No. People want what they want. As long as they aren’t imposing on others I don’t give a damn. If a 100yo woman wants to date a 20 year old man and he reciprocates what business is it of mine?
It is as such only for you women. Plenty of material for us men. Best of luck for your eventual "dating revolution" even if I don't see it going very far.
younger women prefer young men in their prime too. A 40 yr old man would never be more attractive than a 30 yr old man. Its about time men accepted that they hit the wall too.
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them. In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men. Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
I'm 27. Lol... clearly not a 40 year old man. I'm saying that there are many relationships with 40 year olds dating 20 year olds. I've seen many of them. You're not hurting me at all lmao. You're just a delusional kid.
I have never ever really seen many 40 yr olds dating 20 yr olds. I only have seen it twice in my life. Its not uncommon for old men to think they can get young girls. Just the same way old women still think they are still hot to young guys.
@nelly83 "But, but I read a couple of articles in silly magazines that say I am right!" lol... You can be as delusional as you want to be now. 10 years from now, when nobody wants to deal with you anymore, at least you can relax and know you were so right, but it just magically didn't work out for you. If it working out so well, why are you arguing about it instead of living it. None of us 40 somethings are interested in you here. So don't worry, we don't want you.
@Floppy2112 I don’t think I’m worried about anything here. By the time I am 35, I can have kids all by myself. On the other hand , you can’t have kids without a woman.
Right now you’re 27 , you have all your options. Just wait until you’re 40 , old aging, losing your looks. You will find that no woman in her 20s would want you
If you don’t find white hair and wrinkles to be attractive on women, what makes you think women find white hair and wrinkles attractive on men?
You know young women aren’t attracted to old men, you are just too afraid to admit it
@nelly83 Oh, I don't claim they are attracted to the men, they are attracted to the men's money. That's all it's ever about. I bet a million bucks a 40 yr old millionaire wants to take you shopping and pamper you, you'll drop your panties in half a second.
@Floppy2112 most women don’t marry for money. Most humans need physical attraction for the mating process to work. A marriage where a woman marries foe money and the man marries for sex, is a very unfulfilling marriage where both partners usually end up cheating on each other
A long lasting happy marriage is where a man and woman marry each other because they love each other.
No guy wants to be with a girl that is with him just for his money. That's literally why the term gold digger was made. And yet, take a man's wealth away and his girl will most likely leave him. There's none of that "through thick and thin" stuff nowadays. Many/most girls have zero principles and will go for a guy that gives them a better standard of life... not have a great personality.
@HawkPerception. It’s quite laughable how you don’t like it when girls only date rich guys. But you clearly have no problem with men who only date women under 30.
What's laughable is your comprehension ability and logic. If you think men having our biological desire to mate with women that have "submissive" traits (smaller, shorter, weaker, younger, etc.) because we are dominant by nature, can at all be compared to material possession like how much money one has, it's pathetic.
You did not even stick with your own argument that women don't want to be with men just for their money. You go on and make this comment: "It's quite laughable how you don't like it when girls date only rich guys... you're equally as shallow."
If you're going to make an argument at least stick to what you say or no one can take you seriously.
And for the record, you're saying I'm shallow, but I have no problem dating older by up to 10 years and younger up to 20 years old. All I care about is that I'm physically attracted to the girl and we have chemistry.
@HawkPerception. You don’t know how to argue back anymore right?
Women are biologically designed to like men who are young, strong , fit and can provide for them. Does that mean it’s ok for all women to be gold diggers? NO
men are designed to be attracted to younger women. But does that justify only dating women under 30? NO.
There’s no excuse to justify indecent behavior
Sex diggers or gold diggers are not society’s morally decent / upright individuals
@Arabella_Rose First off, I wasn't arguing with you. Who tf are you? And you say I don't know how to argue back? No. I just don't want to waste my time on people who clearly can't read for their life.
"Men are designed to be attracted to younger women. But does that justify them only dating women under 30? NO."
It actually shows your IQ when you say that after I specifically said I'm 27 and I would date a woman 10 years older than me or as young as a 20 year old. Men don't JUST date women under 30. If that were true every single lady 30 or older would never get into a relationship again so where tf is your logic?
I said men are biologically attracted to women with submissive traits. It's the same with women. Most women prefer older men. Not young men like you say. There are few women willing to date younger than themselves and if they do it's only by a few years at most usually. Now how does biological attraction compare to attraction based on material possession? It doesn't.
@HawkPerception. If you were so legit, then why would you keep blocking me? Are you afraid discussing this with me?
Submissiveness or dominance has nothing to do with this topic.
All I’m saying is, there is no excuse to be shallow.
