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Men will always stare, even if he has the most beautiful woman in the world.
If you own a car you think is awesome, your going to look at an appreciate other cars that look almost as cool, just to reinforce the fact yours is the best.
Same goes for women.
Yes I compared women to a car.
Men do it to reinforce what they have is what they wanted. And constantly do it. Its primal men can't control it.
Probably would be best to ask him to try and be a little more discrete about it. I know for me, if I don't see it then it doesn't bother me so much. I know it happens and I'm not one to ask anyone to change, so its just best if I don't see it. Just tell him how you feel and ask for him to at least try and save it for when your not around. That should work if that is the real problem, but if the problem is trust than that's a whole different thing.
I been married to my husband for almost 20 years, he has become a liar, he is addicted to gambling, porno and drugs, he has become violent and just this past weekend for the first time in 20 years the police came to our house because he started chocking me in front of my daughter and she called the cops, I did no want to press charges but now I regretted, he left the house, took the money that we had in savings for our vacation, almost 2k, hasn’t come back in two days, hasn’t call and he changed his cellphone number. I’m sad but I can’t continue, for the sake of my kids, I have to leave this relationship, my self esteem is on the floor and I feel very helpless until i met this spell cater called Dr Lawrence on Facebook who brought him back contact him on drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail. com for your own help
i don't see the big deal. yeah he enjoys looking at attractive women, he's lying about that to probably shut you up about it and make you feel better. its just sexual though, no emotions at all. he loves you, he respects you, he has warm feelings when he's with you. he doesn't have any of that towards these women. just lust. its different than how a women feels lust I guess. there's really no emotion.
Didnt read most of it just too much. but to answer the main question, guys look at a girl with a nice figure like looking at art or a sports car lets say. Its something that catches the eye we look appreciate it and move on. There is no emotion there for that girl, no wanting to go and cheat on you. Just to look and think "nice".
Usually affairs begin with "a look" where it starts a guy will just be checking out another girl. Then, after awhile, it gets escalated - the guy acts out on his disires. Not all guys who cheat check out other women. But I'm willing to bet that every man who does cheat started out by gawking at other women while in a relationship.
Besides, when you're in a relationship with a woman as pretty as Shaylene, why would you be looking at other women? It simply makes no sense.
"Not all guys who cheat check out other women."
Oops! I meant to say "Not all guys who check out other women cheat."
it's called window shopping. chicks do this too. you can't honestly say you've never stared at different parts of a good looking man before, even if you had a steady, satisfied relationship.
or maybe it's just me? but whatever. point is, I'm not going to go out and cheat on my guy and I'm not going to masturbate to the thought of another guy.
it's just window shopping...lookie but no touch, you know?
Men are physical creatures. apparence is what the notice first. and any attractice women will get looked at. any women with big bouncy boobs will get looked at and chick with a bubble butt and wide hips will get looked at. doesn't means he's gonna leave you and that he doesn't love you any more or that he's not attracted to you cause trust me if he wasn't you whouldnt have the ring on your finger
I think you should be more nervous if he wasn't noticing other women. If it gets to a really bad point, then maybe you have some cause to worry. but right now enjoy the fact that even if he likes to look at other people's breasts, he's chosen yours for a reason-because to him, they're the best.
Sure a guy can 'help it.' Respect for women doesn't come naturally in the modern US, naturally, so you'll have to work with him on this. Maybe a few slaps on the face..!
Your right in th e slaps thingy ;)
That was a joke Mnourii, he was being sarcastic
ROFL
If looks meant everything then Taylor Swift wouldn't keep writing songs about break ups and heart ache and they wouldn't be selling millions of copies.
You can't relate because what you're attracted to might not be the same areas he's attracted to. When you notice a nice smile and a good haircut with really nice shoes walk past you're doing the same exact thing. It's just different between genders.
he is attracted to other women physically for the same reason he is attracted to you.
and what do you mean "not only noticing a woman is attractive, but also noticing her breasts and butt?" that is what makes women sexually attractive to men..
There's a difference between noticing and acting on it though. You seem a bit insecure and could come off as a control freak to him.
men are visual. I wish my wife could understand this. if there is a naked woman we are going to look, good looking woman we are going to look, nice a ss or nice rack we are going to look, too tight jeans so you can see a camel toe we are def going to look.
I could care less if my wife looks at all the guys she wants. Just because we look doesen't mean we want that person and don't want you. as long as there is no touching, looking should be fine.
I'm a girl,and I can't help myself.If something is attractive,I can't help but look at it.
Does it matter if he's fantasizing about her?I sure as hell will fantasize about David Beckham before I fantasize about a random guy in the street
WELL, my man does the same thing, he started checking out women in front of me for the first time ever while I was pregnant. I would bring it up to him and tell him how it makes me feel and he just says, I wasn’t doing anything, I don’t know what your talking about. So the last time I saw him doing it he was staring (for awhile) at the neighbor bending over in tiny shorts with her huge body builder husband next to her, so I yelled, THAT IS ONE NICE ASS YOUR LOOKING AT HONEY! He turned and said what? So I thought I must not have said it loud enough, so I said it again even louder, THAT IS ONE NICE ASS YOUR LOOKING AT! He looked at me and looked at her husband and he looked scared. Never did it again! LOL I am a bitch but that’s what you have to do, or they will walk all over you..
Honestly if you notice a fat person, where do you look? At their feet or at their mahoosive waist line. I'm talking about like really huge. If you notice someone its for their best, or otherwise, assets. Just because he notices other women doesn't mean he doesn't love you all the same. It just means he realise's there's eye candy about.
Men are visual. I think it is okay for my husband to look at other women. I don't mind it. I look at a beautiful attractive women. It is human nature. I would work on being more confident in your own looks. It is human nature for people to be attracted to people. It doesn't mean he is going to cheat on you or love you any different.
"Straight" women would rather look at other men than other women.
Your post was WAY too long and I didn't read anything but the last sentence - you might want to trim it down if you want people to read it.
We will ALWAYS notice other women - especially their ass and t*ts. I have a girlfriend and she's very hot but when I see a skirt I look. When I see cleavage I look.
It's in our nature, get over it.
Men like looking at other women like women enjoy looking at other houses. You might live in a super nice house, but you still like to look--not necessarily because you want to buy another house, but just because you like to look.
But unlike a house, women have feelings. Your guy should man-up a bit and not be so obvious when he's with you. Save the ogling, drooling and other comments for when he's out with his buddies.
Shows women are more attracted to houses and money than they are to men.
hahahah MEN WILL BE MEN
i guess checking out a women is nothing wrong.
i bet you chk out guys too...its NATURAL...don't make a big issue out of it
my boyfriend does the same thing sometimes.
And you're right, I do check out boys too but not when we're together. I think its disrespectful
maybe you should make sure that you are the one who gets all attention from him...n I mean not by whining about the issue.you can create moments when he is just looking at you and can't even think of anyone else.
TRY THIS,next time you see him checking out another girl...KISS him passionately right there!
people are bound to look at anything that stands out, if I come yelling "omg look at that baby with a D1ck on its forehead" you are going to say where where looking around. and this baby isn't even there, so what do you think will happen when an outstandingly attractive woman passes by ?
It's one thing to have your attention drawn for a moment to something that stands out. It's another thing to keep staring when you know you should be looking away.
thats subjective