they want you the best.
it's bit harsh to forbid but they just want to save you from heartache or other problems.
if you have a good relationship with your boyfriend then you don't argue a lot.
when you're compatible with someone the relationship is easy, you don't have to put much brain work in it.
you can't really "fix" a relationship. if there's something to be fixed, it won't work out in the long run. or if it does, both people will sacrifice a lot, n regret things in the end
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This is the most interesting experience almost all my friends had gotten but i had not, because I have been living alone since 15, and I was always a rebel even when they didn't like the guy i am dating at the time, i simply continued dating. Plus you're 30-35 (if it's true) like why the heck do you get permission from parents at that age? Be your own person, and live your own life, not someone else's life.
your profile says you are 30-35, why are your parents still able to "forbid" your relationship. You are old enough to decide if a man is treating you properly and with respect. Just make sure you are in a good place and happy then everyone elses opinions don't matter
A little bit to close to home for me lol, i regretted it for years, she was a bright and beautiful girl i wanted to marry one day, her parents didn't like me bc im the son if an Irishman and African-American woman :(
I regretted it and it hurt for a long time so Tell him to keep trying and dont let them get to him, please.
- u
If you are 30-35 years old, as your profile says, why do your parents think they are entitled to forbid you to do something?
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If you're an adult (over 18) they have no say. It's your decision and yours alone. They can't "forbid" you. It's their opinion, that's all. They don't have to agree, like it, or support it, but it's not their choice, it's yours. They have to respect your decision regardless if they want to stay in your life. It's unfortunate that they don't like him, but it's their choice as well. The question is, are they going to let it stand in the way of your relationship with them?
I would laugh at them.
I'm a grown ass woman, if it's a mistake, it's my mistake to make. If my parents specifically said I was forbidden I'd laugh even harder at them. My life is not theirs to control.How can your parents forbid a relationship when you're 30-35?
It looks like your bro and parents don't want to see u hurt and trying to protect you. They didn't get involved till you got them involved through your disagreements with Ur boyfriend. Give it some time and let it cool off a bit.
I think you broke a huge dating rule. Don't talk about your fights to your parents. See a therapist for that stuff, not people close to you who will never likely forget it.
you are 30-35 (as stated by your profile) you should be able to really know whats good for you or not.. and also most of the times you gotta realize that your family wants what's the best for you
The main issue here is that you're already having problems after 2 months. Things should be easy and fun, so I can see why your parents are unhappy.
You're family means we'll. However, you are the one in the relationship and need to decide what to do on your own. If my family would forbid me from seeing someone I would not listen.
When I was dating my first wife, my father-in-law to be said I could not see her any longer. I thought he was saving her for himself. I was right. He was fucking her for the past 6 years and didn't want anyone taking her away from him.
You're 30-35, your parents really can't forbid you to see someone.
My mom doesn’t control my life especially who I date. I am a grown ass women who provides for herself. My mom can give me advice but she no longer has the right to tell me who I can and can’t date.
Why does it matter what your parents say at you age?
Omg just move the f on it's toxic he's immature and boring and ur stupid
Get their heads checked by a doctor coz I don't date guys
Why y'all need your parents permission to date, your thing says you're 30-35
you're in your 30s, grow a spine then start dating
I'd have dated her nevertheless
Parents are lame you do you
go ahead and see them
i would stop seeing him
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