Is 4 months too soon to tell someone you love them? (Page 2)

[PinkMichae]

There's no time limit however it's important to be together long enough to really know if you can love everything about each other. Falling in love is the easy part. However, You can love a person and still not be compatible.

[AlbertsPrince]

Tell them when you believe it to be true. Hard to get right, but when you do - wow, it's powerful. :)

[Cammy137]

My girlfriend and I said it pretty quickly and nothing bad as happened as a consequence

[angelin]

It’s ok. You can have the feeling of living someone in a short time.

[jake1230]

If you feel that way tell him. You never know how he feels. He could be too afraid to say it for the same reason.

[Asker]

I actually do feel there is a good chance he loves me too. He stares deeply into my eyes all the time and then will ask me what am I thinking. And in those moments, I am thinking about how much I love him. And I think he knows that.

[ajoymandi]

Hey don't worry.. nothing will happen.. he won't freakout.. everything will be fine.. even the same thing happened to me... We were close friends for 2years but we used to be like couples.. and suddenly one day she kissed and proposed me.. I was shocked but at the same time I was happy that she understood my feelings for her.. now we are together and 9 months of our relationship has passed.. so don't worry he won't freakout..

[Jgel1992]

Well if that is what you feel who cares what anyone thinks? Some people love faster tan others... just do what you feel is right, if the person is for you. he/she won't mind...

[redpanda_]

If you love someone, tell them and never stop telling them.

[AlienChickk]

Honestly I think it depends from person to person. If that is how you feel, then let him know.

[Krazzymike321]

It's probably freaking him out that you have yet to tell him... I have no dating experience but I'd feel like I was doing something wrong if I wasn't told that I was loved after 4 months...

[bennybomb111]

Not at all too soon. If he loves you too it won't freak him out.

[Asker]

I think there is a chance that he does too. He stares deeply into my eyes all the time and then will ask me what am I thinking. And in those moments, I am thinking about how much I love him. And I think he knows that.

[shades777]

The timing depends entirely on the people involved and the desired result.
Society's norms makes it seem like saying i love you too early make you out to be a weirdo.

If you truly love someone who cares what others think.

[Malita55]

Lol no. I told my current boyfriend i loved him after 2 weeks 😂

[aaronbw]

I'd say it's not too soon. Just be careful you dont confuse love with lust and Infatuation. Many easily confuse these two.

[narutoxxx]

Agree

[Anonymous]

Nope. We were together for 3 months when we said it now 7 years later we are married with a 6 year old child

[Myk13]

If you feel it. Say it. Without risk, there is no reward.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I said it two weeks after we met.

Three months have gone by and I told her I wanted to marry her one day.

We've been together for six months now.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nope, that’s the right time.

I would say it right as the feeling in my heart. I’d make sure I mean it though

[LanayLuckie]

It's not too soon. Some people fall in love with someone just from text, or spending one day with them.

[lovelygirl1234]

I don't know some people fall in love faster than others nothing wrong with that but dont you think that might scare him off?