Dating two guys - when should I cut it off with one of them? (Page 3)
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That right there tells every man that your not faithful. You should date 1 not 2 . obviously you given yourself a bad reputation right there. grimey
She's gone out on one date with one guy and two dates with another. That doesn't mean she is sleeping with them... She definitely should pick before it goes that far though and she shouldn't keep seeing them both. A few dates should be enough. But you are judging her far too harshly too soon. I wouldn't even calling that full on 'dating'. That's going out on dates. Dating is when you are seeing someone on a regular basis (at least weekly) for a period of time without it being a committed relationship. This is the stage before dating. It's not like you have one or two dates and all of the sudden you are a couple.
Tons of guys go out on multiple dates with different women all the time. If you're a chick that is single and you go on a date with a guy you pretty much have to expect that he's likely (not always but it's highly probable) been on dates with a few other chicks that month or even that week... And you are expected to be 100% ok with it.
You're also expected to be ok with it if he's sleeping with them.
"That doesn't mean she is sleeping with them"
Jonathan1989 never said she was sleeping with either of them.
@Nyx_85 i dont care what you say i say how it is
@rocksongwriter i dont care what you say either it is what it is. Get out of here
Somebody is grouchy today.
rocksongwriter Never said anything against you. Why are you telling him to get out of here? LOL oh boy...
@rocksongwriter I KNOW that. That isn't what I meant. I meant it's not like she's sleeping with them...
At least she never said she was.
@Nyx_85 no 1 is grouchy im stating what it is.
I'm not sleeping with either of them and haven't even kissed one of them.
Then you post
Nothing wrong with it. Not committed. No worries. If one says to you that they want something more, than cut it with the other if it feels right.
Give them the option to choose whether to stay. It makes your choice easier if one chooses to leave. You give hood advice man.
Thanks!
Break up with both of them. Neither of them want you truly, when they find out what you really are.
I think that after going on 3 dates with both, you should make a decision.
So long as you've not committed to neither one of them to be exclusive, it should be fine.
As long as you don't make things serious while dating both then it's fine. Just date both for now and see which one you like more.
Whenever you're ready to make a decision. In the meantime enjoy.
Have sex with both , the guy with the biggest dick is yours then :)
Good for you, being a chooser and all. Dump the one with the smaller dick and less muscle.
lol at the triggered snowflakes who downvoted me. Lighten up.
Lol that did that to me too hahaha
Lmfao😂
The most likely thing is neither one of them will work out, so it doesn't matter.
Hahahha quite the cynic are we?
@ClauseViter
It's based on personal experience. OP should have fun and get to know both of them. The relationships will resolve themselves with time.
That's fucked up. Decide for the one you like more. Stop playing
I imagine you are doing this because your parents told you to play the field. None the less don't do it. It hurts you and it hurts them.
Depends which guy has the most money? Which guy is better in bed? Which guy has the bigger dick?
they should break up both with you, thats the fair thing to happen to you
Nothing wrong with it. Date all you want. Once you get more serious with one, then you need Ron decide.
How can you have feelings after two dates? I think it's fine for now just don't do it forever.
No cause clearly u dont like either 1 or u wouldn't do that to either of them
You will end up losing both bunny after you chasing 2 at the same time
if it is you on a photo, I wish I were your third date partner...
never date two guys at once.. that makes you a player... noone likes a player