I hate it because I don’t fit in with girls whatsoever but I’m not transgender. When I try to fit in with them it just makes me so pissed to hear things like how girls shouldn’t shoot guns and archery and the kind of stuff I personally love doing. I like hunting and that’s just what gender roles remind me of is how women used to not be able to vote or hunt and they’d always be at home with like five kids. I personally don’t understand it much more than that standpoint but I still hate it. I’m sorry if I’ve gotten this very confused but as you said I’m 13. And also in the dating world I can already tell that I’m really dominant af 😂 I start fights at school and that’s supposedly “Not how women are supposed to be”
@pupperluvo Just FYI, women did hunt. A long time ago. But that wasn’t discovered until quite recently. Sadly, women have a long way to go despite what people keep saying (that equality has been achieved - it hasn’t).
This is such an interesting question and I'm not gonna lie it really got me thinking. Easier- maybe because everyone would know exactly what's expected of them but it certainly would not be happier. Maybe for some but I'm speaking for the majority.
It would probably be a bit easier for men because women would depend on finding a partner in order to survive since they couldn't make enough money on their own and would have to put way more effort in that.
I think dating is much easier now than when gender roles had bigger influence over people. I couldn't know for sure, since I haven't lived in that time, but I can tell from the stories that I've heard.
Only for those men who want 'control' over the relationship/ dating relationship & those women who want to be a burden on others instead of taking care of themselves, be it financially or socially.
that's mostly not an option anymore, cause most families these days can litterally not survive on a single breadwinner. wage raises have stopped compensating for inflation decades ago.
No, when i look at what my father put my mother through , No i have been married twice each time i married a partner someone to share life together not have some slave at home to do your bidding...
Admitedly when I was a teen , you thought it was great to hold hands kiss , good night. Being brought up in a mining village in Yorkshire , UK the circle of female friends was quite close so your G/Fs usually you got to know from school. But he father usually worked with your father, my father being an overman (glororyfid foreman) knew everyone. So no matter who I got pallie with it always got back to father. So dating had to be totally respectable no hanky panky. Would you want to date under these conditions?
It would definitely kill majourity of the bs that goes on with girls bitching at guys and guys bitching at girls about femininity and masculinity that’s for sure...
Yeah it would be easier for men but not women, men like to be needed but women would always have to wait for a good man to come along and ask her out and may never get asked if she isn’t desirable
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Don’t ever say bring back traditional roles again. God I fucking hate that so much.
You're 13. How would you know anything.
Why? it’s how it should be.
Men and women, though feminist hate it, are different. We have different strengths that complimemt each other. Which leads to "traditional roles"
@daddysir77 No offense, but being different doesn’t make me want to be in the kitchen and on my knees all day cleaning your floors.
@silverqueen lmao got em
I hate it because I don’t fit in with girls whatsoever but I’m not transgender. When I try to fit in with them it just makes me so pissed to hear things like how girls shouldn’t shoot guns and archery and the kind of stuff I personally love doing. I like hunting and that’s just what gender roles remind me of is how women used to not be able to vote or hunt and they’d always be at home with like five kids. I personally don’t understand it much more than that standpoint but I still hate it. I’m sorry if I’ve gotten this very confused but as you said I’m 13. And also in the dating world I can already tell that I’m really dominant af 😂 I start fights at school and that’s supposedly “Not how women are supposed to be”
@pupperluvo Just FYI, women did hunt. A long time ago. But that wasn’t discovered until quite recently. Sadly, women have a long way to go despite what people keep saying (that equality has been achieved - it hasn’t).
This is such an interesting question and I'm not gonna lie it really got me thinking. Easier- maybe because everyone would know exactly what's expected of them but it certainly would not be happier. Maybe for some but I'm speaking for the majority.
It would be easier for the man to cheat and be abusive towards the woman.
It would probably be a bit easier for men because women would depend on finding a partner in order to survive since they couldn't make enough money on their own and would have to put way more effort in that.
I prefer not to look back at the past. I'm not going that direction.
Then why did you respond? Lol
There are good and bad in very thing. I'm simply saying we don't need to repeat the past when the future is still uncertain.
Natural Gender-Roles are alive and well... No Amount of Cultural-Marxism can suppress the Natural-Order.
I think dating is much easier now than when gender roles had bigger influence over people. I couldn't know for sure, since I haven't lived in that time, but I can tell from the stories that I've heard.
Only for those men who want 'control' over the relationship/ dating relationship & those women who want to be a burden on others instead of taking care of themselves, be it financially or socially.
that's mostly not an option anymore, cause most families these days can litterally not survive on a single breadwinner. wage raises have stopped compensating for inflation decades ago.
No, when i look at what my father put my mother through , No i have been married twice each time i married a partner someone to share life together not have some slave at home to do your bidding...
Admitedly when I was a teen , you thought it was great to hold hands kiss , good night.
Being brought up in a mining village in Yorkshire , UK the circle of female friends was quite close so your G/Fs usually you got to know from school. But he father usually worked with your father, my father being an overman (glororyfid foreman) knew everyone. So no matter who I got pallie with it always got back to father. So dating had to be totally respectable no hanky panky. Would you want to date under these conditions?
It would be easier for some. Im sure. But for me it wouldn't be easier
Sometimes you will have to make a decision between what is right and what is easy.
Reversing technological developement would certainly help to improve face to face communication.
It would make marriage easier but dating harder because women would be less available.
No, a lot of people were miserable back then too, they just didn't have the internet to broadcast that fact.
ahh no this worked in the 50s but now to keep a house going strong you need two paychecks and both working on the house
It would definitely kill majourity of the bs that goes on with girls bitching at guys and guys bitching at girls about femininity and masculinity that’s for sure...
Yeah it would be easier for men but not women, men like to be needed but women would always have to wait for a good man to come along and ask her out and may never get asked if she isn’t desirable
That would be awful for me I'd rather stay single than be a housewife
It's not realistic or something I'd necessarily want, but 100% agree it would make things easier for everyone.
I think relationships would be but dating is ruined by the internet not by roles.