A human design view... our sub conscious emotions, in effect, our childhood wounds and thousands of years of programming are calling the shots. What is familiar is attractive. Your sub conscious doesn't need to have more than 2 sec to identify what is familiar. Maybe you didn't "know", but your heart knew instantly and either felt butterflies or comfort. That was the comfort of familiar! If daddy was a tormented ass kicker who beat the crap out of mom and scared the hell out of the kids... that is what you are gonna be drawn to, someone like dad, or the terror mom felt! Or maybe the polar opposite, but that wound is heavily controlling! The mapping is made deep within you and sees right through her makeup and reads her energy, which is her emotion! The broken record is repeated until it is resolved... with tears, and all sorts of pain and destruction. Look at your relationships deeper to see if you can identify patterns that map back to childhood. Do post mortems with the girls, you'll see some amazing stuff with that insight!
God=love is a purifier. I take the Bible, Christian view which I find makes total sense. He won't let you go through life in an emotionally distance state... he will allow suffering to purify you and for you to contribute to others healing with your gifts. You and her are the prize. Relationships are the best way to expose these deep inner flaws that limit us and prevent us from connecting to God. Thus, The design of attraction aggravates those wounds so that they are exposed and can be cleansed.
I haven’t seen anyone bring it up, some men and women are attracted to damaged people because they are “mommy/daddy types.” Damaged people often fall into the “boy/girl” category meaning you could subconsciously be attracted to them.
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Cause you feel more connected in a sense to these type of girls. You share similar backgrounds.
Since most people have some damage or baggage, which they share once they're comfortable enough with you.
I wouldn't say so much damaged more dented. You just connect with them better than most guys would
Well maybe it's because unknowingly u wanna help these people or maybe because u can relate those people that u are attracted to them
@lightbulb27 should be able to explain this whole attraction thing
TY Shimmeryns!
A human design view... our sub conscious emotions, in effect, our childhood wounds and thousands of years of programming are calling the shots. What is familiar is attractive. Your sub conscious doesn't need to have more than 2 sec to identify what is familiar. Maybe you didn't "know", but your heart knew instantly and either felt butterflies or comfort. That was the comfort of familiar! If daddy was a tormented ass kicker who beat the crap out of mom and scared the hell out of the kids... that is what you are gonna be drawn to, someone like dad, or the terror mom felt! Or maybe the polar opposite, but that wound is heavily controlling! The mapping is made deep within you and sees right through her makeup and reads her energy, which is her emotion! The broken record is repeated until it is resolved... with tears, and all sorts of pain and destruction. Look at your relationships deeper to see if you can identify patterns that map back to childhood. Do post mortems with the girls, you'll see some amazing stuff with that insight!
God=love is a purifier. I take the Bible, Christian view which I find makes total sense. He won't let you go through life in an emotionally distance state... he will allow suffering to purify you and for you to contribute to others healing with your gifts. You and her are the prize. Relationships are the best way to expose these deep inner flaws that limit us and prevent us from connecting to God. Thus, The design of attraction aggravates those wounds so that they are exposed and can be cleansed.
There's nothing wrong with that this world could use more people like you
Perhaps you are damaged in similar way too so you get it, can connect with them and relate.
You want to feel needed,
I'm the same way.
It actually turns me on to comfort women.
Do you expect them to be weaker?
I'm more attracted to girls who are solid in life and self respect.
because you have issues that need fixing. i don't mean that in a mean condescending way. consider seeing a therapist.
Either think nothing of it or learn some CBT techniques.
I haven’t seen anyone bring it up, some men and women are attracted to damaged people because they are “mommy/daddy types.” Damaged people often fall into the “boy/girl” category meaning you could subconsciously be attracted to them.
I have a similar thing but with guys, I don’t see it at first but it becomes apparent later on.
Damage means they are likely mentally/emotionally strong
Any women who claims she has anxiety is weak minded in my book
Probabably cause you're damaged too. They say opposites attract. I actually think like sees like
Same reason I wanna know why I attract hoes..
Biologically men feel an urge to protect and lead.
Because no one is perfect and everyone has issues.
Everyone is damaged.
Yes YOU. are virgin
@Fuentes yes, married but still somehow a virgin. Makes a lot of sense. /S