Why do men just want sex from me and nothing else? (Page 2)

Question

Hi, I'm 30, and I have been single most of my life. I have been on a lot of Tinder dates, but they all follow the same scenario: we text for 2 weeks, go out for dinner, then during the first 5 minutes of dinner he asks whether we're having sex that night, I politely reject his offer, and then he gets mad and starts shouting at me and calling me names and tries to rape me. I dress very modestly - high necklines, long sleeves, long dresses etc. There is also another common scenario - I would be seeing my Tinder guy for 12 to 18 months, I would have met his whole family, he would tell me he loves me, but then when we finally sleep together (12 to 18 months later), he ghosts or blocks my number. So that's basically the story of how I have ended up single at 30.  I get asked out by men every single day because they tell me I'm very attractive and sexy, but 100% of those men who ask me out are married or in long term relationships. Single men want nothing to do with me if I don't drop my panties the moment I see them.  Is there anything I can do to make myself a girlfriend material not a hookup material? Or is it too late at 30? If it is too late, how can I accept the fact that I'm never going to be loved by anyone?

shanshu · Answer

Tinder is mainly for hooking up

Why do men just want sex from me and nothing else? (Page 2)

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