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A LDR is difficult when both parties are motivated and impossible when only one person is truly interested. If he isn't motivated now, you need to know so that you can start looking elsewhere.
Why are you pursuing LDR when there are guys close to you who you could be seeing now?
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I know what you mean and I was also the one who initiated the conversations. I stopped messaging him and he got the memo. Unfortunately we never met because he didn't trust me.
Anyways, maybe he will understand that you don't want to be always the one who starts the conversation. If he doesn't, maybe you should tell him how you feel.
LDR's are not easy and sometimes they can be stressful and confusing. So make sure that you guys are on the same page.
Let it flow and not care so much. It doesn't matter who initiates as long as the result is there. Don't let something insignificant like this come between you.
I can't speak for him, but personally I hate calling or video chatting. Just not my thing. I'd rather just text if it's not in person. I don't know why I hate it so much (doesn't matter who it's with either), I just do.
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Well he maybe thinks he earned that after he has introduced you to his parents, but still shouldn't always initiate the calling if it makes you feel pushy, next time let him be the one who asks for it, try to make it by taking turns.
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