Have you ever been initially not attracted but it developed after you got more familiar with your partner? (Page 3)

OlderAndWiser · 2020-08-30T20:20:43Z

When I was a younger man, I frequently said that if I was not initially attracted to a woman, it would probably never happen and there was no sense in wasting time pursuing her as a romantic partner. That statement was true. It never did happen - not when I was younger - perhaps because I never gave an "unattractive" (unattractive to me) woman a chance. In 2015, I started dating a woman who was a good match for me in many ways. She was a retired judge, obviously bright and articulate, and we had many other common interests. She also fit the "type" of woman who I usually pursue. She is petite, has dainty features, and she enjoys physical affection. I was very quickly attracted to her. We eventually had a sexual relationship that was very satisfying for both of us, but I broke up with her because she never fell in love with me as I fell for her. Looking back on that relationship, I don't know why I was physically attracted to her. Most guys who met her would probably rate her as a 3/10, and so would I, but when I was dating her, I thought she was a 7/10 or 8/10. Maybe the years and experiences have changed me, or maybe I just developed the attraction because I gave her a chance. Have you ever had that experience?

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Yep. Didn’t date him (thankfully) but it’s like what was I thinking 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

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I’ve never went after someone I wasn’t already attracted to. It feels shady

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Gwyneth Paltro is one of my favourite and most beautiful actresses

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I've always been attracted to my partner in some way but there are girls I've never dated who weren't attractive to me at first then later became attractive to me

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Not any more stick to your guns, if you don't feel it to begin with, don't go there.

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Yes. A persons personality can grow on you and change your view of them.

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I'm talking to a tranny rn, not super attracted to her but she is pretty awesome, I can say any issue I have and she dont care. The open communication is pretty attractive to me.

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My love life is none of your damn business

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  Okay. Doesn't matter to me, but. . . why bother to respond at all?
  
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honestly, i sometimes get more attracted than initially, after just having seen them naked xD

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It never really went in that direction for me.

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No, only the other way around.

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I've never been attracted to someone

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Option C for me.

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Yip yip

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Yeah my ex

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Yeap

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No I never have

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