Irrelevant, I left home at 18, whilst I love my parents I've earnt the right to think for myself/make my own decisions the minute I was the only person supporting myself.
It's not that my parents would not care, it's that I could care less what they have to say.. I never met my dad, and I have not spoken to my mother since I was 16..
Why embarass the other person like that… just dont even waste their time if you know you're going to do as your parents please… i never understood people who get a kick out of purposely making their parents angry when they dont even truly want the thing their doing
I did end up marrying the same race as me but I did ask their opinions about if I had dated someone of a different race and they didn’t care what race she was.
I do know a couple of interracial couples who dealt with people objecting to them being together solely based on their races and it is not only closed minded but also somewhat creepy.
My parents would have been very disappointed. They believed you should only date your own race. They had a problem with my brothers and sisters kids dating outside their race.
I don't know if they would have. They died before they had great grandkids. I have a feeling my dad wouldn't love them like their white grandkids. I could be wrong but I'll never know
Parents must raise their kids, help them and teach them and guid them for what’s best for them in their lives, but they are not the ones to make decisions of who you should date or love or even marry. That’s a big no as it’s not their life to control and you have your rights to do what makes you happy.
I'm gonna date whoever I want, whether or not my family "approves" of them. I'm not gonna let someone else's shitty opinion affect my chances for happiness
No my parents are very supportive and as long as I’m happy and as long as they aren’t no women beaters or something horrible drug addictor some thing they’re OK
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My parents would’ve both disowned me if I dated a black guy. My mom wouldn’t have cared if I dated a Far East Asian guy, but my dad would’ve been very disappointed. Other than that they don’t care if I date the other races.
In Turkey it is so less. Some people dating in touristic cities. My family is modern so they let me do it but they find very strange this. Also my conservative relatives can shock if they hear this.
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I've had an Italian girlfriend, an Indian one and a Mexican one. My parents have always just supported me with whoever I'm with.
Thats good
Irrelevant, I left home at 18, whilst I love my parents I've earnt the right to think for myself/make my own decisions the minute I was the only person supporting myself.
Totally understandable
It's not that my parents would not care, it's that I could care less what they have to say.. I never met my dad, and I have not spoken to my mother since I was 16..
If you were closer to them, would their opinion affect you
Not in the slightest.
My parents would disown me If I brought any other girl of my wish they get a heartayyack if I brought someone from different race 🤣.
May I should do a prank
Why embarass the other person like that… just dont even waste their time if you know you're going to do as your parents please… i never understood people who get a kick out of purposely making their parents angry when they dont even truly want the thing their doing
I'm convinced A. You'd be very welcome Desi haha 👍😄
Haha :)
My parents wouldn't care. Some of my extended family members would, to an extent.
Theyre extended for a reason lol. Keep then at a distance
My parents didn't care then and they don't care now.
Thats good
My mother wouldn't care but my father wouldn't like it.
Would you do what you want or would you respect his wishes
I would do what I want.
I don’t think they’d be too bothered as long as he’s a good guy. But I’m personally into Arab guys.
Yea mine wouldn't care but im mainly into my own ethnicity as well
No they would not have been concerned, me happy is what they would have wanted.
Thats good
No, they might be awkward, but they wouldn't mad or anything.
Awkward for how long though
Probably once they got to know her better they'd stop being weird about it.
I did end up marrying the same race as me but I did ask their opinions about if I had dated someone of a different race and they didn’t care what race she was.
Well glad to know they dont care :)
I do know a couple of interracial couples who dealt with people objecting to them being together solely based on their races and it is not only closed minded but also somewhat creepy.
My parents would have been very disappointed. They believed you should only date your own race. They had a problem with my brothers and sisters kids dating outside their race.
But would they still love their mixed grandkid
I don't know if they would have. They died before they had great grandkids. I have a feeling my dad wouldn't love them like their white grandkids. I could be wrong but I'll never know
I've seen many change once the grankid came about.
My dad was a strict military Sargent. I don't know if he would have changed.
Who cares as long as you are happy and not harming anyone?
Peoples parents care which is what im asking. But it would be good if people didn't care what their parent cared
Parents must raise their kids, help them and teach them and guid them for what’s best for them in their lives, but they are not the ones to make decisions of who you should date or love or even marry. That’s a big no as it’s not their life to control and you have your rights to do what makes you happy.
Dunno, don’t care.
My parents didn’t raise me. They can shove it.
Thats understandable
My dad wouldn't care. My mom, however, probably would
Would you respect her wishes or go your own way?
I'm gonna date whoever I want, whether or not my family "approves" of them. I'm not gonna let someone else's shitty opinion affect my chances for happiness
Right on
No my parents are very supportive and as long as I’m happy and as long as they aren’t no women beaters or something horrible drug addictor some thing they’re OK
My parents would’ve both disowned me if I dated a black guy. My mom wouldn’t have cared if I dated a Far East Asian guy, but my dad would’ve been very disappointed. Other than that they don’t care if I date the other races.
Its crazy that they care about some but not others
Unlikely, they'll just be glad I'm happy. They will probably be surprised as it is rather monochromatic around here.
Would you discuss it with them before blindsiding them
Nope, I'd want to see their reaction :)
In Turkey it is so less. Some people dating in touristic cities. My family is modern so they let me do it but they find very strange this. Also my conservative relatives can shock if they hear this.
Ohh i see