious, I just can't see how telling a woman what is appropriate and what isn't appropriate is okay, it just seems wrong to me.
Anon, I disliked it too. "aren't you being a dumb bimbo"? You are what you eat anyways,
I ain't a pussy, I am not some weakling. I'd dump the girl for sure!
Being a pussy + you are what you eat = being proud of one self!
@evenlift so true, just watched maury povich = FML!
You're not being controlling when you let her know, that's not how you operate. If you cave in to that & stay with her, she'll lose respect for you. I'd end everything anyway.
@Asker Relationships are partnerships nowadays, you know? We don't live in ancient Rome, where women were actually the property of the Pater Familias. It's the current year! We're not oppressed in 1st world countries.
Clearly, you're willing to let women walk all over you. Since you're a guy your opinion and your own wishes don't matter, it seems. I was not aware that women alone can decide how relationships work.
For starters, the definition of sexism is "prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination on the basis of sex". How is monogamy sexist?
Asker, you can't be real. Part of a relationship is controlling the other to an extent otherwise it's like a country without borders