Is this guy considering me for a date? details below?

[jennifer_bloom]

I messaged the guy I like on three different LinkedIn accounts and every time I message him, LinkedIn will tell me within hours or days or months that somebody has viewed my LinkedIn account and at least 4 times, it was his name listed. I’m thinking he might be trying to decide whether or not to date me based on my professional credentials. Even though I work at my career, I’m not sure I want a guy who is only interested in me because of my job. One of my accounts is outdated by over two years since it does not have my most recent job listed where I met him. Another is clearly lies, using even a fake name. A third account does not have a job listed because it was created before LinkedIn forced you to declare a place of employment to qualify for membership.

[Synikal]

He's obviously interested in you but the way he is going about it is weird though instead of being direct. Is he shy or what?

[jennifer_bloom]

He might be shy, but I think he may not know whether he wants to date me yet.

[Synikal]

Actions clearly show interest. The way he is going about it is just off though. Is he direct with his conversations with you? Of not you may need to ask him direct questions if he isn't stepping up in doing so.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think he has little experience with girls cause he is very conservative and insecure

[Synikal]

Doesn't look worth it if it isn't something you want. Given you are asking about him does it mean you are interested in him?

[jennifer_bloom]

I might be but I don’t want a guy who will only like me if I’m rich and educated

[Synikal]

What indicates that is what he is interested in either of those options?

[jennifer_bloom]

The fact he keeps looking at my resume instead of messaging me with his phone number, it’s like he isn’t sure.

[Synikal]

Then you should ask him directly.

[jimmy2]

Well go slow at least

[coachTanthony]

If he is interested you will know. Most men don't play games with people they really like and if they do they really don't like you.

Many women will say, maybe he is shy? Okay do you want a shy guy in your life down the road where you have to lead the relationship? Shy behavior is still behavior most women wouldn't want in a Man.

So if you want to know you are going to have to ask him unfortunately.

[Nikola321]

As a shy guy, I must confirm xD
Women usually want a man to be direct and lead the relationship and all that.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Iunno hun, I think you might be reading into this a little bit too much. It does sound like you might be interested in him though so why not just ask him on a date and see what he says? Why sit in worry and deprive yourself of the answer and potential happiness just waiting on him to make the first move?

[ZackBan]

I absolutely don't recommend using linkedin for flirting.
The app is very well known for high level of professionalism so most of the time when someone gets a message it's a work related thing.

My advice is if you know him in real life try aproaching him and getting his numebr or Facebook or Instagram something more social and casual so that your messages will be perceived better

[Quaintrelle]

If you really want to know if he is still interested in you then just be upfront and ask him that instead of messaging him from different accounts.

If his job is his priority due to any reason and if meeting you will put his career in danger then respect his decision and move on.

No one likes being messaged from multiple IDs and someone who is not upfront on what they want and someone who keeps on chasing.

[Jamie05rhs]

I hate to break it to you, Jen, but he's probably weirded out that you messaged him from three different accounts. I'm not the most socially astute individual, but even I know that that's not something you do.

[jennifer_bloom]

I have a justifiable reason for that - he was not allowed to date me at work so I had to use a fake identity to contact him without making him afraid he would lose his job.

[Jamie05rhs]

But it's still weird. I'm sorry. Just being honest.

[lolman95]

I back it up. Also I hate any Facebook apps or sites because they don't give a shit about your privacy. I highly doubt he's interested

[REALSTEEL]

Oh I didn't know you were single maybe we can get to know each other more you want a man that's interested in you all of you not just 1 tiny thing you got a ton of great qualities

[In_Trance]

The fact that you have 3 accounts is a red flag. How many times have you talked to him? What has transpired so far?

[jennifer_bloom]

We used to talk every time we had a mutual shift at work and had free time on our hands. I thought he liked me cause he once stayed at work at least an hour after his shift ended to talk to me but I have not had a conversation with him since leaving my job.

[In_Trance]

That level of correspondence is all you need to know.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Your god not saying anything about this to u?

[red324]

He's Probably rubbing one off instead.

[red324]

Who really cares what a girlndoes for a living. Does it matter?

[OddBeMe]

You have three different Ln accounts?

[xiPLEADthe5th]

He’s probably confused

[jenoftheeast]

Confused

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

no, he's not