Guys, dependent or independent women? (Page 2)

[RingOfFire]

I voted dependent because independent is too closely defined as feminist these days.

I agree with some of the other comments. I don't want either extreme. Independent is good to a point. But I like when she can be vulnerable too because it shows she trusts me.

Thumbs up for a good question. 👍🏽

[worldscolide]

I want a truly independent woman.. As in the woman that does not need to advertise she's independent, those kind are just insufferable idiots. My wife is the truly independent type.. She stands on her own when needed, uses me for support when needed, and supports me when needed... best of all she is not an idiot feminist.

[Massageman]

An independent woman would be smart enough NOT to be a frantic feminist. And the Bible explains the virtuous wife as strong, intelligent, able to seek out the best deals, and to handle those that seek to harm her family. While she submits to her husband as her husband submits to God, she sounds very independent!
Prov 31: 10-31

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol that's not the right representation of dependent people.

Dependent people are like I want this and that they demand not beg and they do work in different ways people are dependent on them as well.

I would choose based on the financial status that what they want and should work if required and by choice.

And the person should be able to listen and coordinate as well

[TheBigGuy9]

I’m surprised at the results. I chose independent. You better one another. Both positive. Challenge each other. Most independent women I’ve dated workout. Sex is much better. It’s athletic. I feel I can get more genuine feelings from a woman that’s independent. Someone that will tell me the truth, not just what I want to hear.

[TheAfrikan]

An independent woman is always strong and knows what she wants in a guy.
So it saves us guys, from spoiling our Time around a wrong woman who is only after money n her other own needs.
If she works and I work we both have our own hustles then I guess that relationship will be be built strong by the two parties.

[arlesche]

In my current financial position, I'm unable to financially support two people, so *IF* I'm going to date someone, they would need to be independent. However when I'm financially stable again, I have no problem with someone depending on me. But I selected "Independent" because that's the only thing I can afford currently.

[SirJohn42]

Depends on the situation.
I love dependent women. I like how they depend on me just as long as she can make adult decisions. Can at least work on things.
Dont wabt a woman so independent that she won't take advice. won't ask for help when she needs it. Or keeps quiet to where there is no communication.

[Anonymous]

Depends in what way. A woman that is financially independent and can take care of herself that way is very attractive (ie not looking for a man to take care of her). But if we're talking about emotional dependency, you don't want it to the extreme in either direction.

[Unbeatable]

Honestly this is a trick question for me.
A woman i like is smart and forward thinking, meaning that in todays world she is gonna be "independent".
At the same time, i dont like independence because it makes me almost outdated and way too disposable for my liking