Young Women prefer older men but not old men. so you can stop repeating to yourself that women are more to 40 yr old man over a 30 yr old man. Men have a prime too. Just like women have a prime. Men age just like women do. You don’t stay hot forever
@nelly83 You can believe whatever you want. But if your this combative at 21, you're going to be alone at 41. Good luck with that. It's not my problem.
it all depends how they feel about each other im being straight up im 44 i want a won in her late 20's till early 30's cause i want to settle down with that special woman have kids and enjoy my family
The problems are the real problems in dating and it doesn't only happen to relationships with big age gaps. So how about if you just say no if you're not interested in dating older men and speak for yourself?
Really? What age is this wall at? Because as far as I have seen , and from taking human physiology and biology that theory isn't supported. Women are the ones who don't perform well after around 40, and there's a specific event, "menopause" where they stop being able to have kids altogether. Men are not like that and you've got 80 years old or even older still making sperm.
I think most men can "perform well" at least 20 years past an average woman who is the same age as them. And if you're talking about the ability to have children, then extend that to 40 years or more.
I mean, I know some dudes get erectile dysfunction, and some have that issue or on the other end premature ejaculation or they don't last over 10 minutes in the sack. But that's young dudes as well, so it's more of an individual thing.
If you don't know by now its just normal for older men to like younger women. Its really an unspoken thing that people just know. Can't do anything about it because thats how men are wired. Accept reality but you don't have to date one!
Not a problem. A dude who gets shot down 100 times but succeeds on the 101st attempt still gets the girl. He may as well go for what he's interested in and just crank up the number of approaches. It's a strategy that works--that's why it's practiced.
I’m not a one age fits guy. Love and attraction can come at any time. Of course I don’t intentionally look to date only younger women but I wouldn’t rule it out unless they are of course under the legal age. I’m not that guy.
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No. People want what they want. As long as they aren’t imposing on others I don’t give a damn. If a 100yo woman wants to date a 20 year old man and he reciprocates what business is it of mine?
It is as such only for you women. Plenty of material for us men.
Best of luck for your eventual "dating revolution" even if I don't see it going very far.
Live and let live and just politely decline if its not your cup of tea! 😊
Why does it matter to you what other people do with their lives just say no thank you and live your life god some people 🙄
Lol most young girls always have sex with much older men.
I’ve got more chance of pulling an 18 year old now then I did at 18-21. Women love certain things younger guys don’t have
It's biological. The sooner society accepts that and stops condemning men for liking younger, the better.
younger women prefer young men in their prime too. A 40 yr old man would never be more attractive than a 30 yr old man. Its about time men accepted that they hit the wall too.
Yeah? Tell that to all the 40 year olds dating girls in their 20s lmao.
If we 20 yr old girls don't find you attractive, you can't date us anyways.
There aren't many 40 yr old men dating girls in their 20s. Continue dreaming, old man
here's the evidence:
en.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
I'm 27. Lol... clearly not a 40 year old man. I'm saying that there are many relationships with 40 year olds dating 20 year olds. I've seen many of them. You're not hurting me at all lmao. You're just a delusional kid.
I have never ever really seen many 40 yr olds dating 20 yr olds. I only have seen it twice in my life. Its not uncommon for old men to think they can get young girls. Just the same way old women still think they are still hot to young guys.
I have evidence throughout statistics and research too. You do not have anything.
@nelly83 "But, but I read a couple of articles in silly magazines that say I am right!" lol... You can be as delusional as you want to be now. 10 years from now, when nobody wants to deal with you anymore, at least you can relax and know you were so right, but it just magically didn't work out for you.
If it working out so well, why are you arguing about it instead of living it. None of us 40 somethings are interested in you here. So don't worry, we don't want you.
@Floppy2112 I don’t think I’m worried about anything here. By the time I am 35, I can have kids all by myself. On the other hand , you can’t have kids without a woman.
Right now you’re 27 , you have all your options. Just wait until you’re 40 , old aging, losing your looks. You will find that no woman in her 20s would want you
If you don’t find white hair and wrinkles to be attractive on women, what makes you think women find white hair and wrinkles attractive on men?
You know young women aren’t attracted to old men, you are just too afraid to admit it
@nelly83 Oh, I don't claim they are attracted to the men, they are attracted to the men's money. That's all it's ever about. I bet a million bucks a 40 yr old millionaire wants to take you shopping and pamper you, you'll drop your panties in half a second.
@Floppy2112 most women don’t marry for money. Most humans need physical attraction for the mating process to work. A marriage where a woman marries foe money and the man marries for sex, is a very unfulfilling marriage where both partners usually end up cheating on each other
A long lasting happy marriage is where a man and woman marry each other because they love each other.
@Floppy2112 and do you really want to marry a woman who just want to be with you because of your money? That’s just prostitution
No guy wants to be with a girl that is with him just for his money. That's literally why the term gold digger was made. And yet, take a man's wealth away and his girl will most likely leave him. There's none of that "through thick and thin" stuff nowadays. Many/most girls have zero principles and will go for a guy that gives them a better standard of life... not have a great personality.
@HawkPerception. It’s quite laughable how you don’t like it when girls only date rich guys. But you clearly have no problem with men who only date women under 30.
