How to tell my boyfriend that I'm saving myself for marriage? (Page 2)

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I am 23 years old, I am a virgin (I have never had any kind of sexual relationship) and I'm saving myself for marriage because I'm a christian. It turns out that I started dating a few weeks ago a guy that I'm pretty sure he's not a virgin anymore... And I'm really liking him! He knows that I am a virgin and he always respected me but he still does not know of my conviction, that I will not have sex with him until we got married. How can I tell this to him? What if he does not accept it? I'm afraid he'll abandon me for that, but at the same time I can not let go of my convictions. What do you guys think?

Anonymous · Answer

If he won't except it he's not the right guy for you

worldscolide · Answer

By being honest. If he doesn't like it, he isn't the one for you.

Plowboy · Answer

He didn't wait for marriage so do not expect him to stay long, he knows how sex feels and honestly he will eventually cheat on you if you get in a relationship with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Just tell him, if he has had sex before then it may be harder to hold out for him, he may not want to get married at all or for years but you’ll need to tell him since most guys won’t wait

AtomicCheesing · Answer

Its a conversation you should have had before dating him

Anonymous · Answer

if you really like him and if he does not ask to have sex, then there is no issue. if he asks you to have sex, then have sex. you both will be able to share a great experience together and further your bond, so why hold out?

cupidkisses · Answer

Tell him directly

Insanyx12 · Answer

Be honest

WiseTurtle · Answer

Just tell him

Anonymous · Answer

You tell him, and hope that he is OK with that

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