the only reason i say male is cuase it is usually the guy that asks the girl out for a date but if the girl asked the guy out for a date then she should pay
Personally I think it should be you both pay for your own meals to begin with. I mean yes they may have asked you out. But when you pay for your own meals it's not as tho you owe the other person back in some way.
Its not how everyone may be. But personally for me. When someone does something nice for me like spending their money on me. I feel as tho I owe it to them to stay and pay them back. And doing anything that makes them unhappy personally affects me.
I would just plan a date for them my treat. But sometimes one person doesn't have the same financial situation so it's up to the person who can pay if they want to go on dates. Otherwise just plan low cost dates like dinner and a movie at home.
If the woman plans to never meet again, then she should have the decency to pay half. Otherwise, I personally wouldn't mind paying the complete bill.
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
If you both agree to go on a date I think both should pay 50-50 each.. you can't expect men to pay for everything when you as a woman wanted a date too..
Cut and pasted from a response I made above, and I can't be bothered typing the same thing again.
The grounds for that tradition have long since past us by. It was because women weren't allowed to work and earn money, or even have money or property, so the man had to pay or there would be no date. These days women can earn so that "tradition" is used as an excuse by women to be a leach, and by men to feel they are owed.
The grounds for that tradition have long since past us by. It was because women weren't allowed to work and earn money, or even have money or property, so the man had to pay or there would be no date. These days women can earn so that "tradition" is used as an excuse by women to be a leach, and by men to feel they are owed.
👏🏽👏🏽 a bunch of low value/low calibers commenting women should pay. They're whining because they don't have the funds. A man is supposed to be a provider
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
57Opinion
the only reason i say male is cuase it is usually the guy that asks the girl out for a date but if the girl asked the guy out for a date then she should pay
I didn’t select any options. Cause I always offer to pay.
You offer, how nice. How often does that offer get accepted?
@msc545 very less right after I remove my wallet to pay the guy just pushes my hands back saying it’s ok I’ll pay. So I don't know 🤷♀️
Right, so if you really want to pay or help pay, put a credit card down on the table and tell him you are doing that - firmly.
@msc545 I did that too
Does that work better?
@msc545 nope
oh. well...
Each person pays for themselves.
If a female expert him to. it only shows unable to support for herself or a parasitic personality.
Either party who offered to pay or split expenses. No high expectations.
What matters is if you had good time or not. Money isn’t a big deal in the end ✨💕
Personally I think it should be you both pay for your own meals to begin with. I mean yes they may have asked you out. But when you pay for your own meals it's not as tho you owe the other person back in some way.
People can't do something nice for someone without owing them?
Its not how everyone may be. But personally for me. When someone does something nice for me like spending their money on me. I feel as tho I owe it to them to stay and pay them back. And doing anything that makes them unhappy personally affects me.
I would just plan a date for them my treat. But sometimes one person doesn't have the same financial situation so it's up to the person who can pay if they want to go on dates. Otherwise just plan low cost dates like dinner and a movie at home.
Who ever ask the other person out. Girl ask guy out she pays, guy ask girl out he pays
I think that whoever invites the other on the date should pay.
Whomever asked out the other should pay - YOU invite someone out, YOU pay.
However, everyone should always offer to pay for themselves anyway.
If the woman plans to never meet again, then she should have the decency to pay half. Otherwise, I personally wouldn't mind paying the complete bill.
If you both agree to go on a date I think both should pay 50-50 each.. you can't expect men to pay for everything when you as a woman wanted a date too..
Male if he did the asking or Female if she did the asking!
Men. Because it's more traditional & societal expected
Cut and pasted from a response I made above, and I can't be bothered typing the same thing again.
The grounds for that tradition have long since past us by. It was because women weren't allowed to work and earn money, or even have money or property, so the man had to pay or there would be no date. These days women can earn so that "tradition" is used as an excuse by women to be a leach, and by men to feel they are owed.
@Bee-Hatch well you can think whatever you want. You're entitled to your opinion, if that's what it is and I'm to mine
@Bee-Hatch
I agree with your reply to what Nazgol said.
I have always laid on the first date but I refuse to be a "foodie call", so I only take her for coffee.
Guy always pays for dates
BUT, women should OFFER to pay. That way it doesn't make them look like money seeking whores
Men just because it’s the tradition and what’s expected of them.
The grounds for that tradition have long since past us by. It was because women weren't allowed to work and earn money, or even have money or property, so the man had to pay or there would be no date. These days women can earn so that "tradition" is used as an excuse by women to be a leach, and by men to feel they are owed.
High quality men, have no issue in paying for a first date.
👏🏽👏🏽 a bunch of low value/low calibers commenting women should pay. They're whining because they don't have the funds. A man is supposed to be a provider
@Uptowngirl88 100%
The waiter or waitress of course. You two are so special.
Why do you only have these two options? Ridiculous.
Well for a first date I want to pay but after that 50/50 is preferable