You’re just equally as shallow.
What's laughable is your comprehension ability and logic. If you think men having our biological desire to mate with women that have "submissive" traits (smaller, shorter, weaker, younger, etc.) because we are dominant by nature, can at all be compared to material possession like how much money one has, it's pathetic.
You did not even stick with your own argument that women don't want to be with men just for their money. You go on and make this comment: "It's quite laughable how you don't like it when girls date only rich guys... you're equally as shallow."
If you're going to make an argument at least stick to what you say or no one can take you seriously.
And for the record, you're saying I'm shallow, but I have no problem dating older by up to 10 years and younger up to 20 years old. All I care about is that I'm physically attracted to the girl and we have chemistry.
I'm done responding here.
@HawkPerception. You don’t know how to argue back anymore right?
Women are biologically designed to like men who are young, strong , fit and can provide for them. Does that mean it’s ok for all women to be gold diggers? NO
men are designed to be attracted to younger women. But does that justify only dating women under 30? NO.
There’s no excuse to justify indecent behavior
Sex diggers or gold diggers are not society’s morally decent / upright individuals
@Arabella_Rose First off, I wasn't arguing with you. Who tf are you? And you say I don't know how to argue back? No. I just don't want to waste my time on people who clearly can't read for their life.
"Men are designed to be attracted to younger women. But does that justify them only dating women under 30? NO."
It actually shows your IQ when you say that after I specifically said I'm 27 and I would date a woman 10 years older than me or as young as a 20 year old. Men don't JUST date women under 30. If that were true every single lady 30 or older would never get into a relationship again so where tf is your logic?
I said men are biologically attracted to women with submissive traits. It's the same with women. Most women prefer older men. Not young men like you say. There are few women willing to date younger than themselves and if they do it's only by a few years at most usually. Now how does biological attraction compare to attraction based on material possession? It doesn't.
And now... I'm done talking with you too.
@HawkPerception. If you were so legit, then why would you keep blocking me? Are you afraid discussing this with me?
Submissiveness or dominance has nothing to do with this topic.
All I’m saying is, there is no excuse to be shallow.
Young Women prefer older men but not old men. so you can stop repeating to yourself that women are more to 40 yr old man over a 30 yr old man. Men have a prime too. Just like women have a prime.
Men age just like women do. You don’t stay hot forever
@nelly83 You can believe whatever you want. But if your this combative at 21, you're going to be alone at 41. Good luck with that. It's not my problem.
it all depends how they feel about each other im being straight up im 44 i want a won in her late 20's till early 30's cause i want to settle down with that special woman have kids and enjoy my family
The problems are the real problems in dating and it doesn't only happen to relationships with big age gaps. So how about if you just say no if you're not interested in dating older men and speak for yourself?
It can be if they're looking for long term relationship. . .
You know, after a certain age every guy hits the wall, can't perform well, is no longer "Richard Burke".
And all women want kids and stuff. Adventure and wealth is just not enough.
Really? What age is this wall at? Because as far as I have seen , and from taking human physiology and biology that theory isn't supported. Women are the ones who don't perform well after around 40, and there's a specific event, "menopause" where they stop being able to have kids altogether. Men are not like that and you've got 80 years old or even older still making sperm.
I think most men can "perform well" at least 20 years past an average woman who is the same age as them. And if you're talking about the ability to have children, then extend that to 40 years or more.
I mean, I know some dudes get erectile dysfunction, and some have that issue or on the other end premature ejaculation or they don't last over 10 minutes in the sack. But that's young dudes as well, so it's more of an individual thing.
Yeah okay
no, cause everyone is free to choose their mate and who violates the rules of free choice that are in place is legaly punished.
More crying wolf please you guys want the extra dick that is experienced.
I don't see a problem and I love age gaps, both younger and older.
Nope. If the men ask and the women say yes, then what's the problem? Two consenting adults.
If you don't know by now its just normal for older men to like younger women. Its really an unspoken thing that people just know. Can't do anything about it because thats how men are wired. Accept reality but you don't have to date one!
No. The pandemic has shown that a lot of people were just being stupid in their "preferences"
I don't think it is a problem but sometimes I wonder why they wouldn't want to date some one around their own age.
We do, actually. If I found a woman with everything I was looking for, who was my same age, I would be thrilled! I would be ecstatic.
Not a problem. A dude who gets shot down 100 times but succeeds on the 101st attempt still gets the girl. He may as well go for what he's interested in and just crank up the number of approaches. It's a strategy that works--that's why it's practiced.
If they’re happy then they’re happy. I don’t think it’s much of an issue.
I’m not a one age fits guy. Love and attraction can come at any time. Of course I don’t intentionally look to date only younger women but I wouldn’t rule it out unless they are of course under the legal age. I’m not that guy.
I don't see a 'problem'
It is very easy to just say: 'Thanks, but I'm not interested'